Abrawang

Abrawang
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I've worked for a big multi-national, lived abroad for several years, travelled a lot, now in politics. Married once but separated; no kids. Generally utilitarian except for minority rights.

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FEBRUARY 14, 2012 8:39AM

Another Year on OS, Happy VD, and An Open Call

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          I still have to give my head a shake in realizing my blogiversary coincides with Valentine’s Day.  And that’s about as deeply as I want to delve into that coincidence.

          I looked back on what I wrote a year ago and much of it still applies.

 

Getting Started

          Nelle Engoron’s Mad Men posts first caught my eye.   I’m a big fan of the series and hers was the best commentary I’d seen.  I stuck to commenting for the first few months until O’Really noticed one and encouraged me to blog.  I didn’t think I had much to say but looking back over a couple of years, I’ve said it anyway.

 

Why Continue?

          Short answer – for the hell of it.  I guess that makes it a hobby.  I’ve no dream of getting published or working up to a book or anything.  Eventually I’ll just run dry; nothing lasts forever.

          What I most enjoy is that at its best, OS is like an intelligent conversation with a smart friend.  I’m bowled over by the number of good writers here; I’ve learned a lot and grown to enjoy reading topics that I never expected to read.  Like Damon Walter’s West Coast serial that at times reminds me of Kerouac or Hammett.  Or Algis Kemezys’ photography.  Or the quirky life incidents from folks I don’t know, who I didn’t know existed a year or two ago and whom I’ll probably never meet.

 

Choosing Topics

          Partly it’s whimsical, partly by default, and sometimes there’s an interesting Open Call.  Of the posts I read and comments I make, most are political; my main interest.  But I seldom post because I usually find that writers like old new lefty, Kent Pitman, Steve Klingaman, Fay Paxton, Paul O’Rourke or Tom Cordle have beat me to it and done it better than I could.  So I’m happy enough just commenting.  I did have one serious post on the Obama voting decision (Not For the Republicans AND Not For Obama? - Not I) and I’ll revisit that in the fall. 

          From time to time I’ll single out a musician whose work I think is under-recognized.  So far that includes Mercedes Sosa, Tom Robinson, Roxy Music, Albert Lee, Lhasa de Sela, Steve Winwood and Elis Regina.  It’s a labor of love.  If I waited till I could write about music to the standards of LuminousMuse or Various Artists, well, ‘nuff said.

          A year ago I’d only just begun to write about my traveling days.  There was one I struggled with for several months.  As I wrote a year ago “there’s one travel story I’m wrestling with.  It involves an ill-considered office romance that turned into a triangle that may have involved workplace sabotage that endangered my career and actually led me to the one time in my life where I thought suicide should be among the options under consideration.  Thanks to some tips I gleaned from Fusun’s Karma series, I was able to come up with my adventures with a femme fatale named Tamara.  It was a relief to get that out.

 

Favorite Bloggers

          Well, you can actually look it up.  I’ve mentioned my political & musical favorites.  Others I’d like to single out would be, Cranky Cuss, Scarlett Sumac, dirndl skirt, Fusun, Lea Lane, Mary Stanik, Margaret Feike, Linda Seccaspina, Lucy Mercer, Alan Nothnagle, LuminousMuse and Bellwether Vance.  I find pretty much everything they write worth reading.  And I wish that cartouche/O’Really, Emma P, Dr. Spud, Saturn Smith, M Chariot and Bill Beck (is he gone?) would post more.  Of course there are several others whose posts I usually enjoy and comment on – scanner, daisy jane, Lezlie, zuma, Con, Joan, kosher, Oryoki, blu, jw, Sheila, OE, Nikki, Stim, Deborah, Brass, Beth, Persistent, AtHome, Kem, zanelle, Susie, Frank, Mark, Erica, Myriad, l’Heure, nana, Trig & Tink and that is not an exhaustive list.

          You can see how it gets to be problematic, in a good way.  There are more folks here worth reading here than I have OS time for.  And I always feel guilty if I miss one of my favorites.

 

Meet-ups

          I was lucky enough to have two.  In the early summer I was heading to New York for a few days and I was able to link up with dirndl skirt.  She is every bit as charming and well-spoken in person as she is in her Hell’s Kitchen blogs.  We met at the Barnes & Noble on Union Square and then took a brisk walk through some of dirndl’s old stomping grounds.  Later we had a light supper at a Spanish tapas café in the neighborhood.  Lovely evening out and I also have to thank dirndl for pointing me to Bellwether Vance.  I’m hoping our paths will cross again in 2012.

          A few months later an old friend of mine urged me to accompany her to the Shaw Festival in Niagara on the Lake.  As its name suggests it’s near Niagara Falls and as it turned out, near Scarlett Sumac’s home.  This meet-up was a little frustrating. None of it due to any want on Scarlett’s part.  Much of the time was spent on a wine tour which limited conversation.  No problem I thought as there was a tasting session afterwards.  What I hadn’t counted on was Scarlett’s status as local celeb.  The vineyard owner and several of the staff practically mobbed her.  I felt like I should be angling for an autograph.  Conversation again curtailed but her halo effect meant we got lots of free samples.  And as with the samples, the too-short visit left me wanting more.  By the way folks, her photos do not do her justice. 

 

What Next?

          I have a few more travel stories I’d like to get into print, or whatever this is.  Plus a few more music posts and some commentary on the presidential race.  I’ really want to thank those who read and comment.  I’m sure you all appreciate just how gratifying that is and I’m no exception.

 

Open Call

          I’ve never suggested one but I have a certain blog in mind and it seemed to embody a theme that I’m sure everyone has encountered.  Roughly speaking it’s How Did I Wind Up Here, Doing This? 

          An innocuous example is when, in my teens, I spent a weekend at a Christian retreat.  There’s a valid reason of course but as an unwavering atheist since I was eight, I wouldn’t have expected life’s pathway to bring me there.  There’s a much more sordid example that I’ll try to blog about in a week or so.  Surely some of you have found yourselves in unexpected situations.  Do tell.

          In closing, to honor the day, here’s another fave love song.

 

 

 

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I ask myself that question almost daily! How did I get here doing this? I'm so glad you write here and I appreciate your blogs. I got here because I retired and all I wanted to do was EAT. I had seen the movie Julie/Julia and thought this would be a good place to explore my dysfunctional relationship with food. I have been able to delve into my whole life here. It is amazing to me that I have such support from so many for the absolutely horrible things that have happened to me and OS means family to me. Thanks for this great post.
Thanks zanelle. OS is quite the web's oasis. With me it started out as a once or twice a week habit. Lately it's been topping out at seven.
Happy Valentine's to you too, I could never wish you vd. Glad you are here, as I approach my second blogoversary, I know how I got here. I don't know how it is I remained here, but glad I have held on. I realize how important this community has become both as a sounding board and as a support, in the variety of ways that my friends and family aren't going to be. It may just be preserving my relationships with them, and expanding my horizons (even if only in an imaginary universe). Cheers! And please call if you are in Arizona.
Oh, I loved this small treatise on why you do what you do and why you do it here on Open Salon. And many, many thanks for mentioning me in the story as a favorite. Your work is something I always want to read. Thanks again.
This sheds even more light on you, Abrawang! Your intelligence, wit and chivalry in both comments and posts are what first caught my attention, and I am honored to be included in this :) Happy "whatever you choose to celebrate today" and I see you have a birthday coming up on Leap Year, making you even more worldly and mature than your years!
I wish I knew how I wound up here? Oh yeah a good friend of mine told me every day that I should blog here.
I fell in love with the people, and their stories and their charm.
You can always go away to other places but your heart is always here.
HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
HAPPY DAY MY FRIEND
I appreciate the mention.. wow.. I am honoured.
The time does fly, doesn't it? I am always so excited when I sign in and find your avatar in my Update feed. I'm glad whenever you write about anything. Thank you for the mention here and for your wonderful comments on my posts.

Lezlie
Happy Blogiversary/Valentine's Day!! Very funny first sentence. You mention some of my fave writers here too. Glad to see the shout out to music writer Various Artists. There's usually one piece by a blogger that stands out, and among yours Abra, it's the Cat Lady story. It piqued my interest right off the bat, was full of vivid images and made me laugh. That's when I knew we'd get along.

Besides that, Um ... Abra, I'm blushing here. I'm a Virgo, you know ... we're in-the-wing, behind-the-scene folks ... the spotlight can be a bit daunting. So regarding your comment on me, thanks for your kind but exaggerated words!
I ended up here because of an ad on The Independent Film Channel 3 and a half years ago, it was a cartoon of Joan Walsh and Kerry dancing, I think, though that could have been the meds kicking in and it said, MAKE MONEY BLOGGING...and I said, HELL I CAN DO THAT!! :D

Happy VD!!!

What? :D
Happy Valentine's Day and blogoversary. A day filled with love!
Happy Blogiversary! Loved reading this interesting introspective. And this.. at its best, OS is like an intelligent conversation with a smart friend. I've never seen OS summed up more succinctly or more perfectly.

~R~
Happy Valentine's Day and Blogaversary! I don't know how we all end up here, but it is fun and a way to say a few things to the world, so have at it! I learn so much when I am here. Really. It is inspiring.
Firstly a happy Blogiversary and Valentine, Abrawang. I enjoyed learning a bit more about your mystery through this post and also I'm humbled for the honorable mention :o)

Politics and music are two of the topics I personally don't know much to blog about. I try to read as many, but feel inadequate to leave an intelligent response. My tastes are eclectic although there are some writers here whose blogs I try not to miss. I guess the medium has a created a community like no other, and that is what makes most people return and spend so much time here. The story of my joining has nothing to do with the movie "Julie and Julia" - it's rather unusual. I'll think about whether I'll respond to your open call.

Thank you for this engaging post and may you share many more anniversaries with your OS family.
The video: So romantic and evocative of the Southwest and parts of Latin America. You know I enjoy your posts, your remembrances, and your thoughtful input on everything. We are so lucky to have someone like you here sharing yourself with us. Happy Valentine's Day, corazón.
I accept your Open Call! The moment I read the challenge, I had an immediate image in my head of the one time I really, actually, thought those very words. I mean, I've done some things where after the fact I wondered, "What possessed me to ...?" But so far, there is only one time in my whole 51 years so far where those words actually echoed and reverbrated through my mind.

It also reminds me of one of those bands you might consider should get more attention (but then maybe they get enough as it is) and that would "The Talking Heads." I constantly find the words from the song, "Once in a Lifetime," flitting past me and the lyric lines change depending on circumstances.

Sometimes it's, "Same as it ever was, same as it ever was," and other times it's, "And you may ask yourself, 'Where does that highway go to?' And you may ask yourself, 'How did I get here?' " Still other times, I look around me and think, "Letting the days go by, water flowing underground..."

I've enjoyed almost all the posts of yours that I have read. Oddly, I will reach a year's time here in May. I spent the first four months of my OS life doing nothing but reading and commenting, even though I was recommended to come here to practice my writing.

I had an Enligish Professor who admonised us, her students, "You cannot learn to write well if you do not read writing that has been written well to begin with." While I don't necessarily completely buy into her perception of what qualifies as good writing (because I still love my old comix memories) I think, on the whole, she is correct.

What I have been reading here is more than I can easily ingest. There are way too many more writers out here in OS that I simply don't have the time to read, much as I enjoy the overall smashup of talent here. How do I find the time to write as well if I read only? I couldn't possibly read all the worthwhile posting here if I never commented or posted my own stuff.

I'm clearly gettting short changed by not having a super computer brain that can ingest 500 posts a minute, while posting 5 a minute of my own. I can't wait for the day when they can just plug my brain into the net and let me surf the virtual seas at fifty nanoseconds per article.

Until then, I think this is one of the best places for me to peruse.

Oh, yeah: Happy VD? Are you kidding me? You're wishing us a Happy Venereal Disease? Really?

Oh. Right. Valentine's Day.


That's different.


Never mind.



--R--
Congrats my friend and thanks for the shout out. I have a special coming up in a few days to write about. Please tune in and I'm glad to share OS with a gentleman such as yourself!
Happy blogiversary. Thanks for the mention and compliment. I think the delay from Mad Men is that they might be worried they can't live up to Nelle's posts (and commentary). More travel posts!
nice recap and reasons. i always find something interesting to read on your blog, abra. happy anni!
Great post, thanks for the links. I'll use them like a launching pad to read some and make a list for me.
Happy Anniversary, and I'm flattered by the shout out from you (And Scarlett). You're one of a group of writers on here whose postings I never miss as they are always filled with intelligence, humour, telling details, and insight (and good taste). I particularly enjoy your pieces on your days when you were jet setting around for the multi-national and the cast of characters you encountered and interacted with. It plays out like a movie in my mind.

As for how I got here, I stumbled here via a link after having read "big" Salon since the late 90s, enjoyed the diversity of what I read and decided to join the circus! And I'm glad I did. If there is any one writer on here who really made me want to join, it would be Rosycheeks. She's been absent from OS for some months now, and I truly miss her posts and presence here. I hope she's ok.

Here's hoping that you don't "run dry" soon.
Oryoki – Looking forward to your blogiversary (I guess the spelling convention isn’t yet settled). With you re the sounding board. I find the anonymity allows me to say or write things I wouldn’t under my own name.

Mary – My pleasure. I hope you don’t tire of the place before I do as I’m convinced you’re sitting on a reservoir of juicy airline and Washington anecdote.

dirndl – Chivalry!?! Hey, this post was wholly non-fiction. The meet-up went down exactly as written, subject to any factual amendments your care to raise. I’m just happy to be a participant on a site where there are so many good writers.

Linda- I hope you’ll expand on your entry here. But that wasn’t entirely what I had in mind for the OS. I mentioned the Christian retreat in my own case. I was thinking more of how you or anyone else found themselves in some situation that seemed at odds with the person they thought they were. Arriving at OS is but one example.

Lezlie – I’m always happy to comment. Aside from enjoying the exchange, it’s also a very small price to pay for the product that someone else has put considerable energy and talent into producing.

Scarlett – No exaggeration whatsoever. Perhaps having an eager avid fan base is an everyday occurrence for some, but I was impressed. If I can make my way back in 2012 maybe we could find somewhere that has yet to cotton on to your celebrity. That gives you several months to think of a place.

Tink – I suspected as much. And who needs to work when your Tip jar is overflowing? You add a unique dimension to this joint, in a good way of course.

Lea – Thank you. And as much as I enjoy writing these comments, I suspect your Valentines’ Day will go more swimmingly than my own. By the way, I have a special fondness for travel stories so I hope you have a few more in the works. And I see that like Oryoki, you’re in the blogoversary camp.

Unbreakable – It’s true isn’t it? I’ve seen the viciousness of the comments on other sites and I’m grateful for the civility here. That doesn’t dispense with differences of opinion but for the most part the exchanges don’t devolve into ad hominem acrimony. Love your spelling.

Sheila – Blogaversary – a new entry. We really ought to have an OS Council on the matter. And like you I find it keeps my wits sharp and my mind, if not expanded then at least uncontracted.
Happy V. Day and blog-iversary, Abra, and thanks for the kind mention. I'll put my mind to your open call - that thought goes through my head daily. And I can't wait to read your Christian camp experience - I'm just imagining little Abra singing kum ba yah and making lanyards.
Fusun – I’m sure that each of us has subjects about which we feel incapable of writing about. For quite a while wring about a difficult time in my life was one. Until I saw how you treated something similar, I couldn’t come up with the “voice” in which to do it. I saw Julie and Julia after having started here so it was fun catching the reference. But I wonder how many people got their start from the film.

Deborah – And I’m glad to have gotten acquainted with you and your writing. OS would benefit from more Latino/a points of view. Lovely video isn’t it, though as I was coming home tonight and saw all the romantic pairs heading out for dinner, Joe Jackson’s Happy Loving Couples is what came to mind.

dunnite – You’ve already posted something of the sort in that remarkable Killing Me Softly blog. Like you I was a few months just commenting before I took the plunge. But I’ve no doubt you have plenty more to offer. Glad to have gotten to know you this past year.

scanner – I think of you as one of OS’s real success stories. Although I doubt I know even half the story, many of us, and I include myself in this grouping, would have succumbed to substance abuse and depression if confronted with your hard times and ongoing ailments. But you’ve worked hard and it shows. Good on you. But gentleman? I really must get this sordid How Did I Wind Up Here blog written. There was one night in Rio where I felt anything but.

Damon – Coming from someone who really knows how to write, thanks very much. As for travel stories, my recent one on hash brownies covers some high times in Amsterdam.

femme – Thanks very much. I’ll keep plugging away but I don’t expect to ever reach that ease of expression that seems to come so naturally to you and several others here.

guss – Nice to make your acquaintance. If you stick around you’ll see there are lots of good writers covering a wide variety of topics. Some are bound to please you.

Various – Thanks. Maybe one day I’ll catch a wave and get the knack for writing about concerts. Meanwhile it’s been vicarious fun reading about them through your eyes. I’ve heard others mention Rosycheeks too. I think she must have been posting when I was just one here a couple of times a week.

Lucy – I always look forward to your posts so whenever you’re ready, I’m there. Still a big fan of the big hat.
Abra: Now I have to look up "cotton" in that context...Also I meant to say earlier, good idea for an OC. Btw, give me some notice and the tour is on. Keep your brownies at home though!;)
Why, a very Happy Valentine's Day to you too, Abrawang. R
Scarlett - I looked it up too just to be sure. I was using it in the Brit sense. Apparently there's a southern states meaning that's different.

Thoth - Thanks and the same to you sir. I should have mentioned that I'd like to see you post here a little more often.
Just bumped into this thread, Abrawang.

Happy Anniversary.

Keep the good posts coming.

Gotta mention that my wife’s Valentine’s Day card contained the same contraction you used, “VD”!

Back in the day, VD was used only to denote “venereal disease”…and you saw VD used everywhere--placards, billboards, medical advisories.

Now STD has taken its place and VD can be used as shorthand for Valentine’s Day.

Kinda incongruous. Somehow, it evokes a sinister smile from me…and a head shake.
Would you believe it if I told you I got a little choked up reading this? The impact of OS has been pretty extraordinary and I like reading about other people's take on it.

I love those damn meet-ups now. I want more!

And I like your Open Call idea. How do you want to get the ball rolling? Alyssa is a good one to propel the project. And you're right: that idea is wide open enough to inspire tons of juicy stories.
Frank – I’m old enough to remember the precursor of STD. Thanks and I’m guessing we’ll be on the same side of the Obama Yes of No discussions this fall.

Beth – I’m touched, in a good place, re the choking up comment. I was sorry not to make it to the NY meet-up last fall. Will try to do better in 2012. Looking forward to your How Did I Wind Up Here post.
Happy Blogivesary and Happy Belated Valentine's Day!
I'm flattered to find myself on your list of favorites. I'm blushing. :) As for how I got here...I honestly don't remember. But writers like you make me glad I'm here.
I enjoyed reading this. I feel as though I've learned more about you. I like your idea of doing the music posts -- I haven't been around much, but I am glad to see that you are writing about what you enjoy. And what Beth said.
Fay - Somehow I missed your comment. This is going to look like backscratching but your own contributions are one of the reasons I'm so drawn to OS.

Emma - Thanks very much for the comment. I realize you have a longer history here, but I do hope you'll be posting more. I've long admired your articulate, elegant and penetrating style and being greedy, I'm hoping to see more of it. Damn the torpedoes kiddo.
Abra hell yeah to everything you said. An oasis indeed. Thanks for providing yet another safe harbor. r