Alex Always

Alex Always
Location
New York, New York, USA
Birthday
January 14
Bio
Seeker of truth, lover of beauty, fan of pleasure. Yogi, meditator, searching for the essence of life. My partner's lover, my childrens' loving guide, my grandchildrens' biggest fan. I love my life, my home, my kayak and my cats.

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Salon.com
OCTOBER 20, 2009 6:16PM

I BELIEVE

I believe the policeman is your friend and
grandchildren are the prize
you win for surviving parenthood. 
 
I believe that women should not
feel they must fake an orgasm and
should always have the right to choose.
 
I believe that everyone should have the
right to marry, but that couples shoul… Read full post »

JULY 23, 2009 10:26PM

How Long Is Forever?

You stood there surrounded by your unhappiness
stained shirt, old shoes, not wanting to show you cared
that you had let so much go by; looking meek and lost
yet daring me to remark.

All those years I had watched you, helpless and at fault 
as you fed your longing andRead full post »
MAY 10, 2009 11:17PM

I HATE MOTHERS DAY

Many of my recent memories of my mother seemed connected in some way to my parents' golf cart.  I remember sitting there next to my mother the day before her birthday, which fell two days before mine.  She  was looking pleased, having won yet another hole from me, her eyes all… Read full post »

Of course you are afraid of menopause, and why shouldn’t you be.  The process is still so mysterious.  When I started menopause more than fifteen years ago, there were very few books on the subject.  My mother was not helpful; such things were just not discussed.  So I was l/… Read full post »
Editor’s Pick
APRIL 13, 2009 1:24PM

SUPPORTING GAY MARRIAGE - MY GAY PRIDE OF THE BEST SORT

This letter to the editor appeared in  USA Today on November 19, 1993, which accounts for the pink tinge of the paper.  It was written by my daughter, which accounts for why I still have it sixteen years later.  She wrote it while in college in Wisconsin during a debate on… Read full post »

She holds her child still warm and wet from the womb, asks the usual question about fingers and toes, and then, acknowledging the pain, manages to find serenity in a job well done.   Later when her daughter is brought to her bedside she unwraps the blanket to see for herself theRead full post »

MARCH 20, 2009 10:35AM

The Eight Year Old Pariah - Part Two

THE EIGHT YEAR OLD PARIAH - 55 YEARS LATER

 Last night before I went to sleep, I read the few comments that had been posted.  I was gratified to see that people were so touched by the child's sadness and outraged at the mother's behavior.  This morning to my utter amazement,… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
MARCH 19, 2009 4:29PM

The Eight Year Old Pariah: Part One

There she was at my back door, the little girl who lived two houses down, in a house exactly like ours. She stood peering through the screen door into the kitchen, watching intently as I put icing on the cupcakes I had just baked for my son's 8th birthday.

She… Read full post »

MARCH 8, 2009 2:25PM

MY BRUSH WITH DEATH: A WHODUNNIT

It is 1978 and I am in my second year of law school. I am a non-traditional aged student, which is to say that I am married, have two daughters in elementary school and a house in the burbs.  It is because of the two girls that my husband takes out… Read full post »

MARCH 6, 2009 9:16AM

In God's Waiting Room

I am in Boca Raton Florida, sitting in my mother's bedroom typing on her computer.  Like everything else around here, it is old, and freezes every so often, which makes me gnash my teeth as I reboot.  I am here in Florida because she has just had heart surgery.  She… Read full post »