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Alexandria Dobkowski

Alexandria Dobkowski
Location
Austin, Texas, USA
Birthday
August 03
Bio
I was born and raised in Maine, where I attended a small private prep school and was taken into foster care at 16. Post legal majority, I spent time traveling the US, staying with friends and living out of my car. I settled in Memphis, Tennessee for several years, working for a book publisher. I am currently a writer, editor, and mother in Austin, Texas. Via Salon, I once debated with Camille Paglia over whether girls can rock.

MY RECENT POSTS

Editor’s Pick
SEPTEMBER 8, 2008 11:37PM

A Call From the Darkness

It was winter in Maine and dark early. Clear still in my memory, all the landmarks of the house I grew up in: vast rows of tall windows, the sheen on cedar planks gleaming under track lighting, a plethora of houseplants hugging the corners, all the green and gold making for… Read full post »

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SEPTEMBER 3, 2008 12:39AM

How I Fell in Love With His Brother and Morphine at Gunpoint

 

More reminscence from the wilds of the north:

 

“There’s this party up at Hermit Island, wanna go with me?”

“What’s that?”

“It’s this place that I used to be a camp counselor, a little island near Bath. It’s really cool. We all get… Read full post »

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AUGUST 28, 2008 10:45PM

Return to the Light: The Way Out, Part 3

The contrast between the environment at the shelter and the lifestyle of Meredith’s family was so stark I may as well have moved to the Taj Mahal. I continue to feel ceaseless gratitude to her mom for providing me with a respite from my life, a respite in every sense ofRead full post »

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AUGUST 26, 2008 6:47PM

It's Not Over: The Way Out, Part 2

The sun rises. I can still smell the sea on the calm cool air that morning. The flood of sunlight approaching is unstoppable and I have to make a decision. Time breaks our hearts as surely as trees break stone with their roots. I choose to pack what I can without… Read full post »

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AUGUST 25, 2008 12:48PM

The Way Out: Part One

Ever since I posted Blocking the Door, I’ve gotten questions about how I got out. It’s a long story, so I will be posting it here in multiple parts.

In the summer of 1991 I was removed from the custody of my father and placed into foster care. The… Read full post »

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AUGUST 21, 2008 12:58PM

Blocking the Door

The door was always blocked. I vacuumed in straight lines, twice a day, and if I messed up, I vacuumed the whole carpet over again. It was the same tic from earlier in my childhood, that creeping perfectionism, each essay copied over and over for spelling mistakes; never crossed out, just… Read full post »

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AUGUST 20, 2008 3:50PM

Tearing Apart Church and State Like a Phone Book

A recent post by Rahul Parikh (From the Medical-Legal Department) reminded me of some issues involving the separation of church and state raised by something that happened at my daughter’s school when she was in kindergarten (She enters 1st grade in 5 days, 17 hours and 9 minutes).

Now, I… Read full post »

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AUGUST 20, 2008 12:57PM

Ms. BLT: Worst. Roommate. Ever.

A few years ago, I took a contract job in New Hampshire. I needed an inexpensive place to stay as I would be splitting my time between Texas and the Northeast. A friend of mine offered to rent me a spare room in his house near Portland, Maine; and although I… Read full post »

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AUGUST 20, 2008 9:49AM

Stephen King on My Barstool

After reading a post that included a fun quote by Stephen King (Spoiler Alert by The Biblio Files), I realized that I have never gotten around to telling my Stephen King story.

Before you think that this is a mindless bit of star fucking, I would like to note that… Read full post »

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AUGUST 18, 2008 1:04AM

She's Part of the Team: Women in Football

Spoiler alert: Wait, can you spoil non-fiction? No? Good.

Today I went to see the Austin premiere of the film The Longshots, a movie about Jasmine Plummer, the first female to play in a Pop Warner football tournament in the league’s history.

The reason that I was there is… Read full post »

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AUGUST 15, 2008 3:47PM

Sexism+Capitalism: Rick’s Cabaret Posts 3rd Quarter Results

In the course of my work, I listen to the quarterly earnings calls that public companies hold for analysts and shareholders. Much of what I hear disgusts me, from the startling lack of sensitivity toward the nation’s working poor shown by a big oil company senior executive quite literally laugh… Read full post »