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JANUARY 6, 2012 9:58AM

President Kennedy and the White Picket Fence

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My brother has given me hundreds of slides which I find myself going through one at a time.  Each one holds a memory, some of places long ago visited, some of people long gone from my life, but each slide tells a story.

I came across a few from the grave of President Kennedy taken a week after he was buried.  The white picket fence, the flowers, the hats from all the armed services, the evergreen boughs that covered the grave and the eternal flame that was burning so brightly. I closed my eyes and remembered those days that have been etched in the memory of all who lived through it.

I remember exactly where I was when the word came that President Kennedy had been shot.  I was in my 6th grade English class - Mr. Faust's English class to be exact.  I remember that he cried when he heard the news and for some reason I didn't find that disconcerting, it sort of made him human to me.

The school sent us home early, and I remember sitting in front of a small black and white television screen for the next 3 days with my Mother, just watching the black and white images on the screen and seeing my Mother cry. One of the few times in my life I would witness this show of emotion. 

We watched everything that the television stations of 1963 had to offer. We didn't miss a moment.  When they went off the air, we went to bed, when they came on in the morning, Mother woke me so I could see this part of American history.

Mother got it in her head that she wanted my Father to drive us to Washington DC so we could walk past the casket as it lay in the rotunda of the Capital.  My Father didn't seem to share her enthusiasm for such an outing, and kept finding reason not to go.  Finally after an entire day of Mother insisting we go and my Father insisting we not - he caved and we started to dress for the drive and the standing in line. 

As Mother was packing sandwiches they announced on the television that they were not allowing anyone else to get in line to view the casket.  As you can imagine - Mother was not pleased and my Father acted like he was also not pleased but we all knew he was happy he didn't have to make that drive in the middle of the night! 

The deal he made with Mother was that he would drive us down to Arlington National Cemetery the following weekend so we could walk past the grave.  He kept his word and I remember it like it was yesterday.  I was only 11, but some things, some places, some emotions never leave you.  if I'm still enough and quiet enough, I can still hear the soft sounds of women weeping, and I can see grown men wiping their eyes, and servicemen standing at attention saluting the grave of their fallen comrade and President. I can hear the sounds of people softly walking on that wooden walkway that had been built so the public could walk by and I can hear the snow crunch as they walk over it. More than anything, I remember how quiet it was. Hundreds of people, dressed in their Sunday best, paying their respects to their fallen President.

It was history, and I'm so thrilled to have been a part of it. As sad as it was, I'm so honored to have seen that white picket fence and flowers and evergreen boughs and armed services hats, and that ever burning flame. My Mother - God love her - insisted...
 
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As a Kennedy historian, of sorts, I thank you for this touching story.
Mary - thanks for reading and for taking the time to comment.
This is endlessly fascinating and amazing to me!
Thanks so much Kate - appreciate your reading and taking the time to comment.
a sad part of our history. thanks for sharing the pictures and your memories.
An enjoyable and touching memory. These pictures are especially valuable when one considers that this gravesite design only lasted a few years before being replaced with the modern flagstone design.
Interesting post. I was a year ahead of you in school and saw the site a few years later. I often wonder how those three days changed us as a generation--old enough to somewhat understand, but not old enough to fully process.
How fortunate for that you got to be there at just the right time. -R-
Beautifully told, Barbara. I had just finished Army basic training, and on Nov. 22 was flying to my next training station at Fort Devens, Mass. Our plane had landed in Philadelphia for refueling when an Air Force officer ran up and told us what had happened in Dallas. No word yet on whether Kennedy had survived. We took a bus from the airport at Worcester and drove through Boston on our way to Devens. That's where I saw my first ever sight of a newsboy on the street selling EXTRAs. Bus stopped and the kid sold all of his papers to us. Headline said Kennedy was dead. First three or four paragraphs described the shooting and death pronouncement. Then the story picked up after the plug-in new lead: ..."Tomorrow, JFK is scheduled to speak at..." A real catch for collectors, but most if not all of us left our papers on the floor of the bus. We were stunned with disbelief.
Touching. And interesting photos. I can't imagine what that time period must have felt like.
I was in high school French class when I got the terrible news. Kennedy's actual policies were those of a cautious moderate Democrat, but the soaring rhetoric that came from his speechwriters and his own dry humor were a break from the conformist blacklist worries of the 1950's. I think he was on his way to greater things after the near global disaster of the Cuban Missile Crisis as well as the pressure that was put on him by our domestic civil rights movement. Read his American University speech sometime.

Imagine just for a moment that the had assassin missed and that JFK decided not to launch a full scale invasion of Vietnam like LBJ. Life on this plant might well have been a lot better today. A whole lot better.
I was at Ft. Dix NJ. It was my 4th day in the Army and we were being given a speech by an Army Chaplain when the word came.

I took a tissue from my pocket.

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This is a special post. I am glad your mom was who she was, and that someone had a camera with too. The pieces of our life's puzzle is owed to the likes of our mothers, our fathers, our sisters and our brothers, everyone who was close at hand, who took us places to witness things, to be a part of history, even if it was just our own personal history, who took the pictures so we would not forget.
Ms. Lemon – Thanks so much for reading. Appreciate your comments ♥

Piper – thanks so much for reading and for taking the time to comment. The pictures are most certainly a treasure. I found more taken in the spring of 1964 with the white picket fence still in place.

Jlsathre – I’m not sure how it changed me, but being a part of it certainly stayed in my memory. Perhaps that in itself means that it changed me more than I knew. Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment.

Christine – I can thank my mother for that – and my father for keeping his promise! Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment.

Matt – Wow – yours is also a story that should be told, and don’t you wish you had that newspaper now? Thanks so much for reading and for taking the time to comment. I appreciate it.

Blue – It was an amazing time – and it was only because of my mother that I understood the importance of what was happening. I have to thank my father for the photos. For taking them, and for making sure they were kept safe through the years. Thanks for reading and for taking the time to comment.

Bob – You know – I think of these things quite often. We will never know but I often wonder what America would look like had he lived. Thanks so much for reading and for taking the time to tell me your story.

Toritto – Thanks for sharing your story with me. I’m sure you felt it in ways those of us not in the service would understand. Thanks also for reading and taking the time to comment.

Sheila - ♥♥ my friend. Thanks so much.
Thank you for sharing. I was much younger when it happened and yet I always remembered when my father came home to tell my mother. There were no tears. Just stunned silence. I lived in the desert. This is the first time I saw pictures of the site with snow. I had no idea there had been snow.