..It's All About The Journey...
MY RECENT POSTS
- Mother’s Day without a
Mother.
May 06, 2013 09:27PM - In the end – the only thing
that matters - is love.
May 01, 2013 02:07PM - Full Circle: Returning to
where one started.
April 09, 2013 08:43PM - Who Are You to Judge Jodie
Foster?
January 14, 2013 04:47PM - How do Gays and Lesbians talk
to Republicans?
October 25, 2012 11:50AM
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May 01, 2013 11:04PM - “Oh Joanie - bring on the
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supposed to be in my
lif…”
April 10, 2013 07:34PM - “Never forget - indeed.
Great piece,
Sheila.
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April 10, 2013 11:47AM
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English - Does Anyone Speak English?
I found myself in a Starbucks on Saturday afternoon in the middle of this Outlet Mall that my partner Susan was walking her way through. I ordered my iced green tea, found a table and sat with my laptop surfing the web and writing off and on.
After about a half… Read full post »
10 Reasons Why I Could Never Vote for Mitt Romney
There are a myriad of reasons that I could never, ever push the little button beside Mitt Romney’s name in this November’s election for President of the United States of America. Here, in no particular order, are my top 10 reasons.
1. He’s a Mormon…… Read full post »
Memorial Day 101
Did you know that Memorial Day is a day set aside to honor those who have died in service to the United States of America? Did you also know that Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day? I hate to burst your 3-day weekend bubble, but, it’s not about heading to… Read full post »
Pomp and Circumstance: The Lessons of Graduation
This is the time of year when we all are forced to travel down the road of High School Graduation. Be it our own Grandchildren or shows on television, we are once again reminded of that fateful day when life as we knew it as children was over.
It’s been… Read full post »
Why is it the women taking one for the team?
I wish I understood what was really happening here in the United States. I’ve tried to sit back and not judge - but just read and listen and really try and understand what is going on. I’ve tried – I really have.
I’m a woman who is going to turn… Read full post »
Alcohol Addiction: Can we talk about it now?
Do you think we well really ever address the issue of alcohol in this country? Ever?
Does it say nothing to you that when watching an NFL football game we have to endure commercials that sell us beer, drugs so men can have erections, and whatever a woman in a bikini… Read full post »
Susan G. Komen and the Anti-Abortion Poo
I’ve taken a few days to digest the whole Susan G. Komen for the Cure debacle. I didn’t want to jump into the fray without at least reading all sides of this shameful story.
I can smell politics a mile away, and this story smells of Republican, Evangelical – Anti-abortion… Read full post »
Does football really need children selling religion?
There we were watching the Denver Bronco’s play the New England Patriots in the Playoff game. Imagine our surprise when on the television came little children reciting the Bible to us. We kept watching waiting to see what was really happening in this commercial. Well, what was really happ… Read full post »
Do you look at old pictures and wonder where you went?
I learned about life from Stephen King. Who knew?
Stephen King wrote a book – 11/22/63 – about a man who went back in time to stop Lee Harvey Oswald from killing President Kennedy. Now, I’ve never read a Stephen King book, I’m not much into the whole The Shining/Salem Lots thing. Horror books, horror stories are just not my… Read full post »
The Senate and the military policing of America
After reading last night that our United States Senate has voted to let the military detain Americans indefinitely, I turned off my computer, raised my arms to the sky and said: “WTF???”
I had hoped this morning that I would read something that would calm me, and make me feel a… Read full post »
Republicans and their gay-bashing candidates for President
Mothers and Daughters - It doesn't have to be complicated.
I was sitting at Starbucks this rainy afternoon enjoying a hot chocolate with whipped cream when I noticed a mother and her daughter sitting across the coffee table from me in the two high backed comfy chairs. The little girl may have been 3 or 4 and was beside herself with… Read full post »
A Veteran's Tribute to my Great Grandfather

My great grandfather Emanuel served our nation fighting for the Union Army in the Civil War. He enlisted in Company E, Pennsylvania 99th Infantry Regiment on August 24, 1861. He was mustered out on March 15, 1864. His name is engraved on the Pennsylvania Monument on the Gettysburg Batt… Read full post »
Joe Pa - say it isn't so...
I grew up in southeastern Pennsylvania, and that meant a couple of things; we shared the road with Amish buggies, our little town had at least four churches, we walked to school, and we loved Penn State Football. It was in our DNA – Penn State football and Joe Paterno.
The Woman honoring her Veteran at the Cemetery
As Veteran's Day comes upon us, I thought it right and just that I post these pictures I took at Ft. Rosecrans Cemetery here in San Diego, CA.
It was Memorial Day, and I wanted to go pay my respects. This woman in the white jacket captured my lens as… Read full post »
The World Does Not Revolve Around Me!
I’ve been reading the book “The Four Agreements.” It was first published in 1997, so I’m a little late to the finding peace in a crazy world. Then again, in the 19 years since the book was published, the world is a little crazier, ruder, and a whole lot harde… Read full post »
...God help me - here come the Holidays...
So, here we are once again ensconced in that American tradition known as; “The Holiday Season.” That time of year from Halloween to New Years. Actually, I think it starts in August when Costco starts putting out their Christmas decorations and filling their aisles with toys and booz… Read full post »
...Celebrating a 70th Birthday...
I spent the weekend helping my partner Susan celebrate her 70th Birthday. It was a weekend of parties, brunches, cake, gin & tonics, laughter and lots and lots of love.
On this, the morning of her 70th Birthday, we find ourselves in our jammies enjoying a fresh cup of coffee,… Read full post »
...I've joined the ACLU - I had to do something...
So, yesterday I joined the ACLU - The American Civil Liberties Union. I wish I were speaking to my brother because this little bit of news would make his head explode!
I never understood the disdain my brother has for the ACLU. Then again – my brother is a racist, a… Read full post »
The Rude, Inconsiderate, Stupid Americans
When did rude, inconsiderate and stupid become the American way? I only ask because it appears to me that folks are becoming ruder, more inconsiderate and way more stupid. Is it because I’m getting older and have no patience, or have we been taken over by the mentality of The Housew… Read full post »
Moms Apple Pie and the Promise of America.
Yesterday we decided to take a drive up to the mountains of San Diego County, to a little town called Julian and enjoy a little fall foliage, and indulge in a piece of Moms Apple Pie. Seriously, there is a pie shop called Moms. The drive takes about an hour, and the… Read full post »
...Occupy My Life...
Occupy My Life is a grass-roots organization with the intent of me getting my life in some sort of order. Like Occupy Wall Street, San Diego, Los Angeles, Philadelphia… it’s an organization that has wonderful intentions; it’s just that its purpose is unclear!
I began to thin… Read full post »
Don't blame your parents for who you are!
Susan and I were talking last night about being in relationships where little or no affection is involved. I made the statement that even though I wasn’t there physically for my ex-husband, I was there for him emotionally, and I supported his decisions and his career; Blah, Blah, Blah&hel… Read full post »
Returning to the Land between Canada and Mexico
My partner Susan and I have just returned from a two week excursion in the United Kingdom to visit our son and his family, with a few days in Paris thrown in for good measure.
It was my first trip out of the United States, so I went with much… Read full post »

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