And yet...
MY RECENT POSTS
- I Am Done Now
August 28, 2009 09:14AM - To the Young People Who Write
Me About Sexless Relationships
August 22, 2009 09:21AM - Can I Take a Pill for This?
(sexless marriage)
August 14, 2009 03:26PM - She Is So Good and Kind to Me.
Thank You, OS
July 20, 2009 11:35PM - The Opera. I Wish To Go.
July 04, 2009 05:46PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Hi, E,
Thinking
about you and this post. If I
may...
I know those
anniversaries a…”
November 30, 2009 08:31PM - “I am so sorry to read
this. I well know how hard
this can be
on a
relationship.…”
November 21, 2009 11:26PM - “You're right, dear. All
relationships need tending
and
attention, even
platonic…”
November 17, 2009 11:00PM - “I see growth. Roots.
Growth. Growing upward and
also sinking
in, holding
on.
You
m…”
October 27, 2009 09:28PM - “Oh, I so get this. I am
nine years in as a caregiver.
It
remains hard, but it
ten…”
October 15, 2009 09:42PM
November 30, 2009 08:31PM
“Hi, E, Thinking about you and this post. If I may... I know those anniversaries are hard to ignore - I am so damn good at remembering dates, even the r…”
About: milestones
“Hi, E, Thinking about you and this post. If I may... I know those anniversaries are hard to ignore - I am so damn good at remembering dates, even the r…”
About: milestones
November 21, 2009 11:26PM
“I am so sorry to read this. I well know how hard this can be on a relationship. Your humor is a gift to you both, I'm sure.”
About: Honey, Can I Have Money For A Hooker? Please?
“I am so sorry to read this. I well know how hard this can be on a relationship. Your humor is a gift to you both, I'm sure.”
About: Honey, Can I Have Money For A Hooker? Please?
November 17, 2009 11:00PM
“You're right, dear. All relationships need tending and attention, even platonic friendships and work relationships. Our primary relationships/marriage…”
About: Betrayed - a comment
“You're right, dear. All relationships need tending and attention, even platonic friendships and work relationships. Our primary relationships/marriage…”
About: Betrayed - a comment
October 27, 2009 09:28PM
“I see growth. Roots. Growth. Growing upward and also sinking in, holding on. You may react to seeing her for a long time, dear. Maybe try to find a way…”
About: Betrayed - a drawing
“I see growth. Roots. Growth. Growing upward and also sinking in, holding on. You may react to seeing her for a long time, dear. Maybe try to find a way…”
About: Betrayed - a drawing
October 15, 2009 09:42PM
“Oh, I so get this. I am nine years in as a caregiver. It remains hard, but it tends to go in and out of crisis stage; I hope that's what happens for yo…”
About: The Caregivers Lament
“Oh, I so get this. I am nine years in as a caregiver. It remains hard, but it tends to go in and out of crisis stage; I hope that's what happens for yo…”
About: The Caregivers Lament
October 12, 2009 06:50PM
“"Could I then be expected to answer anything else other than, "Yes, I feel horrible."? Even if it was not one of the worst days I had e…”
About: Knit one, pearl one...just don't be yourself.
“"Could I then be expected to answer anything else other than, "Yes, I feel horrible."? Even if it was not one of the worst days I had e…”
About: Knit one, pearl one...just don't be yourself.
September 23, 2009 10:02AM
“This is very beautiful, Lea. Thank you for sharing it with us. You give us much to hope for.”
About: The Inner Journey I Had to Take: Two Weeks Alone on a Cliff
“This is very beautiful, Lea. Thank you for sharing it with us. You give us much to hope for.”
About: The Inner Journey I Had to Take: Two Weeks Alone on a Cliff
September 22, 2009 10:02PM
“I so get that - the part about the anger responding in ways you wish you hadn't. But, you did, and really... many of us would have, too. Maybe though…”
About: I Left Him By the Side of the Road - in the Pouring Rain
“I so get that - the part about the anger responding in ways you wish you hadn't. But, you did, and really... many of us would have, too. Maybe though…”
About: I Left Him By the Side of the Road - in the Pouring Rain
August 28, 2009 11:57PM
“Gosh, we had such different experiences with the feminist movement. I felt empowered, emboldened, and that the world had opened up to me. I saw feminis…”
About: I Used to Be a Feminist...
“Gosh, we had such different experiences with the feminist movement. I felt empowered, emboldened, and that the world had opened up to me. I saw feminis…”
About: I Used to Be a Feminist...
August 28, 2009 08:50AM
“Ralph, don't cry. How I have appreciated your kind comments and PMs to me. Thank you.”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“Ralph, don't cry. How I have appreciated your kind comments and PMs to me. Thank you.”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 28, 2009 08:49AM
“Thanks for reading, elsma03. I'm very glad things have turned out better for you. It sounds like you made the right decision for you. Thank you for sha…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“Thanks for reading, elsma03. I'm very glad things have turned out better for you. It sounds like you made the right decision for you. Thank you for sha…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 26, 2009 10:20PM
“I'm so sorry. So very sorry.”
About: My Husband Suffered the Same Brain Cancer as Ted Kennedy
“I'm so sorry. So very sorry.”
About: My Husband Suffered the Same Brain Cancer as Ted Kennedy
August 26, 2009 12:16AM
“Thanks, Karin. I'm so sorry you've ever known this truth. Gwen and Ash - thank you for stopping by. I appreciate the notes. I got another message toda…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“Thanks, Karin. I'm so sorry you've ever known this truth. Gwen and Ash - thank you for stopping by. I appreciate the notes. I got another message toda…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 26, 2009 12:03AM
“You are a fine writer. Please don't think otherwise. I hope that by now, as it's been almost two years, (yes?) that you've moved far into the forgivenes…”
About: Betrayed - the first week.
“You are a fine writer. Please don't think otherwise. I hope that by now, as it's been almost two years, (yes?) that you've moved far into the forgivenes…”
About: Betrayed - the first week.
August 24, 2009 11:01AM
“I'm so sorry. I understand this well. I know how hard it is to be the one trying to help, and there is so little, if anything you can do to alleviate…”
About: The Face of Pain
“I'm so sorry. I understand this well. I know how hard it is to be the one trying to help, and there is so little, if anything you can do to alleviate…”
About: The Face of Pain
August 23, 2009 10:33PM
“noah tall, I guess having access to adult material as a young child could lead to the knowledge you mentioned. I get that. Thank you, Kenneth. Mostly,…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“noah tall, I guess having access to adult material as a young child could lead to the knowledge you mentioned. I get that. Thank you, Kenneth. Mostly,…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 23, 2009 03:36PM
“BuffyW - I'm not sure if your comment is a good thing or not. I mean, I hope you don't wish you had written t due to having a similar experience. But…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“BuffyW - I'm not sure if your comment is a good thing or not. I mean, I hope you don't wish you had written t due to having a similar experience. But…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 22, 2009 07:25PM
“HB - Thank you. I'm trying. I hope to at least offer what I've learned. Cartouche - I appreciate you words. Thanks. OM - I'm very happy for you. Congra…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
“HB - Thank you. I'm trying. I hope to at least offer what I've learned. Cartouche - I appreciate you words. Thanks. OM - I'm very happy for you. Congra…”
About: To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
August 18, 2009 04:47PM
“Parinaz, Sadly, you are correct. We are nine years into this situation. Nine years. All has been tried at home. When I posted this on Friday, it was a…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
“Parinaz, Sadly, you are correct. We are nine years into this situation. Nine years. All has been tried at home. When I posted this on Friday, it was a…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
August 16, 2009 09:24AM
“Thanks, John. I appreciate that response, and the enthusiasm behind it. mynameise, oh, I don't think I should be anyone's inspiration. Not at all. The…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
“Thanks, John. I appreciate that response, and the enthusiasm behind it. mynameise, oh, I don't think I should be anyone's inspiration. Not at all. The…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
August 15, 2009 02:48PM
“John, I've heard that about Paxil. I don't think I could lift a car, but maybe a broken back would do the trick. Teendoc, I wish you were my doc. I ju…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
“John, I've heard that about Paxil. I don't think I could lift a car, but maybe a broken back would do the trick. Teendoc, I wish you were my doc. I ju…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
August 15, 2009 12:43AM
“Thank you, kind readers, for these comments and the PMs. I will respond to you all over the weekend. I'm putting myself to bed now, with many of your id…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
“Thank you, kind readers, for these comments and the PMs. I will respond to you all over the weekend. I'm putting myself to bed now, with many of your id…”
About: Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
August 14, 2009 03:18PM
“Thank you very much for writing this. My spouse is sick, too, like Palindrome and others here. I greatly appreciate your words her and your thoughts.…”
About: When Thorns Become Blessings
“Thank you very much for writing this. My spouse is sick, too, like Palindrome and others here. I greatly appreciate your words her and your thoughts.…”
About: When Thorns Become Blessings
August 05, 2009 06:17AM
“oh, sweetie. You are so there with him. So there. And in that thereness, there seems to be everything. xo”
About: A Tombstone For Mary
“oh, sweetie. You are so there with him. So there. And in that thereness, there seems to be everything. xo”
About: A Tombstone For Mary
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