And yet...
MY RECENT POSTS
- I Am Done Now
August 28, 2009 09:14AM - To the Young People Who Write
Me About Sexless Relationships
August 22, 2009 09:21AM - Can I Take a Pill for This?
(sexless marriage)
August 14, 2009 03:26PM - She Is So Good and Kind to Me.
Thank You, OS
July 20, 2009 11:35PM - The Opera. I Wish To Go.
July 04, 2009 05:46PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Hi, E,
Thinking
about you and this post. If I
may...
I know those
anniversaries a…”
November 30, 2009 08:31PM - “I am so sorry to read
this. I well know how hard
this can be
on a
relationship.…”
November 21, 2009 11:26PM - “You're right, dear. All
relationships need tending
and
attention, even
platonic…”
November 17, 2009 11:00PM - “I see growth. Roots.
Growth. Growing upward and
also sinking
in, holding
on.
You
m…”
October 27, 2009 09:28PM - “Oh, I so get this. I am
nine years in as a caregiver.
It
remains hard, but it
ten…”
October 15, 2009 09:42PM
- Editor’s Pick
- 124823 Views
- 168 Comments
This is What a Sexless Marriage Feels Like
MAY 12, 2009 3:42PM EDT
- Editor’s Pick
- 7649 Views
- 65 Comments
Voyeurism. I Tried It. And Sometimes I Like to Remember It.
JUNE 5, 2009 2:31PM EDT
- 2216 Views
- 42 Comments
I Am a Terrible Spouse
MAY 31, 2009 4:56PM EDT
- Editor’s Pick
- 4595 Views
- 32 Comments
To the Young People Who Write Me About Sexless Relationships
AUGUST 22, 2009 10:19AM EDT
- Editor’s Pick
- 2661 Views
- 53 Comments
Voyeurism. Part Deux. (In Which I Am Not Very Smart)
JUNE 16, 2009 1:07AM EDT
- 1837 Views
- 36 Comments
She Is So Good and Kind to Me. Thank You, OS
JULY 22, 2009 1:23AM EDT
- Editor’s Pick
- 1284 Views
- 37 Comments
The Opera. I Wish To Go.
JULY 9, 2009 8:42AM EDT
- 2745 Views
- 34 Comments
Can I Take a Pill for This? (sexless marriage)
AUGUST 14, 2009 5:21PM EDT
- 2995 Views
- 0 Comments
I Am Done Now
AUGUST 28, 2009 9:40AM EDT

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