Ardee

Ardee
Location
Asheville, North Carolina,
Birthday
October 18
Title
Super Hero
Bio
Artwork for banner adapted from "Mister X," by William P. Marks, Vortex Comics • Blog Title from "Serenity" by Joss Whedon _________________________ A fiber artist making wool felt garments and gallery owner. Previously, I have been all these things: • architecture office manager • department store clerk • restaurant: waitress, bartender & barback, cashier, busboy, dishwasher, prep cook, line cook, manager • architecture student • engineering draftsman • graphic designer • advertising art director • magazine publisher • fanzine: publisher, editor, writer, photographer, designer • garage band manager • web designer & programmer • database (FM pro) developer • software trainer • non-profit organization staff member • ad salesman • fiber artist: weaver, spinner, tapestry weaver, dyer, feltmaker • reader • writer • sailor • runner • drinker, toker • big sister • oldest child • wife (2x) • swinging divorcee

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FEBRUARY 5, 2011 1:09PM

Honoring the fallen - A firefighter's funeral

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I am waiting for some friends to come help me move furniture to the gallery today. I had asked a woman whose husband is an EMT to ask around if any big guys were available to move some big things, and it seemed that firemen would be a likely pool of candidates. Then I got an email from her that there was a funeral today for a retired firefighter and that they couldn't come til later in the day.  OK, no problem, I emailed her back. Just let me know when you get back. Didn't think another thing about it. 

I left my little town and headed into  Asheville to rent a moving truck. I like to go on US 70, a 10 mile stretch of 4 lane road that parallels the interstate, but serves the Swannanoa Valley. It's a well-used, frequently beautiful road running through a depressed rural area that is as much my home as my house is. Today, on the way back from UHaul, I noticed emergency vehicles at some of the major intersections. Hmmm, a fund drive? A bike race? Maybe the President is going to be visiting Billy Graham again? Then I realized they were all fire vehicles. And they were at every intersection, and every parking lot along the entire 10 mile stretch of road into my town. Maybe 30 or more emergency vehicles, firetrucks, ambulances and the like. And many of the drivers were in dress uniforms, watching down the road for something. 

Ah, it came to me. I had been given the answer by my friend. A retired firefighter was going to pass this way on his last trip. He didn't fall in the line of duty, but every one of his colleagues was there to pay their respects. It gave me chills. If I hadn't know that there was a funeral today, I doubt I would have ever remarked on it. But now I see the bond that this group of people share, who are there for us without our having to remark on their presence or their passing, taking them for granted. So I am sending this unknown soldier off to his final rest also. A moment of silence for him and for all of them, while they wait.

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Taking my mind off myself for once.
Nice observation. I worked for a cemetery for a short time and had the privilege of seeing a fireman's send-off. Two trucks made an arch with the ladders over the entry, the place was just packed with uniforms, the police escort, everything; it was so moving. Thanks for the reminder.
Ardee, my son is a volunteer fireman and on the Honor Guard. When a firemen dies of old age or in the line of duty, they are given a send off that they deserve. My son does this for free, not even gas money. These people are the only thing most small communities have to out fires, cut them out of their cars when they wreck and yes, they'll even get a cat out of a tree. Special people indeed!
Respect, that wonderful word that is vanishing from our everyday lives. It made me cry to think of the love shown, the respect for one who spent his life taking care of others. Thank you for sharing this.
man, this just gets to me.
blessed be ...
Well said and Amen.
Rated.
Thanks all of you for commenting. As soon as the funeral was over, we started moving and I couldn't get back to the computer til late.

I found out from my friend that the deceased was 92 years old, and that his fellow firemen and emergency workers came from miles around to line the highway. One of the helicopters that does evacuations to hospitals hovered over the hearse the entire way, from church to cemetery. I get choked up still, thinking of this unknown band of heroes, keeping each other true, and knowing they are honored by their brothers and sisters.
If only all of our society held their code of honor and brotherhood / sisterhood.
The firemans life is in your heart and that is good.
I liked your thoughts and your attempt at sharing your feelings about firemen - rated for both you and them. Glad to be reading you again after a long time (Ardee)