The AtHome Pilgrim

Musings at a Slower Pace

AtHomePilgrim

AtHomePilgrim
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Philly area, Pennsylvania, USA
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"Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita," I find myself still asking some of the same questions I did when I was just a punk kid. The Big Things confuse me. Fortunately, though, many little things delight and amuse me, and some Big Things--my wife, our kids, our bird and bunny visitors, food, baseball--make me very, very happy. In my pilgrimage, I try to be guided by the wisdom of dear old Auntie Mame: "Life is a banquet!"

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Yesterday, I grew more bummed and bitter as the day wore on.  

Whatever mellow I had mustered in the morning (a fairly paltry stock) dissipated during a day full of dwelling on an error on a just completed project, worsened by the lack of response from the client on an actRead full post »

NOVEMBER 19, 2009 9:37AM

Humans in and out of Nature (poem)

Walking through the park,

the creek below.

Light breeze ripples the water

against the current,

corrugating the surface.

Sycamores stand opposite;

bare trunks ghostly

in autumn gray.

 

Wandering to the

bench at creek’s edge.

She lightly sits, embracingRead full post »

NOVEMBER 18, 2009 9:27AM

Bats in Our Belfry 1

The first time we had a bat in our home—in the condominium—was when Number Two Son was an infant.

The encounter took place early one morning, as summer was beginning. Mrs. P had gotten up in the middle of the night to nurse Number Two. She nursed him in our bed,Read full post »

NOVEMBER 17, 2009 9:06AM

Life Changes, But Stays with Us

The other day, we had to take Number Two Son to Princeton. It was the first time we’d gone there in more than a year, and it occasioned some reflection because a similar drive had been part of our lives for so many, many years, but had been absent for soRead full post »

NOVEMBER 16, 2009 8:53AM

On Rethinking Autumn (Minus 6,000 Words)

 

Here in the Delaware Valley, the maples, oaks, and beeches have mainly shed their leaves--certainly the Big Maple and Little Maple in our backyard have.

  

leaves

The branches of both trees are almost completely bare now. We can watch the squirrels jump from one to the other—nRead full post »

One of Mrs. P’s orchids, a Cattleya, put out two buds a couple of weeks ago. Both buds were on the tip of the same spike, and both pointed in the same direction.

We were curious how they would bloom. It seemed unlikely that they could both bloom to faceRead full post »

NOVEMBER 14, 2009 10:10AM

Thanks, House

Twelve years ago last month, we moved into our house.  This was the first house Mrs. P and I lived in together, and it was a major change in our lives.

The first six years of our marriage we lived in a small apartment in Massachusetts. When we moved downRead full post »

Back in the Dark Ages, when Mrs. P and I lived in Massachusetts, we occasionally visited a movie theater that screened interesting double features. Sometimes these were a predictable joining of classics—The Maltese Falcon and The Big Sleep, say. Sometimes they were a little more adventurous orRead full post »

What was a nice, peaceful little guy from Calabria doing in an American army uniform in Archangel, Russia, in 1918? 

He was fighting the good fight against American enemies of World War I: Bolsheviks. 

Well, he didn’t really do any fighting. My grandfather was a regimental tailor, serRead full post »

NOVEMBER 10, 2009 11:43AM

Foodie Tuesday: A Savoring Poem

A son picks uncharacteristically at his food.

It cannot be dislike; most of his dinner is gone.

Are you OK?

Looking up, surprised at the sudden question.

Yeah, just deciding what taste I want to end with.

A father smiles.   

 

Words © 2009 AtHome Pilgrim.

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NOVEMBER 9, 2009 8:50AM

A Mother Dying

What was she thinking, while lying there in the hospital bed, drip feeding her arm, respirator filling her lungs? 

Did throbbing pain from her infected abdomen sweep over her mind in regular waves? Did her belly roil, reminding her with every pulse of her tenuous hold on life—a hold markedRead full post »

Jesus  

My father had this painting of Jesus hanging in his home. When we first saw it, I dismissed it, calling it “James Garner as Jesus.” Mrs. P and I had many a chuckle over that down the years. The image seemed so perfectly to reflect mid-century Midwestern America. IRead full post »

NOVEMBER 7, 2009 9:44AM

Magical Moments from the Sky

Last year, one crisp fall day not unlike today, Mrs. P and I were taking a not-quite-daily-enough walk in the park near home when something unusual happened, something I had not remembered ever experiencing.  

When we set out, we were quickly struck by the rare appearance of the sky, whichRead full post »

NOVEMBER 6, 2009 12:28PM

It's a Tough Dating Scene, Deer

We had deer visiting us this morning. A lone doe, youngish we thought from her size, came by for lunch at the feeder . . .  

deer-doe 

. . .  though mostly she chewed on fallen leaves, of which there was an abundance. Her appearance was not unusual. Does and their young&mRead full post »

Editor’s Pick
NOVEMBER 5, 2009 8:53AM

Season Recap: Thank You, Phils

Thank you, Phillies, for a great year: an unexpectedly great year given a litany of troubles (Hamels’s arm in spring training, Harry Kalas’s death in week 2, the travails of Brad Lidge, Jimmy Rollins’s 0 for the first half, and so on). You tied history by being the first NL teamRead full post »

NOVEMBER 4, 2009 8:08AM

Autumn Kettle

Broadwings kettle in boundless sky,

white tails flashing in shining sun.

New entrants join from hidden nests,

merging into rising circles.

They soar higher, waiting for some

trusty instinct,

their signal to peel away and sail off to the south, buoyed

by the warm airy cushion that carries themRead full post »

NOVEMBER 3, 2009 6:54PM

Two Moons (with Pictures)

 This was the moon this morning.

  Moon-morning   

This was the moon 15 minutes ago. 

  Moon-night

 

Words and pictures © 2009 AtHome Pilgrim.

All Rights Reserved. Read full post »

Chase Utley smashed two home runs and knocked in four, his teammates matched his RBI output, Cliff Lee pitched well enough just long enough, the bullpen walked a tightrope, and the Philadelphia Phillies found the solution to the Mariano Rivera problem (keep him out of the game), as they defeated theRead full post »

NOVEMBER 2, 2009 8:40AM

World Series Game 4 Recap: Damn-on!

Joba Chamberlain got the win, despite giving up a homerun in the only inning he pitched. Mariano Rivera* got the save, well earned with a masterful eight-pitch, three-out ninth inning. Alex Rodgriguez knocked in the winning run, stroking a sharp double to left with two men on base in the topRead full post »

A prizefighter must learn not only how to deliver a punch, but how to take one and remain in the fight. Last night, in Game 3 of the World Series at Philadelphia’s Citizens Bank Park, Yankees lefthander Andy Pettitte took a punch and—aided by his teammates’ bats—bounced back.Read full post »

OCTOBER 31, 2009 11:23AM

Our Scary Halloween Visitor

A few weeks after Mrs. P and I married, we moved into our first apartment, in Quincy, Massachusetts. The location was perfect—the Red Line was handy to take me into Boston for work, and we were relatively close to the city farther south where Mrs. P was about to start teachingRead full post »

OCTOBER 30, 2009 9:08AM

World Series Game 2 Recap: Getting Even

Backed by solo homers by Mark Teixeira and Hideki Matsui and supported by a not quite smooth two-inning save by Mariano Rivera, A.J. Burnett pitched a gem last night, guiding the New York Yankees to a 3-1 victory over the Philadelphia Phillies that evened the World Series at two games apiecRead full post »

It was, Yogi Berra might have said, like déjà vu all over again. 

Last year, in the opening game of the World Series, the Phillies’ Chase Utley bombed a two-run first-inning homerun to quiet a rabid hometown American League crowd and lefthander Cole Hamels spun a dazzling gamRead full post »

OK, here we are, the day that no one (but me) really cared about, let alone waited for: the day I make my World Series predictions. 

In this corner, the defending World Champion Philadelphia Phillies, eager to be the first National League team since the 1975-1976 Cincinnati Reds (and only theRead full post »

Sunday afternoon, we took a walk in park near our home. This time, we went to a different park than the one Mrs. P and I had trekked through the previous week. On this gloomy, rainy Tuesday morning, I thought I’d share a few more shots of a Delaware Valley fallRead full post »