The AtHome Pilgrim
AtHomePilgrim
- Location
- Philly area, Pennsylvania, USA
- Company
- Searchers
- Bio
- "Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita," I find myself still asking some of the same questions I did when I was just a punk kid. The Big Things confuse me. Fortunately, though, many little things delight and amuse me, and some Big Things--my wife, our kids, our bird and bunny visitors, food, baseball--make me very, very happy. In my pilgrimage, I try to be guided by the wisdom of dear old Auntie Mame: "Life is a banquet!"
MY RECENT POSTS
- Friday List: 10 (12)
Un-Existential but Puzzling
Questions
February 10, 2012 07:11AM - Super Bowl? Yeah, I Guess. But
I Want Spring Training!
February 02, 2012 08:33AM - On Being Special
January 29, 2012 09:11AM - Two Views from Two Windows
January 10, 2012 09:46AM - My Epiphany Epiphany
January 07, 2012 07:34AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Abrawang: Of course. One
of his most brilliant
bits.
"Home."
JW:
Amen!
Ch…”
February 04, 2012 09:43AM - “Very, very lovely.
Here's to finding your
life's
calling.”
February 04, 2012 09:30AM - “But I love these!”
February 04, 2012 09:28AM - “I spent most of the 80s
changing diapers. (No, not
mine.)
Don't think you want
pi…”
February 04, 2012 09:27AM - “Cutie!!”
February 04, 2012 09:25AM
AtHomePilgrim's Links
- Fictionique
- Fictionique
- Travel and Places
- Longwood Gardens in Summer
- One-Stop Guide to 15 Posts About Spanish Vacation
- Things Natural
- Autumn Colors (photo essay)
- Resilience of Nature
- Early Spring in the Park
- Hearing Spring Sounds
- A Tribute to Trees, in Pictures
- Birds, an Appreciation
- Sunset in Pictures
- Animal Word Play
- Listening for Butterflies
- Squirrels Yes, Deer No
- Ode to Spring
- Life Strategies of Birds
- Things Spiritual and Philosophical
- Thoughts on a One-Winged Bee
- An Example of Balance
- Life in Words and Pictures
- Seizing the Opportunity for Awe
- My Take on the 10 Commandments
- A Peaceful Moment
- Needed: A Fresh Perspective
- Thinking About Salvation
- Thoughts on Destiny and Free Will
- Being Effortless Takes Effort
- Things Baseball
- The Meeting That Changed Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Seasons
- Baseball and Impermanence
- Baseball Broadcasters as Epic Poets
- Baseball and Life: Thoughts on a New Season
- Baseball and Life: The Tao of Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Situational Hitting
- The 1968 World Series
- Tribute to Bob Gibson
- Things Historical
- Lincoln's Death
- Sumter Crisis #1: The Dilemma
- Sumter Crisis #2: The Best Laid Plans
- Sumter Crisis #3: Sumter Falls
- The Emancipation Proclamation
- Antietam #1: The Discovery That Set Up the Battle
- Antietam #2: Prelude to Battle
- Antietam #3: The Battle
- Antietam #4: The Aftermath
- John Lewis and His Speech at the March on Washington
- Gettysburg #1: Meade Takes Command
- Gettysburg #2: Lee's Invasion and Prelude to Battle
- Gettysburg #3: The First Day
- Gettysburg #4: The Second Day
- Gettysburg #5: The Third Day
- People
- The Collected I Remember Mami
- 10 Things I Love About Mrs. P
- A Poem on Our Anniversary
- Blended Languages, Blended Love (poem)
- Another Love Poem to My Love
- Poem About Young Love with Mrs. P
- How I Met Mrs. P
- Teaching Values Through Martial Arts
- A Life of Losses
- Eulogy for My Brother
- Two Brothers
- Number Two Son
- Tribute to a Teacher
- One for My Kids
- The Parental Pain of a Colicky Baby
- One for My Father-in-Law
- One for My Mother
- Miscellaneous Entries
- 10 (12) Things I Love About Spring
- 10 Things I Love About Summer
- 10 Favorite Things About Autumn
- 10 Things I Grudgingly Accept About Winter
- Appreciating Books
- 25 Books That Influenced My Life
- Favorite Spanish Words and Phrases
- What Writing Means to Me
- First Post: Explaining the Pilgrimage
Friday List: 10 (12) Un-Existential but Puzzling Questions
Friday Lists used to be a regular feature of this blog. (Blogging used to be a regular feature of this blog . . . )
10. When the National Weather Service states the time of the sunrise and sunset for a given location, from what location does it have in mind?… Read full post »
Super Bowl? Yeah, I Guess. But I Want Spring Training!
Yes, this Sunday I will watch the Super Bowl, joining millions of other Americans in the mid-winter national holiday, when we try to see glimpses of an actual athletic contest hidden within the orgy of corporate greed, network self-promotion, and league arrogance. But my heart won’t be in it. N… Read full post »
On Being Special
One of the things that always charmed me about The Fantasticks was the frank desire of Luisa’s Act I pleading declaration, “I am special. I am special.”
Who, indeed, does not wish to be special? When I was younger, so much younger than today, my attraction to that statem… Read full post »
Two Views from Two Windows
As we looked to the south this morning, we could see only gray. A soft cloud cover gauzed the sky, not the ominous white-gray of impending snow, but a dull gray that simply daubed all color away.
The gray sky blended with the light frost on the roofs across the street, further… Read full post »
My Epiphany Epiphany
Yesterday was Epiphany, and I had one (well, what passes for one for me). Epiphany is, of course, the feast day celebrating the appearance of the Wise Men in Bethlehem to pay homage to the newborn Jesus. It also marks the end of the Twelve Days of Christmas. (Shakespeare, anyone? What you… Read full post »
Happy and Wondrous New Year Wishes
One Sunday a few weeks ago, before going Christmas shopping, Mrs. P and I went first to the park for a stroll. The day was mild for December, and the sky was blue crystal, a flawless gem that sparkled with sunshine.
The park was largely deserted: everyone was out shopping or… Read full post »
A Happy Birthday Thank You to My Dearest Dear
Friend,
lover, partner, co-parent
Spirit
guide, confessor, counselor
Teacher
of Spanish and (ah, Cuban time) patience
Sharer
of laughs and tears, of baseball and
Beethoven
Rescuer,
years ago and years later
Keeper
of the family flame
Parallel
worker and office mate
Accepter,
not judge (most miraculous of al… Read full post »
My Little Town, Part 3: Trees
I couldn’t show pictures of our town without treating you to some of its trees, since the Arbor Day Foundation has named it a “Tree City” (which means it has a government body devoted to tending trees).
Now the trees have lost their foliage, but when I took these pictures at… Read full post »
My Little Town, Part 2: Details
My first post on our hometown was about its history and contained several photos of significant or interesting structures. But as I was walking through town taking pictures, I was also very struck by some of the details in and around these buildings. Come along for a look-see.
&nb… Read full post »
My Little Town (Little Kate’s Open Call), Part 1
In late October, Little Kate treated us to some photographs and history of her home, Lismore, in New South Wales, Australia. She invited the rest of us to pile on, and I thought I’d oblige with a little tour of our hometown, Newtown, Bucks County, Pennsylvania.
Newtown was founded b… Read full post »
A Tale of Two Pears
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, . . . it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the [autumn] of hope, it was the [autumn] of despair.
We have twice now had the most magnificent Bradford pears on the… Read full post »
What Are You Going to Do with It?
“Heavy, heavy, heavy, hanging over your head. What are you going to do with it?” Thus we annually chanted as children, holding the birthday child’s gift over his or her head (or, when it really was heavy, forcefully pressing the thing down on the his or her skull), until it was… Read full post »
Red and Blue Sky at Morning
Something a little more pleasant than the post-storm photos.

Have a good day.
Words and pictures © 2011 AtHome Pilgrim.
All Rights Reserved. Read full post »
Tree Down! Tree Down! Arboreal Casualties of a Freak Storm
Not surprisingly, the surprising pre-Halloween snow storm was more than just a freakish visitor; it was also a destructive house guest. Trees still in leaf hold more icy snow than do bare branches. I don’t really know anything about trees (along with all the other things I don’t know anyt… Read full post »
This Is NOT Right!!!!! UPDATE



It’s not even Halloween yet, for heaven’s sake!!!
Oh, well, at least I wo… Read full post »
Not Saying Goodbye, Because He’s Still in Our Hearts
As a teen, my uncle became a Lutheran because a particular church had the best local baseball team. It’s not clear to me that he ever actually set foot in the church, but I’d be willing to bet anything that he never missed an inning.
As a retiree, he started playing… Read full post »
What Can I Say?
And so I labor under uncertainty here at the keyboard, torn between describing this dark night of the soul (ah, you should read those discards—very moving, very clever) and trying to use words to nudge myself toward the light, between baring my sorry soul and trying to bear my spirits upwards,… Read full post »
Random Thoughts on Painful Playoffs
If the eight position players had the guts of Doc Halladay, we’d have swept.
Hell, if two of the eight position players had the guts of Doc Halladay, we’d have swept.
If Cliff Lee hadn’t blown a 4-0 lead, we’d have swept.
If I’m Ryan Howard, I’m buying… Read full post »
Fearless (Stupid?) 2011 Baseball Playoff Predictions
First, though, an appreciation. Four weeks ago, everybody was lamenting the absence of a compelling pennant race, except in the NL West, where the San Francisco Giants were jockeying with Arizona Diamondbacks and, mildly, in the AL West, where the Wherever-They’re-From Angels had a ghost of a c… Read full post »
A Video Teaching for the Day
I don’t usually post videos, but I couldn’t resist with this one. The piece is short—just three minutes—and, I think, sweet. A teaching for the day, with a bit of humor and a lot of wisdom. Not heavy, but profound.
“Why do I spent so ma… Read full post »
A Cloudy Day
It is a gray day, the sky absent of color—a 10-percent gray screen, the kind that makes a bland one-color book printed on cheap paper look even duller because by smudging the crisp edges of black type, not a good strong 80-percent sky, promising rolling thunder and a cleansing rain (then,… Read full post »
A Foggy Day: Three Haiku
Morning
fog hugs world
Still
air envelops branches
Burned
by rising sun
War fog
crashes loud
Tumult,
jagged edges, pain
Burned
by raging fear
Confusion
of mind
Jolts,
rocks, assails, unhinges,
Burned
by nagging doubts
Words
© 2011 AtHome Pilgrim.
All Rights Res… Read full post »
In Memoriam, DLA: A Guest Poet
Two years ago today, my brother died. Today, he speaks; hear his voice.
Souvenirs
Across
the sea to keep ‘em free; send the first team in.
Won’t
take long; them Viet Cong ain’t never gonna win.
Home-grown
boys with deadly toys, trained to fever
pitch;
But
dressed in b… Read full post »
Autumn Lament: A Chilling Sonnet
Now
comes new season for no good reason,
Indian
summer days just made to tease ‘un.
Yes,
fall has colors bright and slanting light,
Tempting
playoff delights deep into night.
Autumn,
withal, makes Pilgrim’s spirits fall
When
acute shadows fall across the wall,
When
closed window locks confi… Read full post »
Friday List: 10 Proofs That God Has a Sense of Humor
10. The wild turkey. Not the drink, the bird. I mean, a football on legs with a featherless head for a handle? You gotta have a sense of humor to create that. Well, OK, the ostrich. The only creature more bizarre looking than the wild turkey. And penguins, the marr… Read full post »
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