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"Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita," I find myself still asking some of the same questions I did when I was just a punk kid. The Big Things confuse me. Fortunately, though, many little things delight and amuse me, and some Big Things--my wife, our kids, our bird and bunny visitors, food, baseball--make me very, very happy. In my pilgrimage, I try to be guided by the wisdom of dear old Auntie Mame: "Life is a banquet!"

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NOVEMBER 6, 2009 12:28PM

It's a Tough Dating Scene, Deer

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We had deer visiting us this morning. A lone doe, youngish we thought from her size, came by for lunch at the feeder . . .  

deer-doe 

. . .  though mostly she chewed on fallen leaves, of which there was an abundance. Her appearance was not unusual. Does and their young—usually one or two—are fairly common in our yard.

This morning, though, we were visited, at the same time, by a buck on the prowl.  

deer-buck  

He made a pass at the babe, but she rejected him. He responded by driving the doe from her spot and took over (I know, I know: men! exasperated sigh), as she went off to graze on leaves elsewhere.

deer-buck-under-tree 

Eventually, he moved off to the back (a peace offering?), and the doe returned to her spot under the tree. After chewing on leaves for a while, she went off as well.  He liked how she moved.

deer-doe-moving-from-tree 

The buck went to the far back, where there are some evergreens and undergrowth and a path to open space. He stood there for a while as Mrs. P and I wondered what would happen next. To our amazement, he settled down for a rest. 

deer-buck-resting 

Then the doe also settled down to take a load off her feet. 

deer-both-at-rest 

When she faced away from him, Mrs. P and I wondered if, rather than a dating scenario, we were looking at an old married couple. 

They stayed there for a good half hour, perhaps longer. After recuperating from whatever he needed to recuperate from, the buck rose, followed by the doe. He seemed to be selling (though in a not very appealing way) . . .  

deer-buck-antlers-down 

. . .  but she definitely wasn’t buying. After a few minutes, he gave up and wandered off. She munched a bit more before leaving herself.  

Glad I’m not in the dating scene. Looks tough out there.

 

 

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GREAT PICUTERS! I never tire of watching deer playing and interacting with each other. We have a group that varies from five to fifteen deer that graze on our land and I love watching them.

Rated
this is just delightful!
I'm not sure what PICUTERS are, but apparently yours are great.

Who doesn't love deer?

They're delicious.
Dating a multi-pronged buck might leave some scars!! Boy, I thought my love-life was challenging!
Sounds like a date I had last year except I got stuck with the bill instead of the buck. Great photos!
Love the photo essay, AHP! Your backyard is a lot more interesting than mine -- all we get are city birds and a stray cat now and then.
Thanks, Torman. Most we've ever had at a time is about ten, but we've had a steady stream of visits all year from three different does and their young 'uns.

Ariana: Glad you like, Ariana, and thanks for stopping in!

Duane: I think PICUTER is one of those Pokemon characters. As for loving deer, I'm with you, and Number Two Son is an enthusiastic third. He also loves rabbit: seems to feel that cute and cuddly is most appealing on his plate.

berry: Welcome! Looks like the doe also didn't appreciate the buck's pointed advances.
It's so hard to think of them as anything but wonderful and gentle.
I love to play with them, the usual game of chasey butt, except this time of year. During the dating season the males all want to play butt heads. More than once I've gotten knocked to the ground by one of those freight trains. Even if you keep a lookout posted they move like lightning. All in fun of course, when they know you and they are being playful.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QeA5ow7cS1c

This is playful.
It's probably a good thing the doe rejected the amorous buck or this post might have turned into . . . (rimshot, please) . . . hornography!
Glad you liked the pix, O'Really? Sorry you got stiffed. Wait, that was probably the wrong word . . .

Deborah: Yeah, but you're in the city! I'm totally jealousing over all the derelicts you get to see.

wschanz: Thanks for dropping in. I'm glad I saw that video after I went outside to fill the bird feeder. Otherwise, I might not have!

T Michael: I love a good pun!
cool pictures and interpretation of nature's dance. ~R~
Thanks, Chuck. Funny how at this particular mixer, it was the guy who wanted to dance and the lady who had no interest. I guess things is different in the animal world.
Deer me, it's a tough scene out there. Maybe he had a headache, or maybe she did.
Glad you enjoyed the story, Sankofa: I'm not sure the buck liked it quite so much, though. . .

Welcome, Lady Dove, and thank you!

Lea: Hers came first; his after.
Love is in the air.....

Great pictures! Thanks for sharing them. And your narration is spot-on perfect.
Rated.
Now how did I know I'd be completely charmed by stopping by here? This post is so lovely! I live in Hoboken, NJ, where there's about 12 people per square foot, so I love seeing nature stuff like this. Nature to me is my cat, the little bird nest on my fire escape, and the sweet spider I've actually been feeding!

I feel a little bad for the buck, I have to say. My friend said it's actually rare to see one in the wild. Is that true? This little mating ritual is adorable. I hope they can soon boogie down!
Unbreakable: Thank you for your kind words!

Mary Ann: Actually, Mrs. P and I got married in Hoboken, many a year ago, so I know it. I felt a little bad for the buck, too, but maybe he shouldn't have led with his antlers, you know? We see a lot of deer around here--there's a huge overpopulation problem, but not usually bucks, no. Though we've seen several this fall: we can't remember a year that they've been so visible. We suspect it's yet another sign of over-pop.
Outstanding collection of photos, AHP! I sometimes wish I lived in a more rural area than I do, so I wouldn't have to drive so far to experience the wild.

-R-
How nice was that. We don't get deer around here. We are just far enough from the river that we miss them. But when I head to the hills and see some I am still like a small child. I just feel happy to get a peek. Thank you for sharing and great commentary!
What a charming vignette. Great photos too.
Thanks, Carolina, though I had the impression you were a wild and crazy guy. ;)

Lunchlady: Glad you got a peek. We also get turkeys, but you wouldn't want to look at them!

emma: Charms for the charming.
I always look for sleeping/resting deer when I walk near the rivers. No sightings yet. Very cool that they felt so at home as to just hangout and rest their feet/paws/hoofs a bit. (hoofs?)
Yeah, it was amazing that they hung around so long: their dance and rest took more than an hour. It, ah, be-hooves us to continue to make them welcome, I guess.
This area is heavily populated with deer, but they never cease to steal my breath away. What magnificent creatures; and what a magnificent spectacle you were treated to! Thank you so very much for sharing...
Very nice pictures, thanks for sharing the deer dating story. :-)
You're quite welcome, Skye, though it wouldn't have been possible without our honored guests.

Lija: Welcome! And, you're welcome.