The AtHome Pilgrim
AtHomePilgrim
- Location
- Philly area, Pennsylvania, USA
- Company
- Searchers
- Bio
- "Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita," I find myself still asking some of the same questions I did when I was just a punk kid. The Big Things confuse me. Fortunately, though, many little things delight and amuse me, and some Big Things--my wife, our kids, our bird and bunny visitors, food, baseball--make me very, very happy. In my pilgrimage, I try to be guided by the wisdom of dear old Auntie Mame: "Life is a banquet!"
MY RECENT POSTS
- Further Strolls Along the
Delaware Canal
April 22, 2012 10:46AM - Friday List: Obit Headlines
That Should Have Been
April 20, 2012 07:49AM - Of Turkey and Humans
April 14, 2012 09:22AM - Spring Morning
March 28, 2012 08:04AM - Finding The Way (movie review)
March 26, 2012 08:11AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Talk about running the
gamut . . . .
Hope
you survive the swelter, that
your moth…”
April 22, 2012 08:34AM - “"we share the throbs /
Lingering inside of
me"
How beautiful,
that shari…”
April 22, 2012 08:30AM - “"Rather, dumping this
load of trash is a kind of
vandalism, a
very
deliberat…”
April 22, 2012 08:27AM - “Yes, some food writing
is just about snooty, and
other
examples are
self-aggrandi…”
April 22, 2012 08:24AM - “Hobbes was
four-fifths right. His
full description is
"solitary,
poor, nasty…”
April 22, 2012 08:18AM
AtHomePilgrim's Links
- Fictionique
- Fictionique
- Travel and Places
- Longwood Gardens in Summer
- One-Stop Guide to 15 Posts About Spanish Vacation
- Things Natural
- Autumn Colors (photo essay)
- Resilience of Nature
- Early Spring in the Park
- Hearing Spring Sounds
- A Tribute to Trees, in Pictures
- Birds, an Appreciation
- Sunset in Pictures
- Animal Word Play
- Listening for Butterflies
- Squirrels Yes, Deer No
- Ode to Spring
- Life Strategies of Birds
- Things Spiritual and Philosophical
- Thoughts on a One-Winged Bee
- An Example of Balance
- Life in Words and Pictures
- Seizing the Opportunity for Awe
- My Take on the 10 Commandments
- A Peaceful Moment
- Needed: A Fresh Perspective
- Thinking About Salvation
- Thoughts on Destiny and Free Will
- Being Effortless Takes Effort
- Things Baseball
- The Meeting That Changed Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Seasons
- Baseball and Impermanence
- Baseball Broadcasters as Epic Poets
- Baseball and Life: Thoughts on a New Season
- Baseball and Life: The Tao of Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Situational Hitting
- The 1968 World Series
- Tribute to Bob Gibson
- Things Historical
- Lincoln's Death
- Sumter Crisis #1: The Dilemma
- Sumter Crisis #2: The Best Laid Plans
- Sumter Crisis #3: Sumter Falls
- The Emancipation Proclamation
- Antietam #1: The Discovery That Set Up the Battle
- Antietam #2: Prelude to Battle
- Antietam #3: The Battle
- Antietam #4: The Aftermath
- John Lewis and His Speech at the March on Washington
- Gettysburg #1: Meade Takes Command
- Gettysburg #2: Lee's Invasion and Prelude to Battle
- Gettysburg #3: The First Day
- Gettysburg #4: The Second Day
- Gettysburg #5: The Third Day
- People
- The Collected I Remember Mami
- 10 Things I Love About Mrs. P
- A Poem on Our Anniversary
- Blended Languages, Blended Love (poem)
- Another Love Poem to My Love
- Poem About Young Love with Mrs. P
- How I Met Mrs. P
- Teaching Values Through Martial Arts
- A Life of Losses
- Eulogy for My Brother
- Two Brothers
- Number Two Son
- Tribute to a Teacher
- One for My Kids
- The Parental Pain of a Colicky Baby
- One for My Father-in-Law
- One for My Mother
- Miscellaneous Entries
- 10 (12) Things I Love About Spring
- 10 Things I Love About Summer
- 10 Favorite Things About Autumn
- 10 Things I Grudgingly Accept About Winter
- Appreciating Books
- 25 Books That Influenced My Life
- Favorite Spanish Words and Phrases
- What Writing Means to Me
- First Post: Explaining the Pilgrimage
What Are You Going to Do with It?
“Heavy, heavy, heavy, hanging over your head. What are you going to do with it?” Thus we annually chanted as children, holding the birthday child’s gift over his or her head (or, when it really was heavy, forcefully pressing the thing down on the his or her skull), until it was… Read full post »
Red and Blue Sky at Morning
Something a little more pleasant than the post-storm photos.

Have a good day.
Words and pictures © 2011 AtHome Pilgrim.
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Tree Down! Tree Down! Arboreal Casualties of a Freak Storm
Not surprisingly, the surprising pre-Halloween snow storm was more than just a freakish visitor; it was also a destructive house guest. Trees still in leaf hold more icy snow than do bare branches. I don’t really know anything about trees (along with all the other things I don’t know anyt… Read full post »
This Is NOT Right!!!!! UPDATE



It’s not even Halloween yet, for heaven’s sake!!!
Oh, well, at least I wo… Read full post »
Not Saying Goodbye, Because He’s Still in Our Hearts
As a teen, my uncle became a Lutheran because a particular church had the best local baseball team. It’s not clear to me that he ever actually set foot in the church, but I’d be willing to bet anything that he never missed an inning.
As a retiree, he started playing… Read full post »
What Can I Say?
And so I labor under uncertainty here at the keyboard, torn between describing this dark night of the soul (ah, you should read those discards—very moving, very clever) and trying to use words to nudge myself toward the light, between baring my sorry soul and trying to bear my spirits upwards,… Read full post »
Random Thoughts on Painful Playoffs
If the eight position players had the guts of Doc Halladay, we’d have swept.
Hell, if two of the eight position players had the guts of Doc Halladay, we’d have swept.
If Cliff Lee hadn’t blown a 4-0 lead, we’d have swept.
If I’m Ryan Howard, I’m buying… Read full post »
Fearless (Stupid?) 2011 Baseball Playoff Predictions
First, though, an appreciation. Four weeks ago, everybody was lamenting the absence of a compelling pennant race, except in the NL West, where the San Francisco Giants were jockeying with Arizona Diamondbacks and, mildly, in the AL West, where the Wherever-They’re-From Angels had a ghost of a c… Read full post »
A Video Teaching for the Day
I don’t usually post videos, but I couldn’t resist with this one. The piece is short—just three minutes—and, I think, sweet. A teaching for the day, with a bit of humor and a lot of wisdom. Not heavy, but profound.
“Why do I spent so ma… Read full post »
A Cloudy Day
It is a gray day, the sky absent of color—a 10-percent gray screen, the kind that makes a bland one-color book printed on cheap paper look even duller because by smudging the crisp edges of black type, not a good strong 80-percent sky, promising rolling thunder and a cleansing rain (then,… Read full post »
A Foggy Day: Three Haiku
Morning
fog hugs world
Still
air envelops branches
Burned
by rising sun
War fog
crashes loud
Tumult,
jagged edges, pain
Burned
by raging fear
Confusion
of mind
Jolts,
rocks, assails, unhinges,
Burned
by nagging doubts
Words
© 2011 AtHome Pilgrim.
All Rights Res… Read full post »
In Memoriam, DLA: A Guest Poet
Two years ago today, my brother died. Today, he speaks; hear his voice.
Souvenirs
Across
the sea to keep ‘em free; send the first team in.
Won’t
take long; them Viet Cong ain’t never gonna win.
Home-grown
boys with deadly toys, trained to fever
pitch;
But
dressed in b… Read full post »
Autumn Lament: A Chilling Sonnet
Now
comes new season for no good reason,
Indian
summer days just made to tease ‘un.
Yes,
fall has colors bright and slanting light,
Tempting
playoff delights deep into night.
Autumn,
withal, makes Pilgrim’s spirits fall
When
acute shadows fall across the wall,
When
closed window locks confi… Read full post »
Friday List: 10 Proofs That God Has a Sense of Humor
10. The wild turkey. Not the drink, the bird. I mean, a football on legs with a featherless head for a handle? You gotta have a sense of humor to create that. Well, OK, the ostrich. The only creature more bizarre looking than the wild turkey. And penguins, the marr… Read full post »
Celebrating Tree Skins
Soddenly, This Summer
Welcome to Nature’s shower stall, once known as the Delaware Valley. August 2011 was, we are told (and are not shocked to hear), the wettest month in history. Not the wettest August, mind you. The month wetter than all the wettest Aprils with their promising showers and all the nasty Februarys… Read full post »
I'm Your Wardrobe, Baby
I’m all you’re ever gonna need.
Like a stout rain hat, honey,
I protect your precious head.
Like a flashy silk scarf, darling,
I caress your so-nice neck.
Like a cashmere sweater, sweetie,
I warm your beating heart.
Like a cool linen blouse, baby,
I let your… Read full post »
My Small Joy (Torman’s Open Call)
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Gentle Dawn Down by the River
Scattered cars errand early,
cruising freely on drive that
soon will be more stop than go.
Steady oars break smooth water,
rhythmic dip disturbs calm air,
scullers mindful of muscle.
Walker passes stray joggers,
lightly trodden path mere… Read full post »
Friday List: 10 Reasons I’m Glad the Car Died . . .
. . . When (Monday evening about 8:00) and Where (in the supermarket parking lot) and How (Dead Battery) It Did.
1. If it had died last week, we’d have been forced to spend Mrs. P’s few days off dealing with it, or we would have been r… Read full post »
"I'll Be Back"
Late-morning sun streamed in the window, lighting patches of skin that were not covered by a piece of sheet or a part of the other’s limb. Both were purring, a languorous, synchronized hum, as the gentle air cooled their recently heated bodies, the scent of honeysuckle from outside mingling wit… Read full post »
Morning Rush Doppelgangers: Dual Departures, Dual Poems
A heavily reworked first version:
The
double morning rush (more stumbling really):
Strapping
youths loop bags over necks,
Hands
free for reading, hanging on
(Simultaneous
departure a rare event . . .
Morning rush: boys… Read full post »
My First Post Evah OC
May 21, 2009 5:39 p.m.
Where I Live, and What I Live For (with apologies to HDT)
Last year, after many years of overwork and high-on-the-“quantify-your-stress”-chart family changes, I took my wife’s suggestion to address my long-neglected spirit. I read daily in some of… Read full post »
We Need Nature
Think of the gleaming steel, glass, and plastic visions of the future that populate many science fiction movies and novels—the heavenly airiness of Sky City of The Empire Strikes Back, the constant bustle of the multileveled city planet Coruscant in the awful Stars Wars prequel trilogy, or (mor… Read full post »
Hard Work Rewarded
“It was like a graduation,” the twenty-year-old woman said. It was the graduation they’d never had—until yesterday.
Yesterday, Mrs. P and her colleagues hosted a celebration honoring a couple dozen of the adult students who had taken classes or attended tutoring sessions… Read full post »
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