The AtHome Pilgrim
AtHomePilgrim
- Location
- Philly area, Pennsylvania, USA
- Company
- Searchers
- Bio
- "Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita," I find myself still asking some of the same questions I did when I was just a punk kid. The Big Things confuse me. Fortunately, though, many little things delight and amuse me, and some Big Things--my wife, our kids, our bird and bunny visitors, food, baseball--make me very, very happy. In my pilgrimage, I try to be guided by the wisdom of dear old Auntie Mame: "Life is a banquet!"
MY RECENT POSTS
- Further Strolls Along the
Delaware Canal
April 22, 2012 10:46AM - Friday List: Obit Headlines
That Should Have Been
April 20, 2012 07:49AM - Of Turkey and Humans
April 14, 2012 09:22AM - Spring Morning
March 28, 2012 08:04AM - Finding The Way (movie review)
March 26, 2012 08:11AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Talk about running the
gamut . . . .
Hope
you survive the swelter, that
your moth…”
April 22, 2012 08:34AM - “"we share the throbs /
Lingering inside of
me"
How beautiful,
that shari…”
April 22, 2012 08:30AM - “"Rather, dumping this
load of trash is a kind of
vandalism, a
very
deliberat…”
April 22, 2012 08:27AM - “Yes, some food writing
is just about snooty, and
other
examples are
self-aggrandi…”
April 22, 2012 08:24AM - “Hobbes was
four-fifths right. His
full description is
"solitary,
poor, nasty…”
April 22, 2012 08:18AM
AtHomePilgrim's Links
- Fictionique
- Fictionique
- Travel and Places
- Longwood Gardens in Summer
- One-Stop Guide to 15 Posts About Spanish Vacation
- Things Natural
- Autumn Colors (photo essay)
- Resilience of Nature
- Early Spring in the Park
- Hearing Spring Sounds
- A Tribute to Trees, in Pictures
- Birds, an Appreciation
- Sunset in Pictures
- Animal Word Play
- Listening for Butterflies
- Squirrels Yes, Deer No
- Ode to Spring
- Life Strategies of Birds
- Things Spiritual and Philosophical
- Thoughts on a One-Winged Bee
- An Example of Balance
- Life in Words and Pictures
- Seizing the Opportunity for Awe
- My Take on the 10 Commandments
- A Peaceful Moment
- Needed: A Fresh Perspective
- Thinking About Salvation
- Thoughts on Destiny and Free Will
- Being Effortless Takes Effort
- Things Baseball
- The Meeting That Changed Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Seasons
- Baseball and Impermanence
- Baseball Broadcasters as Epic Poets
- Baseball and Life: Thoughts on a New Season
- Baseball and Life: The Tao of Baseball
- Baseball and Life: Situational Hitting
- The 1968 World Series
- Tribute to Bob Gibson
- Things Historical
- Lincoln's Death
- Sumter Crisis #1: The Dilemma
- Sumter Crisis #2: The Best Laid Plans
- Sumter Crisis #3: Sumter Falls
- The Emancipation Proclamation
- Antietam #1: The Discovery That Set Up the Battle
- Antietam #2: Prelude to Battle
- Antietam #3: The Battle
- Antietam #4: The Aftermath
- John Lewis and His Speech at the March on Washington
- Gettysburg #1: Meade Takes Command
- Gettysburg #2: Lee's Invasion and Prelude to Battle
- Gettysburg #3: The First Day
- Gettysburg #4: The Second Day
- Gettysburg #5: The Third Day
- People
- The Collected I Remember Mami
- 10 Things I Love About Mrs. P
- A Poem on Our Anniversary
- Blended Languages, Blended Love (poem)
- Another Love Poem to My Love
- Poem About Young Love with Mrs. P
- How I Met Mrs. P
- Teaching Values Through Martial Arts
- A Life of Losses
- Eulogy for My Brother
- Two Brothers
- Number Two Son
- Tribute to a Teacher
- One for My Kids
- The Parental Pain of a Colicky Baby
- One for My Father-in-Law
- One for My Mother
- Miscellaneous Entries
- 10 (12) Things I Love About Spring
- 10 Things I Love About Summer
- 10 Favorite Things About Autumn
- 10 Things I Grudgingly Accept About Winter
- Appreciating Books
- 25 Books That Influenced My Life
- Favorite Spanish Words and Phrases
- What Writing Means to Me
- First Post: Explaining the Pilgrimage
Opening Day and a New Lease on Life (repost)
Opening Day, thank God, is on the horizon. Last Sunday, while en route somewhere in the car, I popped an exhibition game on the radio and listened to an inning or two of relaxed banter interspersed with game narrative: spring training for the ear.
Each new sports season promises a new… Read full post »
Good News Monday: Because I Need to Think It So
In Memory of Tía
pencil thin
even
diminutive
tough stock
though:
persevering
glinting eye
and
loving spirit
spartan taste
fully
unpretentious
sad pleasure
when
brought by hija
joy again:
arriving
second hija
loneliness
of the
lingering life
relief comes:
hermanasunited agai… Read full post »
Showing Your Face to the World
I’ve been in the “accidental profession”—book publishing—for nearly 35 years now, and I’ve never lost my love for the variety and individuality of typefaces.*
Variety because you can choose from among serif, sans serif, or script fonts, old style or new style; indi… Read full post »
Pilgrim Contemplates a Career Change
About two months ago, when Mrs. P was on her way home from work one dark Friday in the still-chill winter, she had a close encounter of the third kind with one of Bucks County’s ubiquitous deer.
The creature came from the opposite side of the road, entering the roadway just… Read full post »
Sundays with Grandma and Grandpa: Pasta Sauce Heaven
One of my favorite recurring memories of childhood—the very opposite of a recurring nightmare—is the smell of Grandma’s kitchen on Sunday. It was the aroma of pasta sauce* cooking for hours, the aroma of famiglia—the essence of love.
In warm weather, when the windows were open… Read full post »
Family Food Traditions Can Start with Any Generation
Once, years ago, I heard that pancakes came here from Sweden. It appealed to my half-Swedish self, but it’s silly, of course, since scores of cultures have some version of a quick-cooking, griddle-cooked batter cake.
Still, it seems somehow right that my passion for pancakes might s… Read full post »
A Family Cooks a Feast
“Wake me up tomorrow morning when you do the pig.”
“Are you sure? I mean, it’s like one in the morning now, and we’ll be getting up at six to put the pig in the oven to make sure it cooks long enough.”
Number One Son was adamant: “Cousin Doc and… Read full post »
Doubly Happy (for Him and for Us) Blogiversary to Torman!
Two years ago today, Open Salon became a lucky place. That was the day that Torman, David McClain, decided to grace this site with his blog.
My man would probably scoff at the use of the word grace. He’d say, with his Texas drawl, “Why I’m just an… Read full post »
Yea, Verily, Pilgrim Ranteth, Finally
There I was, trying to write a pithy statement about the rise of identity theft (don’t ask why), happily typing along.
“The ease of access to personal information through the Internet has significantly increased the . . .”
and there, with eager fingers poised lightly on the k… Read full post »
2011 Philadelphia Flower Show: Part 2, Orchids
Ah, the orchids.
Waldor Orchids, a New Jersey grower, has a magnificent exhibit of its plants each year. This year’s was built around information about a French firm (the show was themed “Springtime in Paris,” right?) that did pioneering work in orchids. I did not read the inf… Read full post »
Finally, as promised a week ago yesterday, here are some pictures from this year’s Philadelphia Flower Show, which dazzled our visiting friends from Ithaca so thoroughly that they kept the glow after returning from the show last Sunday evening even after learning that a foot of snow was fa… Read full post »
The Blackbirds Cometh--and Goeth
Last week, or the week before, prior to the complete melt at any rate, the Pilgrimage was visited one morning by dozens of blackbirds—Brewers’, red wings, and starlings with the odd cowbird in the mix.
They wheeled en masse into the yard to feed at the feeders. Spotting the co… Read full post »
A Bit of Fun: Fictional Icons March Madness--the First?
Today, we’re going to have a little fun. I hope.
March Madness is nearly upon us, and while my taste in sports runs more to the clearly mercenary, rather than the sub rosa gladiators, it is undeniable that the NCAA tournament—aka “The Big Dance”—has spawned the cat… Read full post »
Old Friends . . . .
Tuesday, Mrs. P and I were surprised by a visit from one of my college roommates. A constant traveler, he had called from the Philly airport to say that he had just landed and would be driving to central Jersey for a dinner meeting. He wondered if he could stop by… Read full post »
The Moon This Morning—and Always
The morning sky was still black, but a patch of bright light shone on the darkling stairs when I emerged from our bedroom. Halfway down, standing in the nearly rhomboid patch of illumination, I paused to look out the front hall window.
There, suspended in the flat black sky was the la… Read full post »
Never Assume . . .
A funny thing happened to Saturday’s expectation that I was over the hump with work and would be able to visit here on a more regular basis again.
A couple of hours after I posted yesterday, our router died, leaving us without, as they say, Internet access. There was a quite… Read full post »
One Morning Before the Melt (sonnet)
Gone now the snow in all but shadowed place:
Unseasonable, most reasonable
Warmth visited for brace of days to chase
Bracing cold, respite most agreeable.
Before snow departed, still cold morning
Offered vision of seasonal contest,
As hints of spring delivered light warning
That churlish… Read full post »
Hi, Again
Hi. You might remember me—I used to hang out here . . . .
When last we met, over two weeks ago, I hoped to meet a deadline early enough in the day to come back and visit. Well, I didn’t.
And then several more deadlines loomed over the past… Read full post »
Trees Iced In, Me Snowed Under
Well, we didn’t get two feet of snow, or one foot of snow, or even six inches of now. Here, it’s all ice, much to the chagrin of the Big Maple.
(Notice that even the squirrels and birds have given up on feeding.)
The tall birch to the side of our… Read full post »
Happy Blogiversary to LC Neal (Not Written at Machete Point)
We met, I believe, over orchids. She said, I think, “You show me yours, and I’ll show you mine.”
That was tricky, because I actually don’t have any orchids of my own (not trusted with them, you know), and, while I’m afraid of the lady on the other end of the… Read full post »
Happy Blogiversary to a Doubly Gifted Artist: greenheron
OS is blessed with many talented writers and many talented artists. Then there are the rare treasures who are both. Like greenheron.
She has said (in “Green’s Fifteen”) that writing is her third love. That may be: I am certainly in no position to dispute her. But don’t y… Read full post »
When White Trees Are Good--and When They Ain't So Good
Yes, it was a winter wonderland.
Yes, today it’s sparkling in the sun like lovely gems.
But there was tons of it.
So much that the Big Maple was burdened down to, well, not the ground, but the top of the snow.
Jabberwocky OS Style
Body, Mind, Spirit United in Mush: Ann's Open Call
I am mush.
I am all softness: no hard edges;
not the cuddly innocence of a newborn,
but the bloated softness
of the atrophied effete.
My soft belly reflects an equally
mushy mind, incapable of depth,
unable to muster complexity, feeding
amoeba-like only on one-celled ideas… Read full post »





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