She is organised and I can tell right off the bat that this isn't her first tango. Early on, she lets us know that she likes to use a videocamera in her work, but only if we are alright with it. Soon, we get down to business and once again I am impressed – she really does give us both the same amount of space. Although we are not filming today, she notices a look I give my husband, as well as taking note of his reluctance to speak up and be clear about what he wants. She doesn't let him hide behind nods and grunts, nor does she seem to make him feel threatened. I have much to learn from her. Things just might work out for us.