LIFE AS WE KNOW IT

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Barbara Falconer Newhall

Barbara Falconer Newhall
Location
San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA
Birthday
July 04
Title
Writer and Blogger
Bio
Veteran journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall reports from the scene -- on pop culture, books and the writing life, on her grown-up kids, her husband, her nonagenarian aunt -- and life. Visit her more capacious blog at www.BarbaraFalconerNewhall.com.

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San Francisco Bay Area rock garden with geranium and blue-eyed grass tucked alongside moss rocks. Photo by BF Newhall

Geraniums, blue-eyed grass and a moss rock. Photos by BF Newhall

 

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

I wasn’t looking. I was at the computer all weekend with my back to the world. When I finally took a bleary look out the window on Monday morning, I saw a

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Author Lauren Winnerchecks her cell phone at The Glen in Santa Fe in 2009. Photo by BF Newhall

Lauren Winner, author of Still, taught a spiritual writing class at The Glen in Santa Fe in 2009. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Last week I posted an entry about five intriguing books that have come across my desk in recent months —

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APRIL 6, 2013 3:14PM

Seven Books I Never Read . . .

Patricia Bracewell, author of historical novel

And Patricia Bracewell’s book makes eight. I resisted purchasing her tantalizing historical novel, Shadow on the Crown, at Book Passage in Corte Madera, CA, earlier this week. So it’s not on my gotta-read list — yet. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Seven

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Barbara Falconer Newhall trying on a frumpy mother of the groom gown at David's Bridal Salon, Pinole, CA. Photo by BF Newhall

Dumpy: I tried on this fussy mother-of-the-bride/groom gown at David’s Bridal Salon in Pinole, CA, where most of the zippers seemed to stick and a stubborn one required an emergency visit to the alterations department. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

My son

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Sweeping pussy willow and dogwood stem floral design by yoko ishii klingebiel & naoko-suzuki for Bouquets to Art at the de Young 2013. Photo by BF Newhall

A sweeping red dogwood and pussy willow design with succulent paddle plant accents by Yoko Ishii Klingebiel and Naoko Suzuki repeats the rhythmic lines of Dorothy Napargardi’s Sandhills (not shown). Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall.

Nothing seems to be off limi

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kaori imaizumi of Blooming Floral Design designed a colorful bouquet for Sam Franis's

Kaori Imaizumi of Blooming Floral Design in San Francisco created a bouquet to bounce off Sam Francis‘s Helios for the Bouquets to Art show at the de Young museum this week. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

It’s not too late to catch a bus –

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An abutilon blooms in Oakland, CA, garden. Photo by BF Newhall

One of the abutilons we planted last fall — still drenched from last night’s watering. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

It’s spring in our hilly neighborhood. Our magnolia tree is finishing up its annual blast of pink and white. But the daffodils

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A WordPress blog post edit page. Photo by BF NewhallBy Barbara Falconer Newhall

I’ve been writing personal essays, newspaper columns and blog posts for years now. I’ve learned some writing tricks the hard way — by trial and error. Others I’ve just plain stolen from my various writing coaches, people like… Read full post »
A star magnolia blossom and a bud, Oakland, CA. Photo by BF Newhall
A sure sign that a story has essay (blog post) potential is
 that it looks like the buds on our magnoia tree -- rough,
prickly and off-putting. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

When I sit down to write a personal essay or a… Read full post »

A limb splits off from a live oak tree in San Francisco Bay Area. Photo by BF Newhall

A limb split from a live oak tree in our canyon during a storm. Photo by BF Newhall.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Impermanence. It’s a helpful, if not always comfortable, idea. Everything changes. It just does.

Sometimes change is a good thing:

  • My son
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Two-year-old girl enjoys her bottle in her crib with blankies. Photo by BF Newhall

The rhetorician in 1985 with crib, blankies and bottle. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

What’s rhetoric? I’ve always thought of it as the high-flown, idealistic and/or manipulative language of politics.  But really, it’s something we human beings do a… Read full post »

Snowplow clearing snow in a snowstorm at Eden Prairie, MN, Community Center. Photo 2013 by BF Newhall
A snowplow cleared snow -- tried to -- from the driveway of the Eden Prairie, MN, Community Center. Jon and I and the kids went there every day during our visit to Minnesota so we could work off the meals we sampled during auditons for a May rehearsal dinner. PhotoRead full post »

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Here's a repeat of last week's mystery lip quiz.  I've added some hints to help you out. See below for the answers -- and full face mug shots.

Angelina Jolie's lips
A. She's got her father's lips.
Lucille Ball's red lips and hair
B. This one's easy. You love her.
Jessica Simpson lips.
C. Botoxed? Or… Read full post »
FEBRUARY 3, 2013 12:19AM

How to Be a Glamorous Gal at Age 98

Main Street, Scottville, Michigan, from the south
A small country town in the Midwest. 

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

The last of my aunts and uncles died a few weeks ago at the age of 98, but not before passing on some last minute womanly advice to me.

My aunt – I think of… Read full post »

Lucille Ball and her red lipstick

Lucille Ball with her famously red hair and overdrawn lips.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

I feel bad about my lip. My upper lip.

Nora Ephron felt bad about her neck, a body part she made famous back in 2006 with her book I Feel Bad About My Neck.… Read full post »

Tinka Falconer enjoys Nordstrom Cafe chicken and berry salad. Photo by BF Newhall.

A few months before she died, my mother celebrated my birthday with a chicken, berry and candied walnut salad at the Nordstrom Cafe. Is that as good as it gets? Photos by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

My mother’s last words

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1986 home office with computer monitors, toddler and sleeping cat. Photo by BF Newhall.

Our 1986 home office with floppy disk drives, Christina, and Petunia the cat. Photo by BF Newhall.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

When my kids were still at the Mommy-please-read-to-me stage, the Oakland Tribune found itself in a bit of a budget crunch. To save money, management cut… Read full post »

Three-year-old girl in a red dress looking forlorn. Photo by BF Newhall

Christina at 3. Photos by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall, 1986

It was the smallest of sounds. So small that even Jon, a light sleeper, didn’t hear it.

First a whimper, then, “Mommy, I’m scared.”

I slipped out of bed, carefully folding the covers back so that I… Read full post »

Bride posing in her future mother-in-law's wedding dress. Photo by BF Newhall

The bride-to-be tried on my wedding gown. And, yes, that's a photo of me on my wedding day. Photo by BF Newhall.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

My son Peter proposed. His girlfriend said yes. They set a date. Her mom and dad are delighted. Jon and I are delighted.… Read full post »

A lava rock steppingstone garden path. Photo by BF Newhall

The gardener added a lava rock path to our garden just in time for Thanksgiving. Photos by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

This holiday season I should be thankful for the really big things. I should be grateful that there are no air raid sirens screaming… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 17, 2012 4:17PM

Works of Art at the Lamp Store

Hand-blown lamp by Lindsay Art Glass at Sue Johnson store. Photo by BF Newhall
 
Hand-blown lamp by Lindsay Art Glass; shade by Sue
Johnson. Photos by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

On Solano Avenue in the far north reaches of Berkeley, California, a modest storefront softly glows, luring me in every time I try to pass it… Read full post »

anne lamott at the reading for her book help thanks wow. photo by BF Newhall

Anne Lamott in Oakland. Photo by BF Newhall

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Put down the rock, says Anne Lamott. It’s time to put down that rock.

When we are in our 20s, 30s and 40s, we think we have to lug that rock around. We wake up in

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A granite boulder in Yosemite's high country. Photo by BF Newhall.

Is the grapefruit-sized rock all that's keeping the boulder from rolling down the hillside? Photos by BF Newhall.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

El Capitan, that massive cliff overlooking the Yosemite Valley, is the biggest single chunk of granite in Yosemite National Park  — and

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Loreen Niewenhuis trekking across sand beach. Niewenhuis photo.

Loreen Niewenhuis trekked across a beach beteen Ludington and Suttons Bay in May. Niewenhuis photo.

By Barbara Falconer Newhall

Walk around Lake Michigan . . . the whole thing. That was my plan. I’d start in late spring and finish up in the fall. I’d walk the

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Would my kids grow up to be cheaters? Was it possible to raise honest children in a Pete Rose-Bernie Madoff world -- where something like 50 percent of  students admit to cheating? What kind of values do we have in contemporary America?

Find out what my young son and I learned about th… Read full post »