Life as We Know It
Barbara Falconer Newhall
- Location
- San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA
- Birthday
- July 04
- Title
- Writer and Blogger
- Bio
- Veteran journalist Barbara Falconer Newhall reports from the scene -- on pop culture, books and the writing life, on her grown-up kids, her husband, her nonagenarian aunt -- and life.
Visit her more capacious blog at www.BarbaraFalconerNewhall.com.
MY RECENT POSTS
- My Mother's Goneness
May 13, 2012 04:54PM - Married 35 Years -- and
Blogging
May 12, 2012 05:58PM - A Bearded Iris -- Close-Up and
(Very) Personal
May 12, 2012 03:30PM - I'm a Meat-Eating Loser
April 24, 2012 12:58AM - My Search for a Muslim Woman
with a Story to Tell
April 16, 2012 04:06PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Just Thinking,
I'm
thinking of putting in some
Douglas irises, which are
native
to…”
May 13, 2012 12:13AM - “A well reasoned
argument. I should listen to
you more
often.
And
congrats from yo…”
May 12, 2012 05:54PM - “btw, I love your header
art! It seems that you have
a
marvelous sense of humor,
w…”
May 12, 2012 03:14PM - “Thank you, Marty's
husband. Nest time I pass the
fountains at
Bellagio, I'll
thin…”
May 12, 2012 03:11PM - “Hi Stathi, I'm liking
your crazy photos...
Barbara”
May 12, 2012 03:08PM
Barbara Falconer Newhall's Links
My Mother's Goneness
My mother liked her purse's tweedy, sporty
look.By Barbara Falconer Newhall
My mother is gone. But when she died she left a few things behind, including the love seat that followed her from Birmingham, Michigan, to Phoenix, and finally to California, where it… Read full post »
Married 35 Years -- and Blogging
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Hey, Everybody!
Jon Newhall -- a brand new OS blogger -- and I just celebrated our thirty-fifth wedding anniversary. Two kids, one house and lots of rewarding jobs later, we seem to be in it for the… Read full post »
A Bearded Iris -- Close-Up and (Very) Personal

By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I think of irises as a common, garden-variety flower.
You see them growing everywhere. Our own back yard had dozens of them growing wildish when we moved in thirty-plus years ago, and now we have a mess of them growing in our front… Read full post »
I'm a Meat-Eating Loser
Chicken wings, legs and breasts for sale.
Photos by BF Newhall.By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I’m not bitter. I didn’t win the “Why It’s OK to Eat Meat” contest the New York Times Magazine put on a few weeks ago. I didn’t even make the final six, which were… Read full post »
My Search for a Muslim Woman with a Story to Tell
Nabeela Raza Sajjad founded
Islamic Art Exhibit in 2009. Here, with her work "Creation of
Heavens and Earth."By Barbara Falconer Newhall
My book is pretty much done. But I still need to find myself a few more people to interview. A nice, talkative Muslim woman with lots of… Read full post »
Wanna Sing? Go to Church -- Or a Baseball Game
Children place flowers on the Easter cross. Photo by BF
NewhallBy Barbara Falconer Newhall
The really nice thing about Easter is -- you get to sing. Good and loud. And if you go to my church, you get to sing the Alleluia Chorus from "The Messiah," which if you're… Read full post »
In My Rain-Battered Garden — Nothing Is Forever

Dozens of camellias hit the pavement at my house today.
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Jerome, that famously abstemious fourth- and fifth-century scholar and saint, is said to have kept a human skull on his desk to remind him of his mortality. Those of us with gardens don't need a sku… Read full post »
San Francisco Writers' Three Minutes of Fame

Lauren Patti, a short memoir
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Some thirty writers and storytellers took the mic -- for three short minutes each -- to share their works in progress Friday evening, March 23, at Book Passage in San Francisco's Ferry Building. The writers had been taking c… Read full post »
Belief Is Seriously Overrated
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
As I made plans for my mother’s memorial mass at the tiny St. Vincent Catholic Church in Pentwater, Michigan, last summer, I asked my brothers and my mother’s grandchildren if they’d like to participate in the service.

Pentwater, Michigan, 20… Read full post »
Florists Put on a Lively Show for the Dead

By Barbara Falconer Newhall
It’s not often you get to do something for the dead. But every year around this time, florists in San Francisco’s East Bay are invited to put on a show to benefit the Friends of Mountain View Cemetery, a famous old cemetery at the to… Read full post »
The Spring Equinox Is Bursting and Buzzing in Our Front Yard

It's March and therefore full-out spring in our California front yard. Come visit my garden at http://BarbaraFalconerNewhall.com
I can't seem to post more than this one outrageous poppy. There's more!
Photos by Barbara Falconer Newhall
Why Am I Still a Size 10?
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I discovered a forgotten pair of jeans at the back of my closet the other day. Nice jeans, I thought. I could throw them on for a quick trip to the drug store or the plant store. I tried them on. A perfect fit.
They were a… Read full post »
Why Meditate — When I Could Be Sweeping the Garage?
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I’ve tried meditating a few times – a very few times. I’m well read on the subject, however. Indeed, I’ve spent way more time reading about meditation than I’ve spent doing it.
Why would I want to just sit ther
… Read full post »Can This Guy Make Me a Star?
Jeff Greenwald
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I'm getting out of my writing room long enough to take Jeff Greenwald's Page to Stage class at the San Francisco Writers Grotto.
It starts Jan. 17. Sounds like fun. I think there are still spaces available. Do yu live in the San Francisco… Read full post »
Our Christmas candy is gone, along with lots else

Christmas candy on December 29 . . .
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
My son Peter’s girlfriend’s mom has a lot of good qualities. She gardens, she composts, she giggles at my jokes, she adores my son. This… Read full post »
Fewer marriages -- but more Facebook relationships?
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Apparently, fewer Americans are getting married these days. (Check out the PBS Newshour story.)
But lots and lots of people are doing the next best thing: making a public declaration of being in a relationship — on Facebook.
Neither of my twenty/thirty-something ki
… Read full post »Attention Writers -- Great Writing Tips, Free for Nothing!
I just discovered a site called Nieman Storyboard: Breaking down story in every medium. A project of the Nieman Foundation for Journalism at Harvard.
Looks like there might be lots of good stuff for writers on this site -- including creative nonfiction writers.
A very helpful new… Read full post »
Yosemite -- More Beautiful than the Himalayas?
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By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Is the Yosemite high country even more beautiful than the Himalayas?
My hiking pal Al Aistrope thinks so. The Himalayas' claim to fame, of course, is all those high, spectacularly high, mountain peaks.
Yosemite, on the other hand, a… Read full post »
On the Trail at Tuolemne . . .
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Another photo of beautiful Yosemite National Park high country near Tuolemne Meadows. (It's pronounced too-OLL-eh-mee, btw.)
Photo c 2011 BF Newhall Read full post »
My (Awesome) Zumba Body

By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Trying on bras at Nordstrom the other day, the truth was all too apparent. Too much flesh here. Too much skin there.
Some of it fit into the bra. A lot of it didn't. I felt terrible about my body.
Lucky for my body image, however,… Read full post »
At Tuolemne -- Celebrating Being Alive
By Barbara Falconer Newhall, with a little help from her friends
On my last birthday, in September, I had three wonderful days at Tuolumne Meadows and Inyo National Forest in the Sierra Nevada with two wonderful friends.
It was probably my best birthday ever -- though there's maybe some forgotten bir… Read full post »
Writing Tips from Jasmin Darznik of "Good Daughter" Fame
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Jasmin Darznik was at the Book Passage bookstore in Marin county, California, Monday night for the monthly meeting of the Left Coast Writers. She had some tips for wannabe writers, particularly memoir writers.
Tip # 1: Jasmin’s New York Times bestselling memoir, Th
… Read full post »Memoiring in the Mountains with Jasmin Darznik
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I first met Jasmin Darznik back in 2006, and right away she presented a problem. We were in the same nonfiction workshop – it was led by agent Michael Carlisle – at the Community of Writers at Squaw Valley.

I had dutifully read… Read full post »
A Shameless Pitch for a Mouthy Friend -- Joel Selvin
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
Merle Haggard, Bill Graham, Jerry Garcia, Bonnie Raitt — Joel Selvin knew/knows them all.
And I’ve known Joel Selvin for most of his adult life. My husband knew Joel as a mouthy little kid who used to ride around the Berkeley hills in the
… Read full post »My week with Lauren Winner of "Girl (Woman) Meets God"
By Barbara Falconer Newhall
I wrote this post a couple years ago after a writing workshop week in Santa Fe with Lauren Winner. She’s a fascinating person. Very smart. — bfn
OK, I’m a little late in posting today. But I have an excuse.
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