I have a friend I'll call Jessie. I met her at a day program for homeless women.
I have never seen Jessie without a smile, and I have never heard her speak an unkind word. To anyone.
Jessie has only one leg. She's an amputee. She gets around in a rickety old wheel chair - the kind without a motor, whose wheels you propel with your arms.
Jessie never lets me help her with her day program chores. She insists upon wrestling with the trash, mopping the floor, and washing the dishes on her own.
Jessie lost her leg to a huge festering abscess. Her infected leg threatened to take her life, so Jessie let the county hospital take her leg instead.
The abscess was caused when Jessie ran out of injectable veins, and began injecting heroin directly into her fat and muscle tissue.
Jessie sleeps under a bridge at night. She urinates and defecates in bushes.
Jessie has been wearing the same pair of pants since I met her.
Jessie has been addicted to heroin for over twenty years. She will probably use heroin on a daily basis for the rest of her life.
And I think she deserves a warm bed to sleep in.
Every shelter she's sought help from disagrees. They don't provide beds for drug addicts.
Jessie is a precious and valuable human being, even if she never takes a drug-free piss.
I know, I know. We don't have enough homeless shelters for people who aren't drug addicts. Why should we provide shelter to people who can't or won't stop shooting up, taking pills, or drinking?
One reason: because they desperately need it.
People like Jessie are not worthless. I know from experience that they can provide a warm hug, a funny joke, and a sweet story when you most need one. I know that they are often doing so much better and so much more than they appear to be.
I know it is often far too painful and destructive for family members to let their drug-addicted children or siblings live with them. A shelter for homeless drug addicts would be a form of shelter for their families, too. It would relieve them of the crippling burdens of guilt and fear.
Let's stop thinking in terms of the "deserving" and the "undeserving" homeless.
None of us has the authority to make that kind of judgement.
It may be unobtainable, but let's at least make it a goal to provide safe, dignified shelter for all human beings - whether they are active in their addictions or not.
I know my friend Jessie would thank you for it. I'll bet she'd even take out your trash.


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Great, thoughtful, heartfelt post. Thanks
I used to work at a supper for hungry folks. One night, someone I went to college with, now an addict, came in for a meal. He was embarrassed; I was embarrassed that he was embarrassed. Then we got to sitting around drinking coffee and shooting the sh*t, about people and times we both remembered from school, carefully avoiding his story and mine. I sensed that he enjoyed being treated like an old pal as much as he enjoyed the food. A little respect, eye contact, a little attention paid. If we can't find Jessie a bed, we can at least do that.
This country seems to forget that we are all equal citizens of the supposedly free nation. We need to get our heads out of our asses and start caring more for our fellow man and woman.
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Nicely done bftq!
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I spent time talking with nurses and participants in the program in Holland a few years ago. The nurses enjoyed the work and felt like they made progress with the patients as they saw them become more functional. A few of the participants credit the program with saving their lives. One young man tried heroin as a lark at a concert in another country. He made it back to Holland a wreck, sick with infections from dirty needles. He was taken care of and was on his way to coming off the drugs when I met him. Vondelpark went from "needlepark" back to a family park.
Amsterdam is a big city. Sure there is some crime, but it's not from heroin addicts looking for money. They just show an ID at the van. Pot is not a problem, you can buy it at the coffeeshops in several varieties, including baked into desserts.
Society is based on how it treats it's weakest members. Someone high may not be appropriate for a shelter with families and children.
But is it appropriate to leave them out in the cold? There has to be a middle ground, a workable alternative.
Excellent post trauma queen!
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"We" owe it to ourselves to "give" the undeserving what "we" obtained deservingly, but as you pointed out there aren't enough shelter spaces available for the homeless who have a better chance of becoming additional societal contributors, so triage naturally comes into play.
Or have you taken Julie into your own home?
Most addicts live rough lives among some pretty unsavory people. If we turn them away, who els will they run to for what comfort they may be able to find?
I've known some addicts to be mentally disturbed persons living on the fringes BEFORE they were tempted into addiction. They now live trapped in our denial over what their worth was to begin with.
We can thank Reaganomics in part for this. All our halfway houses and state hospitals shut down due to the negligence of the time.
Very noble, thoughtful, and important post.
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