BIG FAT TRAUMA QUEEN

a lighthearted look at traumatic abuse and its aftermath

big fat trauma queen

big fat trauma queen
Location
Undercover in the Bay Area, California, U.S.A.
Birthday
November 08
Title
Defying Gravity
Company
Wicked
Bio
I, like millions of others, am a refugee from some fairly gruesome childhood happenings. I entered adulthood as a selectively mute, unwashed, suicidal, friendless, uneducated, delusional, and sick-fat (as opposed to healthy-fat) young woman. I have been homeless in the Tenderloin (I am prouder of that than I am of my master's degree), and I have spent years in self-imposed solitary confinement. No more. I have morphed over the years into an irritatingly chipper and hyper-friendly Trauma Queen. If you're having a bad day, don't even look at me; my happy little face will just piss you off. This blog is dedicated to all the other Trauma Queens and Kings out there - we of the shrunken hippocampus and the hair-trigger amygdala. We who, in D.H. Lawrence's words, have "passed through the waters of oblivion." But let's not just pass through. Let's make a TSUNAMI...

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APRIL 8, 2010 2:51PM

Let's Hear It For Male Liberation!

The older I get, the more compassion I feel for men.

When I was younger - in my twenties - I was the queen of  Victim Feminism. Men were all rapists and vermin and the cause of every evil in the world. I, however, was Good. I was a vegan, for… Read full post »

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MARCH 18, 2010 11:37AM

Ho Mama! A Blog for Slutty, Single, Low-income Moms

There just aren't enough Mommy Blogs out there written by slutty, single, low-income moms. So here I am to fill in that gap.

One year to the day from meeting my daughter's dad, we had a three month old baby. How slutty is that?

I've been married twice, but have… Read full post »

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FEBRUARY 7, 2010 3:55PM

I Did It! I Liberated My Butt!

 I finally did it! Last week I threw out all my thong underwear!

I'm forty-seven years old, so it was a bit overdue. You see, like  many Trauma Queens, I  came to believe at an early age that my value as a human being was planted firmly between my legs. I… Read full post »