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Laura Deurmyer

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Mom, foster mom, wife of an artist/ artisan, progressive, former urban professional marooned in the sands of West TX

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FEBRUARY 28, 2011 1:40PM

I am a teacher's daughter

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My father was a public servant for most of his working life. After high school, he entered the Air Force and became an airman on a giant cargo plane; following his hitch, he went on to train as a teacher.  A small-town boy from a poor depression-era Texas Panhandle family, Dad has a Master's degree in Biology, and an All-But-Dissertation PhD.

Rather than use his degrees to make good corporate money, my father used them in service of others' children. For over thirty years, Dad taught high school in Oklahoma.  He taught biology, earth science, even psychology in later years: if he was needed to teach a subject, he took on the necessary learning himself, over his summers and his weekends, and he taught it.

For literally generations of teens, he was biology club sponsor, football coach, student government mentor - you name it. Twenty-somethings used to come running up to us in the mall, towing their own small children, to show them off to my father and to thank him.

Dad was one of the "nice" teachers at our school.  But nice though he was, Dad took his job seriously. A former high school football coach in a town where sports were extremely important, he refused to give an undeserved passing grade to the football star who was failing his class so that he could play in the big game, even under pressure from the school Administration. Dad cared about that young man and wanted him to succeed in more than just sports.

I remember Dad sitting for hours most nights in his orange and brown plaid recliner - it was the 70's - grading papers. It was very clear in our house that teaching was not an 8:00 am to 3:30 pm job. Proper planning, grading and evaluating took up at least 8-12 "home" hours every week.

In his early sixties, Dad got sick: the heart attack that literally knocked him off his feet in his beloved class room caused him to be exiled from it for good. Thank God for his pension and post-retirement medical benefits. He and my mom have been able to live very frugally for the past twenty years on his pension.

A lot of very loud voices now are claiming that public sector workers like my dad don't deserve decent benefits - that my father's pension was unearned, an extravagance, a waste. More importantly for the futures of upcoming generations of school kids, these so-called deficit reducers would take away pensions and benefits from teachers yet to be educated and hired.

People who choose teaching as a career give up a lot of money and career mobility in return for stability and good benefits, as well as for the pure joy of teaching. In all of his long career, my father never made more money than half of what I was making in the business world just a few years out of college.

Right now, teaching isn't the only vital public sector job where benefits and pay are under attack. Police, fire-fighters, the people who inspect our food, the people who monitor public health: all are under siege. The media is feeding a narrative that these lazy, undeserving, under-achieving public leeches are stealing our tax-payer money. Somehow, the implication is that, because these people make a living wage and have decent benefits, everyone else is losing something.

It is beyond me how American employees can possibly accept that version of the situation. American employees should be pointing to the benefits and pay of the public sector as a goal for private industry to live up to, not as something to be reduced down, until no one has more or is paid more than a checker at Wal-Mart.

I just hope that, as a society, we leave sufficient incentive structure in place so that future generations of fathers can make a decision for public service.

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Blue, this is a wonderful tribute not only to your father, but to teachers, police officers, firefighters and others everywhere. Thank you~r
There's a ring of familiarity here which comes from my wife's 20 some odd years as a teacher. You've made some salient points. Blaming public employees for budget woes is as corrupt an idea as the people spouting it.
Joan and Stacey - Thanks so much. This is my second time to try to write this; I am having a harder time than usual expressing my feelings/ thoughts, I think. Whenever I hear people talking about "union thugs" in regards to the WI protesters, it just infuriates me in a way that I have seldom experienced. No one has ever respected teachers in this country, but until now, I haven't sensed that people begrudged them the little they get in terms of compensation. How could anyone think teachers should get paid less? It boggles my mind.
Your father raised a wonderful daughter.

I share your outrage about this. The teachers of Tennessee will be marching this coming Saturday, in response to the outright attacks coming from our legislature.
I'm so glad that you could get this out. Your father's teaching and his devotion to a noble resonate with me. I'm a Canadian teacher who identifies with all of the misconceptions you've stated in your impassionate piece - not only for teachers, but also for public workers who are protected by unions.
♥R
My comment should read "your impassioned piece ".
My comment should read "your impassioned piece ".
Wonderful piece and I do believe the media creates most of the problems.
rated with hugs
I'm with you -- I don't get it. I worked in the private sector for years, for an electric utility, I worked for a little less money because of the pension, which I figured was all part of my compensation package. I didn't affect kids lives though, I didn't fight fires, or make sure kids weren't being abused -- you know what those public sector people do for 60k a year. I don't get it...
Jeanette - thank you so much. I wish there was something here to participate in; there is a rally in Austin in a couple of weeks for TX teachers. It's 7+ hours away by car, but we have talked about going.

FusunA - I am so passionate about the teachers b/c of Dad and b/c my child is so directly affected by anything going on in education. But this definitely goes for any worker in this situation. I don't think that society realizes how much we depend on these types of employees.

Linda - Thanks. There is a piece on Big Salon that addresses this today. Even CNN with Anderson Cooper is painting this as taxpayers vs. public employees. That's just hooey.

Marty's Husband - Pensions used to be the norm everywhere; now almost no private companies have them. We are going the wrong direction! And I have no idea how CPS case-workers do what they have to do for what they are paid. I couldn't do it.

Stellaa - We got here through carefuly manuvering, long planning, lots of money being thrown at the right people and a decades long public opinion high-jacking. It's ridiculous how people support things (like union busting) that are so patently against their best interests. It's reaching the absurd now. Thanks for your comment!
This situation is beyond me as well, Blue. Is it a "misery loves company" mentality, do you think? I agree with you about how employees in private industry should be looking to the public sector for their goals. But for some reason there's a pervasive, mean-spirited attitude that everyone should be reduced to the lowest common denominator. I wonder why no one ever gets worked up about CEOs getting paid millions of dollars for running companies into the ground, resulting in job losses and in some cases, devastating communities. Funny, isn't it, how it's always easiest to pick on the least well-armed targets. I loved hearing about your selfless dedicated father.
Just one more example of the hell in which we live. -R-
Those who criticize puublic servants like your dad fail to consider what their community, their loves, their world would be like without those dedicated people. teaching, law enforcement, firefighting and so many other public sector jobs are not and never will be 9-5. Would a firefighter walk away from a fire scene because his 'shift' was over? I can never repay the teachers, nurses, and others who have enriched my life. Thanks for writing this and thanks to your Dad for his life's work.
Well said, Blue...and a lovely tribute to your father...I love teachers...I have had some amazing teachers in my life...xox
exceptional truth here...perfect telling of it too. MANY THANKS, from one who loves teaching very much. R
touche, a great post. I am the child of teachers as well as the spouse of one, so I fully appreciate the sacrifice. It literally takes a village, parents and teachers are both responsible. RRR
Beautiful piece Laura. What's been one of the most frustrating things to me about pensions is they have nothing to do with taxes, a pension is money you earned and had taken off the top and set aside for you down the road. These jack butts just want to take it out of spite, not because taking it away will do anything to help any budget deficits. And JD said the exact same thing a few days ago. That people should be striving to have more, not trying to reduce what others have.
kate - Thanks so much. I really appreciate it.

Margaret - that mean spirited attitude is what I simply don't get. Being jealous of a multi-billionaire heir who did nothing, I get. Being jealous of a teacher?! Don't get it.

Christine - That's part of the worst of it; it's hard not to believe that way.

Barbara - People just take things for granted, I guess. Give us a year or two with severe teacher/ firefighter etc shortages and maybe people would have a different idea.

Robin - Thanks for your comment.

A Persistent Muse Thank you. And you're welcome!

Bernadine - Ir really does take a village. Instead, too many are reduced to a single parent and a TV. It doesn't work.

Erica - Right? Totally don't get it. It's just dumb. Period. Thanks for reading and commenting.
Thank you so much for sharing.

"He who opens a school door, closes a prison." ~Victor Hugo
not sure why--this wouldn't let me rate...

Lovely. And has such a universal feel to it.
I should also add, as the child of teachers and the granddaughter/niece etc of people that work(ed) for the steel mill this issue is very very close to my heart. I cannot stand the idea of everything my dad (works for OEA NEA now but was a teacher for many many years), mom, grandfather, uncle, aunt etc have worked for taken from them. It disgusts me, it breaks my heart, and it makes me want to be there, storming the capitol and making phone calls.
Lainey - Thanks for your comment and your read. Sorry OS is acting up; I've had trouble the past 2 days too..

Erica - I completely agree. We should talk about the Austin thing. I feel sick at my stomach when I think about the whole situation. We are on the verge of losing what's left of a way of life - the middle class American dream. And what are we replacing it with? Continual stress and striving and vague hopes? It scares me for our kids.
It is interesting that the very same people who want to take away from the teachers and public servants are sometimes the ones that expect the most from them. I wonder if they have ever considered educating their own children, investing the time and effort day in and day out? If they would be willing to stay home with them and sacrifice their own dreams and careers to do so? It does make me curious.
Great post on an incredibly important topic - laying it out in a personal way to make its impact that much clearer. It astounds me that everyone - every working man or woman - doesn't understand what's at stake with what's going on in state after state - this attack on unions and public employees. Instead of being envious of your neighbor, people should be organizing themselves to demand better pay and working conditions. And it has NOTHING to do with living in some lavish way - it's about a decent standard of living and some benefits and in the year 2011 in America - this shouldn't be a point of argument - this should be how it is for everyone. Excellent post! r
I'm a teacher's daughter too. I have a hard time believing anyone is buying this "teachers are greedy money-grubbers and are overpaid" rhetoric when anyone who has or has had children going through a public school system is unlikely to have experienced teachers like that. I sincerely hope that voters are thinking long and hard about what these politicians have done.
Barbara - You're very welcome - thanks for reading.

m&m - well, here anyway, part of the group that is the most conservative is the home-school crowd. It's very big in West TX. I would not have the patience; I know some people who do it and do it well. But it's not going to work for most of us, who need two parents working most of the child's school life!

Kate - Thanks so much. We should be thinking about what we want for everyone . I don't know what these people think: pay teachers less and they'll somehow miraculously get the money? Stupid.

Bell - I think part of the problem is that people don't think. They just do and believe whatever they're told by Faux News and the rest of the opinion machine. Sigh.