Those of you who have read my (mercifully infrequent) ramblings know that I have done remarkably stupid things on two wheels and four.
That I survived was a combination of good fortune and a semi-demented skill.
Sometimes, those things were done in a state of altered consciousness; I won't go into details. Although the statute of limitations has long since passed, being thought a complete idiot by my OS friends is not something I would cherish.
Mind you, I did do some smart things, too. For instance, early in my career, I was a crash-and-burn specialist. That meant that whenever someone was having his or her worst day, I was having one of my best. It was covering that sort of thing – along with some advice from a rally driver friend – that made me put seatbelts in my car, years before they were mandatory.
I long ago gave up driving under the influence. When I know I'm going to be drinking, I leave the car in the garage and walk to the nearest grog shop. If I do it at home, I won't go out anywhere, except perhaps on foot down the ravine in an effort to walk it off.
Why? Because it's the smart thing to do. It's not the cops with their RIDE (Reduce Impaired Driving Everywhere) traffic stops: It's because I could kill or injure someone. Especially me. Call me selfish....
Today, The Redhead got the accompanying video from one of her cousins in Australia. It is hands down the best thing I've ever seen about impaired driving. Please take a few minutes and watch it. It's devastating, it's brutal and it's the truth.
Take it from someone who's seen the reality up close and personal: During this holiday season -- and any other time -- we need to remember.


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Hug for doing this and rated with hugs
He was 18.
Good post Boan. You bring it home here.
Only yesterday I read of four young lives wiped out in a moment by a drunken driver.
The incidents may have dropped but it's still not getting through to some. Campaigns clearly need to continue.
~R
Could have used a good swift kick in the arse myself, ScanMan. And, yeah ... it was a redhead who helped get me set on the straight and narrow.
Thanks, Just Thinking, Femme Forte and Lea.
Sorry to hear that, Mission. I didn't know.
Yeah, BV ... do more good that Monday Night Football.
Too true, Linda. The provincial and municipal police here are mounting an intensive campaign during the holiday season. One way or another, the message is going to get through. I hope.
The penalities are -- and should be -- severe, John. One of the most powerful deterrents to anything is hitting people in the pocketbook.
Thanks, Rita. Those TAC people are wizards at this. Obviously.
I know you've seen it up close and personal too, O/E. I e-mailed the link to a police sergeant acquaintance of mine. He wrote back that he not only sent it to every member of his family but to every member of the department as well. It really is brutal to watch ... but not nearly as brutal as the reality.
Thanks, Fusun.
One of those adrenaline moments that never fade, ya know?
Much wiser nowadays but thanks for the chilling reminder.
More head-on collisions, which are often fatal, are caused by impaired driving, but they are not as common as the other factors. I watch people drive way over the limit, especially in bad weather, all the time and wonder what they can possibly be thinking. I'm pretty sure most of them aren't drunk during the day, but there is an awful lot of reckless driving out there. And don't even get me started on cell phones as a risk factor.
Extreme penalties DON'T stop people from drinking and driving - nor from other dangerous pursuits.
Think about this:
The penalties for drinking and driving are huge.
The dangers of drinking and driving are awful.
People still drink and drive.
The penalties for walking around nude are small.
The dangers of being nude are little and, on a hot day, it can be very comfortable.
Very few people walk around nude.
Now why should this be?
The answer, I think, is "social acceptability".
It is unacceptable to walk around nude.
It is acceptable to drink and drive.
We already know that the penalties and dangers of drunk driving don't stop it. Perhaps it's time to make it socially unacceptable.
Would wearing a "brand" on the forehead be of sufficient weight?
How about if no one who serves the public would serve anyone with such a brand? How about if nobody would rent to them? Or grant them credit? Or give them a mortgage? Or a job?
Sound ridiculous?
Well then, tell me this; who would do any of those things if you walked in to their place naked? And naked doesn't kill anyone's child. Or their parents. Or their restaurant owner. Or their banker. Or their landlord. Or their boss.
Maybe we need to set our priorities to a different standard........
You are right about one thing: draconian laws criminalize socially acceptable behavior. There is no law against consuming alcohol and getting behind the wheel. It is the amount that is illegal. I say either make it completely illegal to consume any alcohol and drive, or forget about punishing law-abiding citizens for having a glass of wine. The laws don't stop the chronic offenders, most of whom drive anyway even if their license is suspended, and they are so drunk they can't see straight. As mentioned earlier, impaired driving is not even close to being the primary cause of motor vehicle fatalities and yet listening to the outcry, you'd think the exact opposite.
I also find it more than passing strange that MADD owns a large interest in Interlock devices that people convicted of impaired driving must install in their vehicles, and they are also the ones literally clamouring for people to be locked up and the key thrown away for having a glass of wine. If governments -- and MADD -- were really serious about preventing drinking and driving, they would make Interlock devices mandatory in all vehicles. That would be the end of it right there since the ignition would not start if alcohol was detected. Problem solved. And yet that is apparently a bigger invasion of civil rights than turning people into criminals by presuming them guilty unless they can afford expensive lawyers.
Thanks for a thoughtful and interesting response to my comment.
I should have made it clear that this suggestion was tongue-in-cheek to make people think about how powerful "social acceptance" is in controlling behaviour. Law runs a poor second in this regard.
However, IF something like this were to be considered, it would obviously NOT be for use in a "first offence" situation. And in ANY situation in which it is used, it ought to be time limited. Also it would serve the public well if such "branded" people were offered the option of entering a "work/live village" where they would be employed making furniture and other things for hospitals, nursing homes, government offices, people on welfare, handicapped people, etc. They could also seek gainful employment as helpers to the physically and mentally challenged. They ought to be properly and willingly paid "trade average" wages; NOT used as slaves in any way.
I'd far, far rather see my tax dollars spent on this than on jails, guards, politicians friends who supply govt. with such items at enormous profits, and so many other don't-work-worth-a-damn "solutions" to this problem.
This separates them from criminals (usually they're not - just human enough to have made a damn foolish mistake) even though they'd suffer some small exclusion from "polite society" for a period of time.
@sixpixieo: You make some good points. The hypocrisy around drinking and driving slays me. Everyone is first to point the finger and insist on harsh penalties for others, but studies -- and plain common sense and honesty - tells us that nearly everyone has done it at some point. Of course, it would be different for them, ahem.
Hearing her tell that story was it for me, now I'm usually the designated driver but if not I'll spring for the $25 bucks for a short cab ride home. I never want to look at the loved ones sitting and watching when I know I'm the reason someone doesn't have their loved one. My friend had to live with that memory. Excellent post, thank you.
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