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born in Illinois. 5 year Navy veteran. Married for 25 years (not counting the first five when we just cohabited. 4 kids, 6 grandkids, 3 brothers 2 living, 2 sisters 1 living, a mother living, a father not living. 1 dog a labradoodle, and a current cat population of 9 (I'm working on that number) I've done a lot of jobs in my life, from shill at a carnival burlesque show to making medium caliber ammunition. I built inkjet printers, embedded computer boards, restored and repaired both cars, motorcycles and electronics. I read, write, and do arithmetic (albeit poorly) My wife claims that I have more useless knowledge than anyone on earth and resultingly no one will play trivial pursuit with me anymore. I do play pinohcle but due to my inability to cheat I don't win very often. Recently disabled I turned to Open Salon to re-engage my writing bug. Update, cat population now at 3. homes found for kittens. Update two add one cocker spaniel to the list and maybe just shoot me.

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FEBRUARY 6, 2012 11:30AM

The Road to Anywhere/Nowhere

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When we were kids we often went for Sunday drives.  They weren't trips with destinations, sometimes we just kept driving on back roads as long as we could.  We saw rivers and creeks and woods and lakes with fish jumping.  We saw the abandoned farm houses and barns left over from when farms were operated by single families and driven to extinction by corporate farming. 

We really never had new cars.  They were often old beaters that had worn upholstery or faded paint.  The only thing most had in common were radios and huge back seats.   We'd load up on lunch and just get in and go.  Sometimes we had food or drinks with us to snack on as we rode aimlessly through the countryside.

We could ride for an hour on narrow rock roads that split a huge cornfield and see nothing but the towering tasseled stalk with their blond haired ears of corn growing. A wheat field that spread out a golden carpet for what looked like miles.  

We didi this all through the year too.  We'd ride in the Winter with windows up and heat on.  It still got cold in the back seat so we brought blankets.  In the Summer it would get so hot that we hung out of the windows to cool off.  Summer was better than Winter though since we sometimes stopped at a swimming hole and played in the water.

Spring and Fall though were the best.  They were never really to hot or to cold.  We could get three kinds of weather in a single ride.  We would leave the house in warm and sunny and by the time we'd been going an hour we would be seeing snowflakes or intense rain and lightning.

I learned how to spot deer on the side of the roads and how to find them after dark too.  Just look for their eyes glowing.  I learned how to tell if it was raining in the distance by the curtain of gray that went from the clouds to the ground.  I learned to watch the world go by and see the things that were all around me.

I never really thought about it at the time but the radio was always tuned to a rock and roll station even though my Dad claimed he hated it.  We sang along with it too, Elvis, Leslie Gore, the Beatles.  It was a magic time to be a child then, there was hope and magic in space flight and computers.  Even our remote rural world became more modern.

We still take weekend drives today, usually with no set destination in mind, we go or do what strikes our fancy.  There is a certain freedom in it all.  We speak to our wander lust in those drives and that is something that I learned when I was just a kid going for a ride. 

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I used to love to go on a drive with no destination. Exploring and stopping when ever we wanted to. But the gas prices have just about eliminated any driving from my life that is not work related. Sad.
You're repeating/honoring, a beautiful parental legacy. r.
I remember Sunday drives with my mom and dad and sister. One car my dad had was a big old Mercury with a power sliding window in the back! How we loved to stick our hands out that window and feel the wind rush by! In rural Illinois the tall corn grew right up to the corners of intersections, so Dad would have to slow way down in case someone was coming before he crossed. Other fields had herds of cows gazing curiously at us. We would "moo" at them and they would move away from the fence. Nobody goes for Sunday drives anymore, no particular place to go, no pressure, no errands, no shopping because stores closed on Sundays!
I think that going for a ride is becoming less common. I think we were closer to the age when just having a car was a big deal, and there was a lot less "to do", no computers, TV etc.
I remember my Mom driving out to the suburbs and remarking that these people must be doctors and lawyers. Boy those were the days when we didn't have 1000 lawyers eveywere!
Gas not withstanding a drive doesn't have to be expensive just rationed.

Thanks Jon.

CC, I did most of my Sunday drives in Southern Illinois you know.
Kathy, we always had something to do, it just cost less back then.
Just a kid going for a rid. We used to do this too, with my parents and also when my sister and I stayed with my grandparents. Someone would say, let's get out of the house for a while, and we'd hop in the car and drive, not knowing where we were going. We always ended up somewhere. I miss it.
Going for rides was our family's favorite pastime. We loved to chase fire trucks through the countryside and then park and watch barns and sometimes houses burn. This was before reality TV was invented.
Simple pleasures. I remember family car rides well. And hearing all the little histories of the things we would pass.
I haven't done any rambling drives in a long time, but did many of them when I was a kid (as a passenger) allover Vermont and Connecticut. Golden days indeed, the corn fields and lazy rivers, and roads wreathed in black eyed susans and queen anns lace and blue dots...
Your tale brings back some great memories!

We kids took turns shouting out, after each turn, "right three" or "left two", which meant that my father would turn right at the third road on the right or turn left at the second road on the left, this made us feel participants in "where" we were going, yet kept the trip random enough to be interesting.

Those were the days........*sigh*
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I loved the nostalgia of this post, Bob. Seems like those days are long gone. Now, at least here in SoCal, any drive is an exercise in traffic and freeways and strip malls. We so rarely get to go out in the country because it's at least a half hour away.
You reminded me of those days--days when you could comfortable fit 6 people in the 2 bench seats of a sedan (not worried about seat belts--there weren't any).
" It was a magic time to be a child then, there was hope and magic in space flight and computers. "

It certainly was, Bobbot. And you captured some of that magic in the narration of your memories of those wonderful times. Thank you! ♥