Brazen Princess

Loud and Unashamed
MAY 21, 2012 2:54AM

Knowing My Father

              

 

My favorite pictures of my Dad and me are decoupaged to a canoe oar that is in my parent’s entryway.  The pics were chosen by sister, Colleen from the wealth of camping pictures we took every summer on the Ryan family vac

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My excellent friend, Pindai, a woman of statuesque beauty and honourable reputation posts things on her facebook page that makes me think. 

 

Today, an unfortunate press release from a Zimbabwean senator, Morgan Femai , woke me up and threw me against a wall.  He

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                    HBDavid

If it were not for David, I think our family would not have gelled together the way it did.  When I married Mario (as I wrote yesterday) he came complete with David and Joe, two kids that stole my… Read full post »

MAY 11, 2012 5:10PM

Sharing Joe

 

                  Joe                                                              &n… Read full post »

 

                          Hotel                                                      &n… Read full post »
Editor’s Pick
MAY 7, 2012 6:31AM

My Daughter, the Stronger Version of Myself

 

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The day Alicia was born I had pancakes at Lyon’s restaurant  on Clover Road in Tracy.

The doctors had sent me home because the pitossin drip had not worked (could have fooled me, it sure felt like la… Read full post »

MAY 4, 2012 8:56AM

Insanity

broom

 

 "Listen carefully," he said, "this won't be easy for you to hear"....

I waited.

“This is the only broom we use in this space.”

I looked at it.  It was impossible. 

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cincodemayo

 

My history as a fourth-grade teacher usually colors the way I see most holidays.  In the classroom, my favorite thing to do was to say "Let me tell you something that the other teachers won't tell you..."  It made the students pay attention, and made them feel that… Read full post »

 

 

South Africa

 

Old New Lefty “open-called me out” to write this, and so I answered, with a different view.  What he had to say was definitely valid, and I heard him strongly.  Here is my answer to this call, word for word…compare it to Old New Lefty’s&Read full post »

APRIL 30, 2012 5:48AM

Gandhi - A love story (?)

 

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Alysa wrote about her favorite love story of all time in a movie – Cyrano (I agree, the story is very romantic). There are so many love stories that picking one out from a Hollywood movie is difficult.

The one I would choose is one that is  a… Read full post »

APRIL 27, 2012 4:25AM

Lessons for Clueless Mother-In-Laws

 

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I still remember the day that David, our oldest son, met his wife-to-be.  I was upstairs on the phone and Mario was downstairs, and we were listening as he was telling us about a date he had with a pretty young lady named Lennae. 

I was… Read full post »

APRIL 22, 2012 10:41AM

Why I Loved Chuck Colson

 

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In the house where I grew up, there were things you were not allowed to joke about: the Virgin Mary, the Holocaust, and John F. Kennedy (and then maybe all of the other Kennedy’s, except for Jackie who had gone off and remarried a Greek tycoon).  Now and then… Read full post »

APRIL 20, 2012 8:38AM

To Each His Dulcinea

 

 

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Our friend, Luke, left our house after a heavy conversation on our back porch with Mario.  The guys came through the kitchen just to say goodbye, but I knew that Luke had just had a gut-wrenching purge and was ready to go home to his wife.  Mario… Read full post »


 

 

A twenty-five liter bucket is the main unit that people use to store water in their homes in the township of Diepsloot.  Since most areas have only community water that residents share, most water comes from a spigot outside that provides water for bathing, washing and dri

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APRIL 16, 2012 3:35AM

Silence

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Somewhere in the difference

The chirp of nine hours-

I am losing you.

My visit to the moon

Is my fault, you say.

 

But in the silence your face, a tender blush -

Reminds me that your heart

(so fickle) 

will go to another

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When Salon was founded by David Talbot and launched on November 20, 1995, no one forsaw the impact it would make on the world of e-mags.   It's "baby", Open Salon magazine covers a variety of topics, from reviews and articles about politics,music, books, and films. It also has articles about… Read full post »


Sudanese Kids carry bricks to help us build the school base in Padak

 

There is a feeling that you get, albeit a fleeting one, when you have done a lot of work in another country and you hear about the country in normal conversation somewhere else.  The feeling is

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                           Samantha (on the left) with her French husband Pascal Rubinatin 

It is a fairly common practice among women that if someone is your friend you should compliment her beauty.  After all, w… Read full post »


Life Fourways in Northern Johannesburg - you can see, very first-world hospital


Like all things that are thrown at us with a curve, the incident yesterday at the hospital tested our faith.  Yesterday’s hospital visit was supposed to be a couple of hours and it turned out to be a who
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MARCH 13, 2012 10:12AM

Happy Birthday, Mom


Dad and Mom on their 50th Anniversary


When I was young she was always there.  She was soft, welcoming
and huggable.  She doesn’t like to admit it, but she loved to nap.  She
cooked from scratch and baked cool things and
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MARCH 5, 2012 5:10AM

Caroline Marie - my 33

1. Your main trait:  Beauty

2. The quality you like best in a woman:  vulnerability

3. The quality you like best in a man:   integrity

4. Your main flaw:  pride

5. Last time you cried:  before I started taking anti-depressants.  

6. Ideal job: living it

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Hlanganani Mentoring Meeting
with our "dream spoons"   February 24, 2012
 
Today I spent the morning at Plot 1, our friend, Petros’s place where he hosts Mother Touch Academy Pre-school for kids living in Diepsloot and surrounding areas. Petros
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FEBRUARY 23, 2012 3:10AM

Letter to a New Reader on OS

Most of you know I'm working on something right now.  Besides that, I have just a little time here.

 A friend wrote to me - a friend who is new here- and had a concern for the content.  What she had heard was that Open Salon was a community of writers.… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 16, 2012 2:41AM

Why I Can't Write to You

Once you were 

In my mind

My younger, only, charming, shining,

Never-will-mess-up, never-will-fail

delightful

light

leader

 

I am now supposed to write

to you on the inside

I am afraid

that my words will sound foreign , caged, nonsensical.

They will

because they are.

 

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broken heart

 

Valentine’s Day and I have kind of a love-hate relationship.  On one hand, I am a romantic at heart and I love good, unexpected love stories.  On the other hand, I see the day as a set-up (mainly for men to become oozing, sappy wimps who spendRead full post »