Brian B

Brian B
Location
Thunder Bay, Canada
Birthday
November 14
Title
Devil's Advocate
Company
The Sort of Company your mother warned you about
Bio
A Work in Progress. When not doing the devil's work, I'm the single parent of two great young men, living playing and working in beautiful Thunder Bay Ontario. That's at the western end of Lake Superior - the North end of Highway 61. from here, you can just drive all the way to New Orleans, though I have yet to do it.

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OCTOBER 12, 2009 12:03PM

Happy Thanksgiving, eh?

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Today is Canadian Thanksgiving, or  maybe it was yesterday, I'm never quite sure which. Today is the day off, though. 

Sure, madcelt has a point that our holiday lacks the "Pilgrims and Indians" tradition, and thus is a somewhat pale copyof the American version. Gotta disagree though about the suggestion that the late November American holiday is superior in launching a "holiday season". Maybe I'm just a grinch and think that Christmas shouldn't start too soon, but I have another reason as well.

 By celebrating Thanksgiving the second Monday in October, Canadians enjoy a true harvest festival. This is a tradition of its own which anthropologists tell us far predates Christianity, and spans many cultures. Humans have long thanked their deities for a bountiful crop, and the promise of food to put aside to survive a long and harsh winter. And in Canada, winter is all that. 

Just  as I typed that, I had an epiphany. All weekend, I've been bothered by the importation of Thanksgiving into religious worship, at least in Canada. Our service yesterday was themed all around giving thanks, and it seemed off key. Now I see that this is simply a continuation of what Northrop Frye (himself a minister before becoming an academic) might call an archetype - an expression of an ur-myth, common to what makes us human. 

In honour of our collective humanity, I  now share  10 Things I am Thankful For:

  1. My sons - regular readers will not be surprised by this one.
  2. Good health- and the Canadian health care system - not perfect, but there when I really need it, at no cost, and no denial of pre-existing conditions.
  3. Good Friends, even though on OS, we're "favorites" now.
  4. Just waking up to enjoy THIS day- living in the moment
  5. The sunrise. Glorious today. I drove to work, to sneak in a quiet hour. When I got there, the sun was making the river glow.
  6. A future full of possibilities- a key to choosing to be happy is realizing that though living in the moment is important, the future could even be better.
  7. The memories that deserve to be cherished. Not one to dwell on nostalgia, but certain moments past bring a smile to my face.
  8. Good food. A bountiful harvest, somewhere, and all my material needs satisfied. I come from a farm tradition, and have my own little crop of tomatoes, but pause to reflect on this good fortune, the plenty I enjoy which others may not.
  9. Living in God's Country. Fresh air, clean water, nature outside my door, and real seasons...
  10. Being Loved, well if not for long, at least three times. Which leaves the hope for more. 
And isn't Hope the greatest gift to be thankful for?

 

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Well written B. I'm glad you directed me to your post. You're right, we do have a lot to be thankful for...I guess I was just feeling crabby. I didn't want to cook a turkey (by the way it was very good).
I personally like the pagan tradition of celebrating the harvest in addition to being thankful for the good things in life.
Thanks for sending me your post. It was much appreciated.
This is wonderful, a very positive way to ring in the day!

Rated!
What a beautiful list. Really. You are a gracious man.
mc: I'm not cooking turkey either - moose meat last night, ham today.
miko: takes me more words than you, though.
carrie: now you're making me blush.
Thanks for this. No pun intended. I love thanksgiving. I think gratitude is the greatest ritual we can ever have.

But I will say if I have to hear one more time about how Canadians don't have a tradition of joint celebration with Indians, I'm going to get all Quebecois on you.

Maybe we should celebrate it in August, to honour The Great Peace of 1701when over a thousand natives came from all across North America to sign peace treaties with each other and the French in Montreal. I bet there was some partying at that event.

Thought I have to admit, Madcelt, that I didn't know about Frobisher.

I'm not sure Americans should feel so bad about not knowing enough about Canada. Most Canadians don't know enough either.
A big thumbs up on this post, a positive one I relate to on so many levels. Well done, and Happy Giving Thanks every day!
Juliet: Odd how we just don't commemorate that, huh?
Buffy: giving is the best reward...
Honestly, Brian. It is odd. Or at least it's odd that it's not more prominent in history. Really, there's no event like it in the history of the Americas. But the Americans sat down with less than a 100 Indians, and this has to be enshrined as an event bigger than Christmas...
well happy thanksgiving brian. it's columbus day today, here in the u.s. all that means, really, is we don't get mail delivered ... that's a great list of things to be thankful about.
I didn't cook a turkey this year although I did partake of one at a friend's house. Today I made some harvest goodies for immediate family and it was a low-key but happy affair.

I like the idea of a harvest festival, and I also like Juliet's idea. Gratitude lists are always a good idea any time of the year.
excellent, love. it is all about Hope. i tend to forget that. i've felt hopeful lately and it's been fabulous. i love your list and of course your sons are the first item. you're a great dad. being a great dad is a majorly good thing. lvoe love love and gratitude
Juliet: maybe we need a Summer Solstice celebration - those go back to pagan times, which I think is why the Euro Christian elites squashed them. though I personally have a hard time thinking about celbrating aboriginal culture without thinking of the slaughter of the Hurons, and the gifts of smallpox and alcoholism.

Cindy: not only no mail here, but no local paper.

emma: I did ham, also low key. Just me & the boys.

theo: glad to hear the Hope in your note...it is a great thing. and thanks for the compliment.
Thanksgiving is probably my favorite holiday, Brian. Maybe I'll borrow yours and have two each year. As my mother always taught us, you can never say "thank you" too many times.
Brilliant list!
COS: thanks are harder than they ought to be. thanks for commenting

tai: you too make me blush.