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AUGUST 10, 2009 10:14AM

The Last Tango in Normalville.

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What do you do when you are a successful writer/producer/songwriter, a highly visible actor, or a world champion boxer and have come down with a disease in the prime of your life?  

 

Well, in the case of Mark Solomon, he did what any guy would do--he grabbed his gorgeous wife and took off for Argentina to practice their tango.

 

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Mark and Cary Solomon 

 

This Emmy nominated writer has never been at a loss for words, being responsible for one of the most famous, unexpected scenes in television history; the final episode of “Newhart”.  You know the one... where Suzanne Pleshette (her character Emily from the orignal “Bob Newhart Show”) shows up in bed with Dick Loudon (Bob Newhart) effectively ending the long running series as being nothing but a dream!  If you haven’t seen that ending I’ll wait while you watch....

 

 

You can’t help but be impressed by Mark, he writes comedy, he makes people laugh.  One look at some of his writing/producing credits; Alice, Grace Under Fire, Diagnosis Murder, and of course Newhart, will tell you he is an enormously talented and a very funny guy.

 

Mark and his also very talented wife, Cary (an award winning artist, jewelry designer and former dancer) are friends of ours.  Their infectious laughs and ability to see humor, where sometimes none exists, draws you in and makes you happy to have them in your life.

  

Since we all live in Ojai we have forged a lasting friendship over the years.  They have always been supportive of my writing and of my husband and his ventures. They are and always were sensitive to the physical needs of my husband.  

 

They are two of kindest people you could ever have as friends.  We have spent holiday meals together, celebrated New Year’s Eves, and mourned the losses of pets and family members together.  It is these everyday kind of things which cement friendships.  

 

When a few years ago Mark shared with us his diagnosis  of Parkinsons Disease, or PD as those in the know call it, he faced it with his usual gusto.  I remember the day he told me, I was so surprised.  The only unusual symptom had been his hands shaking.  But Mark took it well, and didn't let it stop him from living life.

 

For Mark, his creativity and humor is his way to deal with so much of life.  Whenever he calls me we talk for hours about our animals, writing, our love of the human condition and the goings on in our small town.  He has generously let me do an interview him about writing for my writer’s newsletter.  Mark also spearheaded the Ojai Film Festival, bring in big names and top films.  There is nothing he won’t do for a friend. 

 

I want to share with you an example of just how special he is.  He’s been quite busy, doing radio shows, television interviews, and fundraising lately; all because he took an idea Cary suggested to him for dealing with depression and turned his focus into something positive, something productive.  He  wrote a song about Parkinsons Disease, bringing awareness to Parkinsons Disease in a lighthearted way.  As Mark says, “It’s the only disease I’m aware of with it’s own theme song.”  I give you a small sample of the " The PD Song." (Forgive my ineptness, but I couldn't figure out how else to share the music except to make this cheesy video.)

 

 

If you are thinking you don’t know anyone who has Parkinsons, think again.  I bet you know of at least one person in Open.Salon who has it;  our own Dr.  Steve Blevins.  The very same one whose sense of humor and special brand of satire and kindness is so uplifting to so many of us.   These days I am especially appreciative of him as it seems difficult to find a positive and humorous story in this day and age.

 

There are 50,000 new cases diagnosed each year with no known cause and no cure yet.  Some of the well-known people you might not be aware of who have had it are:  Mohammad Ali, Jack Anderson, Yassar Arafat. Johnny Cash, Billy Graham, Pope john Paul II, Eugene O’Neill, Vincent Price, Janet Reno, Charles Schultz, and Pierre Trudeau.

 

I'm really thrilled to be able to share Mark's creation of the song and his immediate donation of it to help in fundraising for Parkinsons.   It’s available as a download for $ .99 (available on iTunes and Amazon) and is really catchy and upbeat.  Most of the proceeds go to the Michael J. Fox  Foundation.  

 

Besides, it’s my birthday and everyone knows you will get off really cheap this way!  

 

 

 

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Birthday bump...and Happy Birthday to Apache Savage!!
FIRST! AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY (again) TO YOU! XOXO
NOw, I have to read. Phone ringing, but be right back.
Happy Birthday Buffy! Wonderful story :)

I am off to the itunes store as we speak
The Newhart is one of my all time favorites, no kidding. So if the opportunity arises could you tell him that? You are the birthday girl today. Well, you and the Savage. See my blog for details.
Happy birthday, Buffy!!!!

And I'd hope you'll be working on your own tango today, too.

Hugs.
First of all, thank you for the great video of the last episode of Newhart. It was inspired genius. Your friend Mark sounds like a wonderful man and I love his sense of humor in the song. As for Steve Blevins, he is officially one of my biggest heroes here on OS and I admire, respect and love him beyond measure. What a lovely birthday gift that you have given us by being here on OS and sharing this post. Yeah. I'll spring for .99. You're worth it. HAPPY DAY to you with all my love.
Happy Birfday!!!
Thank you Sheila. That ending of Newhart was arguably one of the most creative series endings that has ever been written and produced.
And, happy birthday to you dear lady! You never fail to brighten, enlighten and entertain.
Happy Birthday! :)
Happy Birthday yet again. I shall buy the song from iTunes when I get home tonight. Michael J Fox is a Canadian legend and all-around good guy too. Anything to help out a disease that affects so many and so little is known about it.
Let me rewrite that final sentence as it looks all wrong. Anything to help find a cure for a disease that affects so many and not much is known about it.

There, that's better.
Happy Birthday!
Happy, Happy Birthday. I always think of Al Pacino in "A Scent of a Woman" and the blind tango scene in it (although of course he was NOT blind). While watching you are convinced that he is. All the best and have a wonderful, joy filled day.
Wonderful post for your friend.
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I thought you said you were postponing your birthday. Damn it!

OK, here goes ... Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you. Happy Birthday dear Buffy (a/k/a Shiela, Nada, etc, etc,) Happy Birthday to you!!!!!!

Buff, I think this is one of your best pieces ever, here and elsewhere. It is so well crafted, and written with such heart, and about something so important. GREEEEEEAAAAT Job! And thanks for the music tip ... Mark should be pleased ...with your help, I think it will go platinum!
Buffy, a very Happy Birthday to you!!

Thanks for the inspiring post about your friend, Mark. It's a great illustration of his various positive actions in the face of a major health issue.
Wow....it's not every day I can get a birthday gift for such a classy lady and spend under a buck!

Happy birthday my dear, sweet friend, your friendship has meant so much to me and Mel over the years and I wish for you only the best in all your years to come.
Here's wishing you a very happy Bday, Sheila.
Seeing the last episode of Bob Newhart was just a wonderful addition to my day. Great read.
thanks
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What a touching tribute to a truly remarkable man.

Happy Birthday by the way!
I would like to echo bob's comment. Newhart was one of my favorite tv personalities and I watched all his shows. The series ending here was the most creative, and one of the funniest, I've ever had the pleasure of seeing. Please give my best to Mark and his family, and let him know that his writing was a smile generator in my house for a long time.

HBD once again, Sheila. Party on. :-D
Happy Birthday and thanks for all that you share!Yes, you do inspire others to share (from hearts and wallets.) Bundles and bushels of bodacious birthday blessing!
Thanks so much for sharing the Newhart clip - true genius. I saw him recently on Conan and while he's aged a lot he still has that spark. And thank you for your comments on PD. We're losing - and have lost - so many talented people who have given us so much to society.
I always wanted to be Suzanne Pleshette. Now I think I would like to be you. Happy Birthday.
Mo Udall also had the disease. Happy birthday Buffy...you're not getting older...you're getting BETTER. You're also old enough to remember that tag line from the the 1970s commerical.
Happy Birthday Buffy. And many more.
Happy Birthday, Buffy. What a lovely way to celebrate.
What a lovely gift to present to Mark on YOUR Birthday...so like you, Dear Sheila.

My father died in slow degrees with PD...eight years of losing pieces of his physical acuity, his fine mind eventually trapped in a body that inevitably disallowed meaningful communication. With advances made in pharmacology over the past decade, there is real hope for repressing the progress of your friend's illness. (Thanks to funding by The Michael J. Fox Foundation and like projects)

Now to the issue at hand: Happy...Happy...Happy!!!!!!!

Oh, DO go listen for your BD yowl!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ej1ylPIk44o

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Happy Birthday, beautiful.

(Scrolling back up to read, now:)
I just want you all to know Mark just phoned and he is thrilled to see the response from you all! He is very grateful for your support, as I am. He thanks you, as do I.

He'll be checking here periodically today, so if you love his work, just tell him! Making people smile...his life's work!
Happy birthday... The sun is shining bright today.
On a personal note, I was tested for PD in 2003; I failed the test in lieu of other results. But the sun is shining bright today!
Happy Birthday!! What a beautiful post. It's good to be thankful in life.
Happy Birthday. I learned about Parkinson's at an early age - my grandfather had it. I was a little confused at first. I thought that you were saying that your friend, Mark, was a world champion boxer.
Great post, Sheila. You are my only Hollywood connection. Thanks to you, I don't have to watch Entertainment Tonight. Bob Newhart was unique. I loved the guy. As I recall, he was an accountant before he became an actor/comedian. It's so easy to picture him as an accountant. His dry, unassuming, almost expressionless style is enormously funny. I remember the final Newhart episode -- hilarious! Mom adored Suzanne Pleshette, probably because she saw herself in her. On a personal note, I'm glad that my disease has a theme song! PD is one of those diseases for which medicine has made an enormous difference. Levodopa/carbidopa is miraculous. For many people, it's the difference between moving and not moving. Michael J. Fox is a saint. I applaud him for his work. It's nice to know that the greatest spokesman for PD is a super-funny guy. Your posts are always inspirational, Sheila. Happy Birthday, sweetheart.
Well since Mark is going to be checking in here, this message if for him....

Thank you sir not only for the laughs you gave me and for the inspiration which came in the form of the characters: Larry, Darrel and his other brother Darrel. Those three inspired me to try comedy writing...thank you sir for your genius.

Oh...and Happy Birthday Sheila...Luv ya!
Happy Birthday and very touching and worthy post!
Happy birthday! And thanks so much for this post. You have done a great service here. And the video is a keeper!
First, happy birthday to you. Secondly, thank you for bringing awareness to your friend and this cause. Thirdly, love the video/song.
Am I late to the party? I hope not 'cause celebrating your birthday sounds like one of the most fun things I could possibly do.
Happy Birthday, you dear heart!
Now, you always amaze me but this tops the cake because if you were to ask me what is one of the greatest moments in television history I would not hesitate and say loudly the closing scene to the final Newhart. Please give Mark a big Sharon hug for that one.
I also like the other shows which you mention him working on but especially Grace Under Fire. The writing on that show was phenomenal and I was so sorry that it didn't last longer. I think I understand why it ended and that was very sad.
Tango in Argentina, what a way to celebrate life!!
I wish him and his wife much more happiness.
Happy Birthday! Your love for you friend shines thru every word. What a lovely post and yes I will buy the song on itunes.
Fabulous Happy Birthday to you (and AS)!
Happy Birthday, Buffy. This post was every bit as yummy as triple decker chocolate cake. A lovely tribute to your friend and a lovely birthday gift from you to us.
You all overwhelm me with your generosity...thank you so very much for all of your wishes, and kind sentiments. I'd give you all a big hug if I could. Oh, and a piece of cake :) And a glass of libation...and...and....
happy birthday, Buffy, wheres the party tonight?

here's wishing you all the very best of everything in the days ahead and peace, a hug too.
What an informative piece on several different levels. I too am a huge fan of Newhart. And I know a little more about Parkinson's. And your friend Mark. The ripple effect of life and comedy and connection.

AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAREST BUFFY!
What a great post, as always. Of course Argentina and tango make wonders on anyone who wants to enjoy life and feel better, hehe!
I´m sorry I´ve been terribly busy at work these days and couldn´t find the time to read more on OS, but I´m happy to have stopped on your blog before going to sleep.
Happy birthday, dear Sheila!
Kisses,
Marcela
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LADY! Hope you have a wonderful day and may there be many more to come. [[[hugs]]]

Thanks for sharing this story with us.
Such a good post Buffy. Such spirit in your friend and your telling.
Have a wonderful birthday and a good year.
Happy birthday!

peece :)
dj
Oh, I do so miss Darrel and Darrel. And dammit, I missed your b-day. Hope it was a happy one, kiddo.
What a beautiful idea for helping us to celebrate your birthday while supporting people and a cause so dear to you, Buffy!

And how cool to share a birthday with Apache Savage, too...
Love to you, Buff.

Not because you're another year older, but because of your generous heart.
Dammit all, I missed your birthday. Well, happy belated birthday, my dear friend. And look at you - doing something so generous on your birthday - so like you!
Happy Belated Birthday, Buffy, if iTunes will let me I'll be humming this birthday tune in your honour!