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BuffyW

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NOVEMBER 5, 2009 6:32PM

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To all of you who have been wondering where I am...I'm working through some recent problems...nothing I won't get through, but I have been unable to concentrate, so not being much of a participant on OS.

It has absolutely nothing to do with any of you, and no, I am not "flouncing". I am simply prioritizing, and making myself whole again. I am writing, but have chosen to let it simmer awhile before I bring it here.

I'll be coming in and reading and commenting some, I will try to do it fairly, but if I miss your postings, don't take it personally. I know you all are aware there are immense life changing experiences I am undergoing. I hope you know I will share as I can.

To those of you who are undergoing heavy burdens and difficult life choices, take time to take care of yourself, we are no good to others unless we are good to ourselves.

I'll be back soon. I'm off living life and feeling it all... the good, the bad and the ugly. But I AM just fine.

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Thanks for understanding! Be back soon.

BuffyW

November 05, 2009 06:33 PM

I can see why you would need one, Sheila. Au revoir for now.

john blumenthal

November 05, 2009 06:38 PM

Thanks for checking in on us; thanks for taking care of yourself as well.

Deborah Young

November 05, 2009 06:39 PM

Hope all is well and that you stay around as much as you like. Till later....

Lea Lane

November 05, 2009 06:40 PM

Peace.

jimmymac1025

November 05, 2009 06:40 PM

You're fine when you do and fine when you don't.
Can't put a clock on beauty.

Thoth

November 05, 2009 06:42 PM

You take care of what's important — you!

Chuck A. Stetson

November 05, 2009 06:43 PM

A smile, a hug, and a candle in the window waiting for your return.

Stim

November 05, 2009 06:43 PM

Be kind to yourself, sweetheart!
"we are no good to others unless we are good to ourselves."
You're so right. Good advice for us all.
Hugs and kisses,
Sharon

Sharon Kay

November 05, 2009 06:44 PM

Hasta la vista, Babbeeee....see you on the upturn

Patie

November 05, 2009 06:48 PM

Take care of yourself first!
We'll be here when you get back...

xoxoxo,

spotted_mind

November 05, 2009 06:49 PM

You are so great - I can't wait to know the even GREATER you! My best thoughts and incantations are with you in the meantime...

aim

November 05, 2009 06:50 PM

You're so kind to consider the folks here when you're dealing with your own challenges. You're a lovely human. Take care of you.

C.K. Dexter Haven

November 05, 2009 07:08 PM

I keep hearing the Nike phrase in my head. Just DO it. Take care of yourself.

O'Really?

November 05, 2009 07:09 PM

You'll be welcomed back with open arms.

Reader Not Writer

November 05, 2009 07:12 PM

This is overdue maybe... Be well dear!

tr ig

November 05, 2009 07:12 PM

Take care. I felt something amiss I, hope you work through it as you can and come back to us when your ready

Lunchlady 2

November 05, 2009 07:21 PM

Thanks for letting us know...I was wondering and given your loss of your dear husband, wanted to make sure you were okay. Please stay in touch (Facebook!) or here. You are thought of often.

marytkelly

November 05, 2009 07:22 PM

And know dear Buffy we are all here for you. thanks for all you've done for us

trilogy

November 05, 2009 07:25 PM

Of course. My heavens, you most certainly need time to breathe and think and live and ... everything else. I am honored that you took a moment to comment on my poem. I don't think anyone should feel slighted by your ability or inability to write or comment or be visible. As always, I am thinking of you and look forward to the moments you can spend with us. Warm hugs.

Outside Myself

November 05, 2009 07:41 PM

You'll be missed. I'll miss you. Hurry home again. Take good, good care.

scupper

November 05, 2009 07:44 PM

Jesus, Ms. Buffy. If anyone needs one, it's you. Take good care of yourself and return as the Buffy we all love and admire.

Boomer Bob

November 05, 2009 07:54 PM

You know I wish you only the best. You will still be my big sister and Mel and I love you. You know how to reach me should you want to talk and you know we are always happy to hear your voice.

Keep me posted, let me know how you are and go and live that life. You deserve all the good that comes your way.

David McClain

November 05, 2009 08:06 PM

Godspeed, Buffy. You need the rest.

Kathy Riordan

November 05, 2009 08:12 PM

Take care of yourself, Buffy; we look forward to seeing you as soon as you are able!

AtHomePilgrim

November 05, 2009 08:13 PM

We'll be here when you get back. Take good care.

CarolinaBlue50

November 05, 2009 08:19 PM

Dear, girl. you have been through so much lately. Take a deep breath and relax. We ain't going anywhere. Do what you gotta do. Hugs, M

Michael Rodgers

November 05, 2009 08:24 PM

Your check's in the mail, and your book will be tomorrow.

Tom Cordle

November 05, 2009 08:33 PM

All these comments prove how much you are loved. Add my love to them ...you're one special lady.

Linda Cooper

November 05, 2009 08:51 PM

i know where you're at. i been there, and am there on and off. the fun is letting it come when it wants. it's natural to me that something larger should emerge--don't you think? The best stuff is when you can get down to the very bone, but that god damned bone is the hardest to chew and still find nourishment.

hugs,

Ben Sen

November 05, 2009 08:52 PM

See you soon!

Roger Fallihee

November 05, 2009 08:56 PM

I'm glad you're taking a breather. You were starting to remind me of that film, "I'm Dancing as Fast as I Can." It's okay, and sometimes the best choice, to sit out a few dances.

Ablonde

November 05, 2009 09:00 PM

I hope you're reading these messages of love and caring and support. We've got your back. Take all the time you need. And thanks for your wise words to those of us fighting our own battles. Peace, Sheila.

Sally Swift

November 05, 2009 09:11 PM

I took a break for several months after my older sister died. It gives one energy and a new outlook. Enjoy the time of peace and quiet to attend to your own business. Come back soon as you are ready.
God Bless

Professor Emeritus Peter Bagnolo

November 05, 2009 09:30 PM

Take it easy, Buffy, and take care of yourself.

Smithery

November 05, 2009 09:51 PM

Who can blame you??? Take special care of yourself.... prayers sent!

MiddleAgedWomanBlogging

November 05, 2009 09:53 PM

be well, dear
we totally understand

Kathy Knechtges

November 05, 2009 09:53 PM

you will be missed, but i dont think anyone could fail to understand your need for some time and space to regroup.

love and hugs to you.

daisy jane smithie

November 05, 2009 09:59 PM

You do what you need to do, girl, and we shall welcome you back when you decide it is time.

Lisa Solod

November 05, 2009 10:04 PM

Dear Sheila,
I'll miss you but I do understand. Sometimes you just need to process the process. I'm glad you're not going away for good. Do what you need to do and know you'll be welcomed back with open (if virtual) arms.
Blessings and hopes for peace and healing,

Eva

Eva T. Made Vaudeville

November 05, 2009 10:45 PM

Ohhh. I didn't want to read this once I saw the title... but I do get it and fully support this move. Your comment today on my blog speaks volumes about what you 'know' about needing stillness. Peace and I look forward to finding peace with you.

mypsyche

November 05, 2009 11:03 PM

Take care wonderful lady!

Chicago Guy

November 05, 2009 11:04 PM

Know that you'll be missed and thought of often. Best wishes.

Kris T Parker

November 05, 2009 11:24 PM

Hope to see you back here soon. Thinking of you....

emma peel

November 06, 2009 12:12 AM

sounds like you're doing the right thing for you, love. just to remind you, i'm a phone call away and i now have references for what a funny and also insightful and intuitive person i am. seriously. ask Owl or Sirenita or Yarn Over and several others. love love love. (i can cut to the heart of any matter like a laser beam. seriously.)

Theodora L'Engle Knight

November 06, 2009 03:13 AM

You will be missed, but not forgotten. Take all the time you need, come back when you are ready, and savor the journey you are on ... hills and valleys ... which from both you will grow. Someone told me that once ... in essence ... and it helped. I think it was you.

Rod Emmons

November 06, 2009 07:17 AM

You'll be missed, but we understand fully, and love you unconditionally x

Kirsty Isitt

November 06, 2009 09:00 AM

Sending much love and strength your way...

Gwendolyn Glover

November 06, 2009 11:12 AM

"But I AM just fine."

Best news I've had this morning. I was all set to send you an e-mail....

Boanerges1

November 06, 2009 11:41 AM

yes come bk soon. good weather and warm wishes for you Sheila.

Rolling

November 06, 2009 01:25 PM

Take care -

Ann24

November 06, 2009 06:56 PM

Take care of you and be gentle with yourself.

the ranting boomer

November 06, 2009 10:23 PM

"I'm off living life and feeling it all... the good, the bad and the ugly." Spoken like the vibrant woman that you are.

Relax, reflect, rejuvenate...You deserve it. (((HUGS!)))

Skye Writer

November 06, 2009 11:38 PM

BuffyW Your absence will be noticed, your return celebrated. I will miss reading your blog but when its time to take a break; its time to take a break. Keep being good to yourself.

rainee174

November 07, 2009 10:56 AM

Best of everything you need and see you soon, Buffy.

Verbal Remedy AKA Denise

November 09, 2009 10:53 PM

:~). Wishing you well, Ms. Buffy!

Owl_Says_Who

November 10, 2009 10:05 AM

I did miss you, peace and thoughts to you....

rita shibr

November 12, 2009 08:53 AM

I kinda thought you were going to do this. I'm glad. Life is a series of revealing then reflecting. And I'm sure its time for you to go inward and do some work. We're still here.