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FEBRUARY 26, 2011 12:21PM

Backstories, gotta love 'em!

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A few years ago I was fortunate enough to meet a woman in our local antique shop.  She is a master seamstress.  As it were I happen to have a couple of designer dresses I wanted hemmed up a little.  I wouldn’t take them to just any seamstress to do because they were the once in a lifetime (mine anyway) designer dresses my husband insisted on buying me for my birthday a few years ago.

 

She eagerly accepted my two dresses.  When I took them over to her apartment there was so much of interest to look at.  It seems her mother previously worked in Italy for a famous designer becoming quite a seamstress with an eye and hand for very fine fabrics.  She collected beautiful dresses and handbags saving them for decades.  Her seamstress daughter, Susan, became the benefactor of many gorgeous, one-of-a-kind couture items which she took the best care of and when the stars were aligned perfectly she wore one.

 

On the day I came to pick up my two now hemmed perfectly dresses (Valentinos the Italian designer who made them) she gushed amply over the fine craftsmanship of their maker. I was delighted with her work.  The two dresses remained true to the original garment in every way.  I found a jewel of a seamstress.  

 

As I tried on the second one she stood there with a puzzled look on her face and I wondered if I had unintentionally signaled something was wrong.  Finally she smiled and said, “I’ll be right back.”  She disappeared into another room only to return in a flash with a hanger displaying a very simple, beautifully print Jersey dress.  Her eyes sparkled as she looked over the dress she first held closely then out and over to me.  I don’t mind saying I was confused now.

 

Pucci 

 A beautiful, colorful print Jersey.

 

“Do you like this dress?”  She then asked me with a half-smile.  (Like who wouldn’t?)

 

I looked it over. “Yeah I do.  It’s simple and elegant.”

 

“I knew you would.  Would you like to try it on?  Please.  It’s a Pucci from the sixties.”

 

Pucci 2 

Emilio Pucci's name is woven throughout.

 

 

“The Italian designer?  Oh, can I?”

 

“Sure.  You’re the only person I know who would fit into it.  I’ve totally reinforced all of the seams too.  It belonged to Frank Sinatra’s wife, Barbara.”

 

Eagerly I stripped off my own delicious dress knowing that soon I would be transformed (even if only in my mind) into the Hollywood days most only have dreamed about.  Who knew Barbara Sinatra and I wore the same size?

 

I slipped the thin Jersey over my head and it glided into place.  It fit like it was made for me.  I had a flash of a moment of remembrance. How strange a few years ago Frank and Barbara lived on the corner near my in-laws?  Now he is gone.  Then it dawned on me we had a cigarette lighter Mr. Sinatra use to give out as a Thank You at home.

 

Sinatra Lighter 

 The lighter, a real relic now.

 

I was most surprised when Susan said, "Please accept this dress as a gift from me.  I know you will appreciate it.  It's important for it to have a good home."

 

She wrapped the dress up with a loving hand, only giving it to me after the layers of tissue paper covered it completely.

 

I still have all three dresses, a Valentino red cocktail dress, a black one, and of course the colorful in many ways Pucci. Now I am a couple of pounds heavier, a decade older, much less inclined to wear any of them, but oh the memories.

 

The Sinatra lighter is about to be given to my brother-in-law. Now a relic from the Sinatra days to my father-in-law days to my husband days and finally back to a family member who can remember when Old Blue Eyes had some class.

 

Wearing Pucci 

 Okay...here I am in it.

 

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With love from me to you.
Oh my goodness....I always thought I was alone in having such feelings for some items of clothing. I ca never part with some items that remind me of good times. There are a few things that I always had fun while wearing, almost as if they became imbued with a sense of time and place......thanks for this one. rated
Wow. I want to see you in the Barbara Sinatra dress!
I'm guessing that there is no one who believes and even treasures your title more than me. 95% of the time I find the backstories to be the ones that call me. As a private joke with myself, that I've never written till now, I called my main page here "Back Pages" for exactly that reason. And the Sinatra story is a PERFECT example of what I'm talking about. Am going to put on Sinatra right now!
I love the Pucci fabric...very nicely told story Buffy, enjoyed.
I love your back stories dear friend and I could sit and listen to them for hours, which I would do if you ever catch that dang plane to Missouri.
Great story, lots of Italian influence, big Sinatra fan

Buffy
I want you to wear the Pucci and take a pic! This is such a lovely piece...I understand the love of fine fabrics and the craft of making fine clothes...couture...oh...memories...you wrote this so delicately that I could see that dress wrapped in the tissue...wear it, wear it! xox
So you take the dress back to the seamstress to have it taken out (just a scootch) - wear it and enjoy & post the picture here.
This story has some class, too, Sheila. An absolute delight.
And now you get to do it 'your way' :) Pretty cool:))
The history of things. I like to contemplate it all.
I had no idea you would want me in it...not the best shot, but taken today.
your stories help me travel beyond where i've been. thanks ~ stetson.
Wonderful story and a wonderful woman to give it to you, yet another wonderful woman. Loved the picture...you look fahbulous in that dress.
Ha - Thanks Shelia. I take back my statement - The seams don't have to be taken out at all. Gorgeous - you & the dress.
A delightful story. Enjoyed every word of it. What great memory and memorabilia.
♥R
That Pucci is amazing and you look wonderful in it. The seamstress saw that the two of you were destined for one another.
I love the story and you and the dress are perfect together.~r
Whoa, Buffy! You are a knockout in that dress! Foxy ladah! xox
So glad I came back with time to comment and there you are in the Pucci! How fantastic to have that arrive for you...one of the truly original fabric artists.
Nice Sinatra tidbit as well, life can be so large and isolated, yet so small and linked in other ways...
Backstories, indeed. I enjoyed this. : )
Susan the seamstress was right. You look perfect in the "Emilio Pucci" dress.
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that dress fits you perfectly!
and a lovely story to match
thank you
Gorgeous. Modest-yet-sexy. And SO 60s!
woooohoooo. Hawt, Buffy.
Lovely ... post, dress and you!
Va -Voom! You are beautiful and I can never get enough of your stories.
Oh the Karma...Great post I enjoyed this tale.:)
What a wonderful story.
How lucky you were to have found this woman.
R
I grew up with a designer mother. So good to hear about a dress from the wearer!
Fab.u.lous. Congrats on the dress -- who knew?