BuffyW
- Location
- California, USA
- Birthday
- August 10
- Bio
- When I figure it out I'll add it, one blog at a time.
MY RECENT POSTS
- A Year of Us.
May 04, 2012 02:29PM - More than a Daydream
April 05, 2012 12:25PM - Ain't Life Grand!
February 08, 2012 11:52AM - The Circle of Life
January 24, 2012 12:24PM - Happy Birthday FusunA!
January 12, 2012 11:14AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “What a delightful and
fun wedding it looks to have
been!
Congratulations to
all,…”
May 21, 2012 01:23PM - “There are days...but
never a day which let me write
something
like this! Great
j…”
May 16, 2012 12:06PM - “What if I hadn't joined
OS and missed all of the
wonderful
posts...and a chance
t…”
May 16, 2012 11:49AM - “Redemptive describes it
perfectly. So very different,
yes at
times even the
same…”
May 12, 2012 07:35PM - “A wonderful commentary
about how we feel and
why...When
things get rough I
still…”
May 09, 2012 11:14AM
BuffyW's Links
- New list
- Handmade Houses
- A Loss of Innocence Series...
- A Loss of Innocence-10
- A Loss of Innocence-9
- A Loss of Innocence-8
- A Loss of Innocence-7
- A Loss of Innocence-6
- A Loss of Innocence-5
- A Loss of Innocence-4
- A Loss of Innocence-3
- A Loss of Innocence-2
- A Loss of Innocence-1
- On Widowhood
- Save the Last Dance For Me
- A Life of Lace
- Life's Many Soundtracks
- Taking a Breath for Two Now
- What Part of Social Don't You Get?
- To Grow Sometimes You Have To Shrink
- So You Think You Want Control...
- My World Would Be Emptier Without Each of You
- Because I Love You
- Lady Sings Her Blues
- The Gray Suit-Lost and Found
- The Class of '69-The Real 90210 High School Reunion
- Gone But Never Forgotten
- Now What?
- The Appearance of the Blue Man in My Life
- When Your Father and Son Are Considerate of Your Feelings
- If I Could Breathe For You I Would
- My TV Relationships Have Changed
- Grieving-I Choose to Make it About Living
- Knit One..Pearl One..Just Don't Be Yourself
- Sleep Eating--When I Wear My Best Pajamas
- When is Sex Appropriate for a Widow?
- Musings on Life
- What Being Single Really Means
- Eating Single Again
- Separating the Me from Us
- Other Memoir Related Posts
- The 1976 Academy Awards, I Was There.
- Sunburn, Sushi and "I'll Remember You"
- The Very Best of the Least Desirable
- In Sickness and in Health
- Champagne, Caviar and Travel in Days Gone By
- My Nights in the Opium Den with Whatshisname
- What haven't I Done?
- Couples Need Codes Sometimes
- I Miss the Bitch..aka Mom
- I Slept With a Piece of American History
- The heartbreak of Adoption-2
- The Heartbreak of Adoption
- My Night With Jack Nicholson in Monte Carlo
- America Tonight...
- Tommy Sands, Elvis, Mickey Mouse and A Teenage Crush
- Speaking of Farrah Hair
- The Fishing Lesson
- The Jewelbox of My Mind
- Oh We Knew We Couldn't Dance!
- Mother to Sophia Loren; You Stink!
- Mixed Drinks, A Drunk Girl and School
- Guns, Gams and Big Game Hunting
- How Alice Cooper Came to Live in My Passion Pit
- I kissed a Frog and I Liked it
- Fear and Loathing in LA
- Card, Kisses and Grudges
- A Stripper, A Comedian and A Road Trip
- My Soap Opera Life...
A Loss of Innocence-Part Five
All three of us; Shelly, Serge and I, sat in the front seat. There was no mention made of what had just taken place. Maybe they knew what I was going through. They never did say it would be easy. In fact, they never said much.
I tried not to… Read full post »
It is not all about the chocolate.
We received a lovely box of delectable chocolates as a gift. It was from the mentally retarded daughter of an employee of my husband's and was an expression of her sincere… Read full post »
I kissed a frog and I liked it.
In fact, I have kissed hundreds of frogs and I would do it again in a hot minute, given another opportunity. A frog by any other name is still a frog,… Read full post »
Which Am I?
A Loss of Innocence-Part Four

I reasoned the only way I could continue to pay rent and eat would be to get a job as a cocktail waitress. If I was going to be in bars every night, might as well get… Read full post »
Rattlesnake 101 and Other Lessons in Humility
The red tail hawk circled the ground effortlessly at eye level. Once the circle was at his closest point to me his eye caught mine briefly, his wings tipping ever so slightly in an elegant, graceful acknowledgement of shared space.
It is but mere a moment in time, yet one… Read full post »
A Loss of Innocence-Part Three
I should not have been surprised at how sick I was; I had tonsillitis. The doctors at the Army Hospital in Oakland decided I should get my tonsils taken out. When you are the single parent of a two year old, you wonder how you will handle it. For a… Read full post »
The Rollicking Romp of Nada and Lady Scarlett-fiction.
The flight from San Francisco was an overnighter, landing in London on New Year’s Day, 1968. I had a slight champagne hangover, being the jetsetter I am. All of the other passengers in First Class banded together to form our little party in the sky, first-rate music, food, champagne and w… Read full post »
A Loss of Innocence-Part Two
Fortunately abortions were not yet legal. On November 9, 1966 (Daddy’s birthday) in a church I’d never attended, I walked down the isle on the arm of my father, legs barely able to walk for all the quivering. My high school sweetheart, the father of the baby in my… Read full post »

"You and I are going for a drive." Mother said in her matter-of-no-choice tone. Ironically the place she chose, the beach parking lot, was the exact place I had gott… Read full post »
It’s Take A Hooker Home for Dinner Week!
Well, not quite that bad, but hearing how brothels are experiencing a downturn in business, during this downturn in the economy, is making news? Give me a break.
Look, I feel bad for the women, sure, but having worked in a legal brothel during the 70’s it was no picnic… Read full post »
Fluffing and Other Age-Related Goodies.
Ahhh, the joys of aging! I remember when I was young and in love.
Sigh. There were certain things, at this
precarious stage of our lives we would never discuss with our
lover, much less admit to. For instance fluffing.
In cruder language, fluffs are
nothing more t… Read full post »
Just what I needed, yet another expression of self!
Since when did someone flipping me off get personal?
I have never, until yesterday, flipped anyone off in my vast number of years in existence. What was it about yesterday that prompted me to actually do it? Could it be the cumulative pressure of so much crap floating in this… Read full post »

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