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AUGUST 27, 2010 8:56AM

Bullied, Literally, To Death

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Here's a story to chill your blood -- a boss whose bullying drove an employee to suicide:

The suicide of the managing editor at an Ellies-winning literary magazine late last month has sparked an investigation into alleged bullying by its editor -- and is putting the publication’s long-term future in serious doubt.

Kevin Morrissey, the 52-year-old managing editor of the Virginia Quarterly Review, took his own life on July 30. According to his family and several VQR staffers, in the weeks leading up to his death, Morrissey (pictured, right) had been subjected to bullying by his boss, 38-year-old editor-in-chief Ted Genoways (pictured, left).

“It was a toxic environment for Kevin,” VQR Web editor Waldo Jaquith told NBC News. “Ted’s treatment of Kevin during the last few weeks of his life was just egregious.”

And Genoways’ treatment of Kevin on the day of his death appeared to push Morrissey over the edge.

Shortly before 10 a.m. on July 30, Genoways sent an e-mail to Morrissey “accusing him of jeopardizing the life of a writer,” according to one account reported by The Hook, a local newsweekly. At 11:30 a.m., Morrissey called 911 to report a shooting near a coal tower in Charlottesville, Virginia. When police arrived, they found Morrissey dead, the victim of a self-inflicted gunshot wound.

None of this surprises me at all. I've met some of the most toxic, brutal people in my life in journalism -- all of them in positions of power:

The female trade magazine editor who routinely shouted abuse at everyone, even across a room filled with cubicles. Including curses.

The trade magazine publisher who spent his days, earning $150,000 in 1996, writing freelance articles for his magazines' competitor. The one who stood in my office, shrieking at me like a five-year-old.

The newspaper photo editor, notorious in our city for his behavior, who shouted at me: "Your simple questions are the most complicated I've heard in 30 years."

No point continuing.

If you have never been bullied at work, thank your god(s.) If you have, you know what an utter hell it is.

Not everyone who is bullied will choose to kill themself. But those who live are deeply scarred by it, their self-confidence shattered. It's not something you quickly or easily shrug off. In a recession, who will quit even the most vicious of workplaces?

We all live in a bully culture. "You're fired!", sneered publicly, is the tagline of a popular television show. "Wipeout" shows people slipping, sliding and falling off an obstacle course.

It has to stop. It never will.

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Teachers like to tell kindergarteners that names can't hurt you and when someone says something, you're the one who allows yourself to be hurt by it. Maybe one time, this true, but evidence shows people do get worn down by constant negative feed back from others. Good post.
Heather
when i moved to DC years ago, i got a great piece of advice (can't now remember from whom, alas): "In the absence of real power, people build their own little empires." It's hard to take the high road, to invest in real power: the power of communication (e.g., mostly listening), the power of effectiveness and the ability to really make things better, the power of compassion. So much easier to pick sides and lay blame.

i tell my students: respect for authority has to be earned by authority. in fact, they are the ones who teach me this, every day.

a bracing post, civilized and true. some of us hear you and work to reflect these values in the workplace.
This kind of bullying surely goes on more often than not all across the country (if not the world) every single day. But we also now witness more and more of this happening online. I can only hope that the end results are not as horrifying. I fear that with time, there will be more that end like this sad tale did and will often go unreported. Abusers of any kind see nothing wrong with pushing those (they deem much weaker or more superior than) to the brink. They just move on to the next victim. And sometimes, they come back.
Welcome Caitlin. You're from the area I lived in for over 30 years-- Pocantico Hills.

I've had special difficulty with bullying women bosses. I once had a great job as managing editor of a Westchester magazine and quit after a month because of the bullying editor. (You may know of her.) Just couldn't abide it.
Also, if you get into a relationship with a male boss, as I have, forgetaboutit.

Bullying is quite the hot topic here at OS right now, so this post is especially relevent. It was handled pretty strongly, as it should have been. Some are prone to it only when they can hide--which is not only bullying, but cowardly bullying.
Thanks...It's one of the few behaviors it's very hard to fight back against as the victim ends up being tarred as well for the sin of being (perceived as) weak or worth picking on. I was bullied for three years in high school and it scarred me for life. I am prone to over-react to even the most affectionate teasing and I loathe being the object of (unrequested) attention, verbal or visual.

cb, teachers have a huge role to play -- I loathed my teachers for knowing how bad my life was and never, once, confronting these bullies. Total dereliction of their duty to protect me, not only their jobs.

cartouche, indeed. I see it in many places. The hardest part is standing up to them. They are utterly shocked when you do because, by so doing, you've removed their power.

Lea, I know exactly who that is and I have a friend who also worked there, also briefly. Fascinating how she retains her power all these years later. Tells you what her boss -- like all -- values most: ad $$$, not a steady, skilled staff.
boy, this brought me back in time---a similar situation happened to me---for 3 years I took it until I just couldn't anymore----so i sued my SOB publisher/partners....right before xmas of last year, I deposited their 'apology' into my bank account----the money didn't make up for all that I was put through over that 3 year period HOWEVER, beating their asses via the legal system did....Bullies will bully until you stop them...period.
Marla, good for you. Ba-Boom! I also brought in legal firepower at my last FT job and won severance for the way they harrassed me, clearly trying to force me to quit.

The whole point of bullying is to remind the weak of their impotence. It's a great way to learn some new behaviors.
It's crazy how a little power will go to peoples heads and make them bullies. These people are really insecure jerks who would get their ass handed to them if they did that to someone who wasn't scared of losing their job.
scanner, so true. The best choice anyone can make is to create and keep a f---k you fund so if you find yourself at the mercy of a bully, you can quit with your dignity, health and finances intact. I walked out of one of the above jobs, single, terrified to leave. A good friend -- who had worked with me for one of the others named above said "You'll spend it on hospital fees if you stay because you'll have a nervous breakdown. Go freelance." I did and I made it -- partly because the idea of staying was so abhorrent.

It's another reason I live on a low overhead. Freedom!
I was bullied out of my last job. A lawsuit is in progress.

What I don't get is, how do these people keep their jobs?
David, they obviously feel safe in their roles and assume, often rightly, the victim will just quit -- and won't sue. A few well-placed, won, lawsuits can teach them otherwise. But it's difficult to prove.