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Artist, former newspaper columnist and restaurant critic. Author of "In Pursuit of Excellence" (the first cookbook of Two Star Michelin Chef Josiah Citrin). In my spare minute I can be found blogging here, on Huffington Post and other places that don't pay. And writing for some that do. You are NOT in Kansas anymore, Toto. Neither am I.

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MARCH 28, 2011 1:13AM

Remembering More than a Teacher

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My sophomore year in high school, I became part of an organization called Girls Glee Club and Men’s Chorus.  By the time I graduated in 1978, its name had been changed to Heights Singers. Political correctness had just cracked open the door.

For those three years, I had the privilege of learning from a master music educator named Bill Thomas. My senior year, I had the honor of serving as president of the glee club side of that 120 member equation. Dan Stashower was the president of the chorus side and together with Mr. Thomas, the three of us enjoyed a wonderful teacher-student partnership.

Bill Thomas 

Over the years, Mr. Thomas was a powerful force and mentor to his students. Our winter and spring concerts ran for two nights each and were always performed to sold-out audiences. We took an annual spring tour to a different city every year, complete with a dozen adult chaperones that herded and controlled us like nobody’s business. In my own middle age, I marvel at what those parents did for us back then and what they put up with. Under the ever-watchful eye and precise instructions of our fearless leader, we piled in and out of five buses (a nod to Bus #1: “Heeeeeere’s Earl!”), numerous hotel rooms and various stages like well-trained soldiers.

Somewhere between the 6 a.m. wake-up calls, "mee ah mee ah mee”  vocal warm-ups, the grueling twice-daily performance schedule (often in inner city schools) and rolls of ducts tape, we managed to sightsee, eat three square and visit numerous landmarks before room to room visits were made to assure lights out at 11. Our education never stopped.

Performing in Washington, DC by invitation to  the nation’s capitol as we celebrated the bicentennial remains one of my most cherished memories. The echo of our collective voices singing in that rotunda of the senate brought chills to our spines. We were “Up with People” in a younger version.

Mr. Thomas was simultaneously a music director, therapist, educator, father figure and friend to countless students over the course of his 30-year career. He also was a perfectionist and disciplinarian who possessed as strong a sense of compassion as he did humor. The impact he made on so many cannot be overstated. He always had a moment (or an hour) to listen to a student who needed an ear. His was not only for music. His huge heart and enormous belly laugh could swallow a room whole. He was like the McDonalds of music: thousands and thousands served.

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In the summers, he served as the director of Cain Park, a beautiful gem that is home to one of Cleveland’s most prestigious art festivals. Numerous plays and productions are performed in the lovely amphitheatre in the summer. I worked for him for two seasons as his administrative assistant and learned how to drive stick shift in a Cushman.  I drove that little garbage truck out of that gorgeous park and home for lunch one day. Sure I could do so without getting caught, I only got busted because I stalled so many times on inclines at red lights that I was late back to work. Mr. Thomas was not a man to make mad. He could throw you over his shoulder and carry you across the stage while swigging a Diet Coke if you got him angry (for say, not running to answer the incessantly ringing phone quickly enough in his office). In spite of that, he was loved by us all. My senior year at Christmas, we gifted him with hundreds of bottles and cans of Diet Coke to feed his legendary and much-teased addiction.

Aside from teaching and serving as director of the Grace Lutheran Church choir, Bill was a devoted husband and an extremely kind, loving family man. In spite of his enormous responsibilities and demanding schedule, he was generous with his time and heart and a tireless champion for people and causes he believed in. I was one of many of them.

I learned of his battle with Parkinson’s disease a few years ago and friended his wife on Facebook. Jane was open with updates about Bill’s declining health and difficult battle with a disease that eventually robbed him of his ability to speak. He could barely move. While in Cleveland last summer, I saw him for the first time in decades. He was sitting front and center at Cain Park watching a group of middle-aged guys known as “The Doo Wops” performing songs from the 50’s on that balmy summer night. Those men were once his students. They were immensely popular and performed together for years at various venues. They reunited a few years ago and dedicate their concerts today to the man who helped them form their group and develop their talent.

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During intermission, my sister Fran (also a former glee club member and officer) and I walked over to Bill and Jane to greet them. It was an emotional reunion. I will never forget the steely gaze of his piercing blue eyes. Words no longer existed for a man who once could talk you in or out of anything. His body was stiff, but Jane managed to stand and hold him up. His rigid arms extended out to me. I leaned into him and held him close.

At the end of my presidency in 1978, he had taken me aside and told me that I should be proud of what I had accomplished during my tenure. I had waited all year to hear him say those words – that he was proud. Now, more than three decades later, it was my turn. I told Bill that he had been a critically important person in my life; a man who believed in me, listened when no one else would and had made me a better, kinder, stronger human being. Tears streamed down my cheeks as I walked away. I knew I probably would never see him again but was so grateful for the opportunity to have had the ability to finally tell him what an impact he had made on my life.

Bill suffered his last of many strokes last Thursday night and never recovered. His son David announced his death on Facebook on Friday night March 25th. I wish I could go to Cleveland for his memorial service next Saturday, where I am sure thousands of former students and parents will turn out to honor this powerful force of a man and pay their respects to a teacher who touched so many people.  Iris Rubinfield, an iconic GGC-MC parent legend herself (she directed the musicals), will be in attendance.  I spoke with her earlier today and we reminisced about the old days and shared our memories. When I told her what was planned for the service she replied, “I won’t be able to stand it.” She and my sister will both have to do it for me, since I won’t be able to attend.

Our signature song, “Let it be Me” was almost always the last of every concert and became the encore (if we had performed well). It will be a heartfelt tribute when all those voices from 30 years join together in harmony to sing in honor of Bill Thomas one last time. I can’t think of a more fitting conclusion to an emotional service for a dearly loved man (who we often referred to as "King Bill")  whose life has come to an end. They better not sing off-key.  Bill will (still and) finally be conducting down to the last note, free of any restraint. I can only imagine the “alamem” chant that will break out afterword. It will be a beautiful sendoff (in any combination of red, white and blue).

Rest in peace, Bill. I hope and pray there’s a Diet Coke building in heaven. Your photo would certainly feature prominently in its hall of fame and a room in it would be reserved especially for you with the unmistakable placard on the door that reads, “William D. Thomas, Musical Director”.

Regardless, your fine legacy will surely take up more than the entire 4th floor of a place filled with much love. Thank you for inspiring, changing and touching so many lives.  

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In loving memory of William D. Thomas, August 24, 1942 – March 25, 2011.

Images by/from: Sal Irigoyen, Nina Cohen, Jane Thomas, Al Glickson 

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With apologies for many of the inside references, this post was written as a tribute and retrospective from an era for people who were part of the GGC-MC/Heights Singers.  To my friends at OS:  I have been insanely busy with a project that has taken up my time over the past two months and will continue to do so for the foreseeable future.  I apologize for posting and running, but it's what I need to do and only wrote this because of the important role this man played in many lives, including mine. Hope to see you all sometime in May! 

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Beautiful tribute - it sounds like the world became richer at his birth, and poorer at his death.
So nice to see you! Just had to say that - now I'll actually read!
This is a shining tribute and elegy - what a man! Thank you for sharing him tonight.
Every student needs a teacher like this man in their lives. Thank you for your heart-felt tribute to him, Cartouche.

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Godspeed Bill..

To provoke such a tribute, so many years, so many miles later.

If any one of us might be such an impact on any one other then it will have been worth the years and miles.

Good to see ya Cartouche, hit and run it may be but well worth the impact ;).

Rated for honor.
As already been said, a beautiful tribute to what sounds like a wonderful man and teacher!!

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We need these heroes, and we need people like you to hold their honor before us. Could more be said of any person? I feel like I was there with you. Up close and personal.

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Enjoyed reading this.
I have really loved a few of my old teachers and I can feel the great respect and enjoyment you must have felt towards him. It is really a sad moment to have our favorite educators fall with the stroke of the clock because their time is almost up. Thanks for teachers everywhere who inspired.
Such a loving and inspiring tribute. It really means something to have a lifelong impact on so many lives or even just one. ~r
The value of a life well-lived in service to generations who will carry him forward indeed cannot be measured. Teaching with love is always less about the subject and more about the lives touched and the example given. God-speed Bill...So kind of you to share him and this with us, Cartouche. Magnificent life...magnificent tribute my friend. a thousand stars and r's. xo xo xo
Sweet and touching, Cartouche. Good to see you back.
Tgis, really, is a tribute to the very best teachers we all had. r.
Requiescat in pace. You have given him a loving and honorable tribute and are a living part of his lasting legacy.
A lovely tribute to an obviously wonderful man, cartouche. Good to hear your voice again, however briefly. I am sorry for your loss--but you should be proud of how you told his story.
This was such a warm, wonderful tribute. May he rest in peace.

I'm also glad to see you posting - good luck with your project!
Some time ago I did an open call asking for stories of remarkable teachers. This would have fit in quite nicely.
It's a lovely, touching memorial to a man who made a difference in your-as well as many others-life. It's amazing the power a teacher has. They can make or break a student, and it's obvious Mr. Thomas fit in the former category. You never forget the ones who inspired, supported, and nurtured your dreams and desires.
Parkinson's is a hard row to hoe. I am so glad he packed so much into life early on. What a fabulous legacy!
So glad to see you here today -- missed your writing very much. This reminds me of Mr. Holland's Opus, and is such a wonderful tribute to the power of a good teacher. I liked this piece very much and I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm sure he is directing the heavenly choir! RRRRR
I hope every young person comes across a William D. Thomas sometime in his life, who leaves such indelible impressions by his character and example. A befitting tribute, Patricia, to an inspirational teacher.
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What a lovely tribute, cartouche. As a teacher of 18 years it is what I most hope to achieve throughout the course of my career: make a lasting impact on the children I encounter daily. The personal interactions, caring, and supporting them are the lessons that will be most remembered.
A beautiful tribute. A remarkable man.
Lovely tribute. Till later ...
Lovely tribute to another wonderful teacher . -R-
This was a beautiful post about an amazing man. It made me think about all of the wonderful mentors in my life.
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lovely, patricia. there are teachers and musicians who influence so many of us as children. to have known someone like this who was both was great good luck for you and all his students.
What a beautiful tribute. What a wonderful world it would be if everyone had the privilege of a teacher/mentor/inspiration like this in their life.
This would have made a terrific eulogy. Too bad you weren't there to deliver it.
Rest in peace Mr. Thomas.
When you're gone the only thing that matters is that you are missed, remembered and loved.

Beautiful tribure. / r
Wonderful portrait of an individual who clearly made a difference. Thank you.
To Mr. Thomas and all the teachers who brought out the best in each of us. In heaven, regular Coke is nutritious and is used by the angels to clear their throats before a rousing "Amen" chorus.
beautiful tribute. how lucky you were to have such a relationship, and then get to express your gratitude and goodbye to his present, listening heart, in person.
You share his magic with all of us. Lovely remembrance.
Thank you for sharing him.
It is wonderful to be able to point to a great instructor, teacher, mentor in life and share that experience and appreciation for their contribution to your life and the lives of others. Nice work.
This is a kind gesture for one of the many who has given so much.
I can feel the love and respect coming through in every word of this moving tribute. I also miss teachers who made a big difference when I was a kid. They sure deserve a lot more than they get, don't they? R.
Nice to see you back cartouche. Beautiful tribute. Most of us have teacher or two who helped us out but you really struck gold with yours. Good luck on your project. I'm swamped too and doubt I''ll be able to post till May.
Awwwwwwww. This was just so beautiful. What a great teacher. Do remember that line in Goodbye Mr. Chips, where someone asks Mr. Chips if he is sorry he never had children, and he replies oh but I have, hundreds of children. As Mr. Thomas did. Nice to see you, girlie!
I've missed your posts and wondered about you. Glad to see you back and in top form.
I had no idea that you were an Ohio gal. Your secret has now been outed.

As usual, you've done an absolutely superb job of writing. You are still the queen of all OS. We worship and adore you.
I think this man continues to teach through you and his other students. Our mentors are the force for good in the universe.
Thank you for letting us know this lovely man. Beautifully written post.