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Charles Bivona

Charles Bivona
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Poetic writer, Writing Professor activist, retired ass model--I've worn many hats. Luckily, I look good in hats. Presently, I'm mouthing off on the internet.

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NOVEMBER 30, 2009 2:02PM

Bodhi the Kitten: The Way of Bodhi

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Bodhi weighs about two pounds.  I weigh significantly more than two pounds.  Yet he just ran across the couch, leapt on my shoulder, hung on with all four sets of claws, and started playfully gnawing me.  The leap alone was brave, but the nibbling is pure trust. He trusts implicitly that I will not use my size against him.  He trusts that I will understand that he is only playing.

Bodhi Meditating 

Even more amazingly, he shows restraint.  He only retracts his claws enough to hang on, and not enough to scratch.  I have been playing with this kitten for almost a week and he has never punctured my skin.

He does love to bite my toes, but just enough to make me laugh.  There was a pamphlet at the vet’s office.  It said that Bodhi’s jaw was strong enough to crush a human hand.  His mouth is designed to be lethal, and he tickles my toes with his teeth, instead.

Bodhi Chilling 

So today I realized that Bodhi is a model of instinctual wisdom, a manifestation of pure Buddhahood.  Observe:  First, he always exerts courage, even against impossible odds—sometimes he misses in his leaps, but he always tries again.  Also, he has no issues with trust. If I pet him while he’s sleeping, he rolls over and exposes his belly.  If I rub his belly, he lets out a deep sigh.  Understand, this cat knows how to completely relax.  He often arches his back over my leg and falls asleep.  He lets his body go limp when I hold him.  His every muscle just loosens. [I wish I could let go like that, don’t you?]  But most importantly, Bodhi is a pacifist—a worker for peace by example.  He never intentionally harms a soul and his tail never swings in agitation.  

Bodhi being cute 

 

Conclusion, I share my home with an enlightened being.  I have accumulated some very good karma. 

 

Click here to watch Bodhi's cute video. 

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I agree, Midwest Muse. He is my little man. I love him.
He is a very sweet kitty, however, given half a chance, he would gladly kill anything that he could catch.
Cats are good people! Did you name him after the Swayze character in "Point Break"?
ah, so sweet. I'm also amazed these little beings trust us big lumbering ones so much. Well, most do. Our cat has attacks of paranoia at least 3 times a day even after 10 years amongst us. She's obviously on her first life.
He's a beauty. I love that inquisitive expression on his face.
peace and happiness Bodhi
wonderful. these are the things i think about with my own giant cat (16 pounds, strang jaw and lethal claws) - he plays only tough enough to enjoy himself, rarely breaks the skin even at his wildest, and always lays with me in complete trust. cats are awesome beings.
Rated. Good photos, too, especially the last one: Buddhahood intrigued by the camera-eye.
Bodhi is a hit. Thank you all. He will love his new celebrity status.

For those who are wondering, his full name is Bodhisattva Manjushri. It's a Tibetan name.

Here is some more information for the truly curious:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manjusri
"Buddhahood intrigued by the camera-eye." I like that, BOKO. Thank you.
Yup. Namaste, Bodhi. Om shanti, Charles.
Om Namashivaya.
Oh, what a little precious!
Lovely post, and, yes. I am sure Bodhi will be reporting back to the Cat Planet soon that you are a quick learner. ;)
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you all. Many blessings to all of you.
Yes you have! Wonderful! xox
Cats bring us the best of all character elements. They will love you without being needy or ingratiating. They are gentle, yet not so far up the evolutionary chain that domestication has removed the tiny tiger still living in their hearts. They're easily content, they ask for little; instead they wait patiently for what is bestowed. They are proud creatures, yet there is nothing so humble as a cat seeking to curl up in your lap.

Bodhi will bring you many years of love and joy. What an adorable face and fun personality. It's wonderful to share life with a smaller creature that trusts so readily.

Yours was the post that brought me to Open Salon. I Stumbled Upon your blog of Bodhi and so enjoyed it I signed up here and now have my own blog. So thank you. Pets do have a way of bringing people together.
What a great compliment, Starfish! Thank you. Happy writing.
Harry: Bodhi means "Enlightenment" in Sanskrit. It may be a movie character's name but in this case it's fitting to go with the original meaning.
Bodhi! What a great name. Cats are pretty much buddha nature Unless you live on a bird sanctuary and they get out one day. I'm pretty sure my cat Banshee will be coming back, briefly, as several of the birds she assasinated one July. But I'm convinced my dog, Blitzen, is coming back as some great spiritual leader. She is, honestly, without sin. Her twelth birthday is coming up at Christmas and, honestly, in all that time I think the worst she'd done is once eat a crayon.
I'm getting a dog today. I hope my six cats will be gentle with him...
By the way, my dog's name is Bodhi, a rescue with an opaque past which left him extremely fearful of . . . everything.

He is nervous, very loud (by far the loudest Beagle I've ever heard), tends to bark incessantly at inanimate objects (yesterday it was the rake, the other day it was the vacuum, which was not on or moving), and at first, an all around destruction machine. Stuff like photographs, important papers, shoes.

And yet he "told" me his name was Bodhi. Enlightenment. I learned all kinds of patience, and how to love and value breathing beings more than "stuff", and how fear and need translate into exasperating behavior that can only be quelled by steady, comforting companionship.

He is not enlightened like Bodhi the kitty. He's still skittish and annoyingly loud (see: neighbors).

But when looks you right in the eye with the gentle hope of acceptance, he offers enlightenment as a gift.
KIDDEN!!! Kidden kidden kidden...

*Melts into kitten-induced pile of goop at desk*

Oops, must go solidify.
He's a dead ringer for my cat, Mr. Abrams, who picked my wife and I a year ago when some asshole abandoned him in the woods behind our daughter's house. Orange short-hair males are amazing and incredibly friendly.
I am a photographer and I swear your cat could be a model!!

Gosh, my cats must have come from a different planet than so many of the cats here. I have two boys, Timmee & Mikee, who were teensy kids living with their mother at a dumpster. After many episodes of cat operas, they finally grew into "mancats".

As "mancats", they have one game that is purely a joy to watch. One goes to the other and starts grooming him. As soon as the groomee is really getting into the "zone".....the groomer attacks. This happens every night around 9 p.m.

As for as "content"...I ran out of dry cat food yesterday and last night I had to listen to a variety of sounds that came from them. First there was denial (that I would forget the food), then anger (sitting on the feeding table and whipping their tails)....then grief. Timmee got under the bookcase and laid as if he were dead. Mikee was meowing in the most pitiful sound he can make. He finally collapsed on top of my "Taos pantry" and never quit looking at me with the saddest look upon his face.

My boys are rascals and I love them dearly and they love me..as long as I keep a good supply of dry cat food in the pantry.
i fear all cats. even small, innocent looking ones like yours. the mere idea of a cat flying through the air, attaching itself to me with claws and hanging there makes me feel ill. but the cat gets big points for being totally cute.
It is of the finest, most subtle Karma....He is a gift...
I love this community. Thank you for all of your loving comments. Be well, all of you.
I have Bodhi the German Shepherd. Also highly enlightened.
I too have a Bodhi in my family, half shepard and half rottie and though I am not sure yet that the enlightened part really fits, he is a very happy dog. Most people think I've named him Bodie after the ghost town and when I explain the enlightened part of Bodhi, they look at me like I need some enlightenment. An enlightened dog? Great post and wonderful photos.
What a great expression in those eyes!
Some cats are less patient than others, but I love them all. I became allergic in my late teens, but now can have a kitty again. Your roomie Bodhi is handsome as well as enlightened.
I think this is one of my all time favorite cat posts. A lot of new things to think about when I interact with my cats.
what a wonderful tribute to your cat (who's adorable)
I admit, I avoided this post, but read it yesterday at work.
Love the name you chose for this "ball of fire."
It sounds like you two are gonna be friends.
;-)
Got to love a cat like that!
My cat is in love with your cat. Sigh... long distance relationships are so difficult.
A marmalade-kitty! So very excellent for you, and a sterling demonstration of your good taste, in being chosen by such a beautiful and discriminating kitty.
But does he sleep on your feet on cold nights, and keep you warm? Inquiring minds want to know all these fussy details...
I tries to sit on my keyboard when I'm writing. He did this tonight. Here is his kitten poem.

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Awww, Bodhi is a total sweetheart! He sees all, he knows all... reminds me of my own ZaZa, or else St. Nick himself! What adorable paws he has! Charles, you are a lucky human being... and I think that Bodhi himself knows that he is one fortunate cat. May you both share much love and enlightenment throughout your life journey together. I really enjoyed this post. : D
Lucky you and lucky Bodhi!
~fatRocco and feralRusty
My mother's cat was named Bodhi also. I always thought it was a particularly good name for a cat. And a constant reminder of the enlightened souls surrounding us. (Her parrot was named Shanti.)
Bodhi wants you all to go to:

facebook.com/pages/Bodhi-the-Kitten/142181361996