Molly Schoemann

Molly Schoemann
Garner, North Carolina,
April 04
I am an NYC ex-pat who currently lives in Garner, North Carolina.


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SEPTEMBER 24, 2011 10:50PM

If People Were Honest on Facebook

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Your feed might look more like this:

[Bob]: I hope my ex-girlfriend notices that I am attending the Film Festivel “Nietzsche’s Influence: A Silent Retrospective”. When she dumped me last year she said I wasn’t ‘interested in ideas’. This will show her!

I will not actually attend this event.

[Mary]: I’ve come across an obscure three-second animated clip of a cat that appears to be using a tiny hula hoop, after aimlessly surfing the internet for five hours as I do most evenings. I have posted this clip on my Facebook wall as proof of my quirky, idiosyncratic existence. Please acknowledge it.

[Alan]: I would like it to be known that I am out drinking at a bar right now, so I have posted a dull comment about the beer I just ordered, while out at this bar, drinking. With my many friends.

[Louise]: Here is an amusing anecdote of something I just overheard at work. These days when something interesting happens to me, my first thought is usually, “I should put that on Facebook”.

[Charlotte]: You will notice that I have taken over 400 pictures of just myself, in various outfits and poses, and posted them on my Facebook profile, because I am attractive and my life is interesting to others.

[Barbara]: Is eating dinner alone at home and feeling lonely. Rather than reaching out to anyone, I have updated my Facebook status with a brief description of how much I am enjoying my dinner. Now I am waiting anxiously for comments and ‘likes’ on this post, which will temporararily ease and then ultimately worsen my feelings of isolation.

[Mike]: Here is a link to a well-written, thought-provoking opinion piece that I did not finish reading, with a brief comment urging everyone else to read the piece. In this way I have co-opted the author’s opinion as my own and avoided having to define how I actually feel on the subject, which is good because I really don’t know that much about it but would like to appear knowledgeable.

[Trey]: I have changed my profile picture. The caption reads, “This is How I Would Like to be Seen by You”. Every picture on my profile is carefully selected to reflect the image of me that I would like you to have. My life is a product that I advertise on Facebook.

[Lana]: I have shared another ironic photo or video on my Facebook wall for my friends to comment on the utter ridiculousness of! Isn’t it stupid, yet kind of amazing? What were they thinking?!

I’m not interested in sharing things I find genuinely interesting or moving, because this would reveal too much information about who I really am, which might make me vulnerable to direct criticism and would also open up the possibility that people might disagree with me, challenge me or engage with me in a meaningful way.

[William]: Please make me feel loved.

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Funny. But we're all here blogging so that...people will hate us and think we're losers? I guess we're all weak and needy in some pathetic way.
[Jett] Mystery Science Theatre 3000, the Facebook version. Enjoyed. Now, everyone notice the arcane wit with which Jett Noire comments.
[Carol] I think it's funny. My friends...notice I have over 200...will think it's funny too, even though we're all home alone reading Facebook which is easy, or writing for Open Salon, which is far more work!
Made me laugh. Rated.
[Oryoki] alternating between philosophical musings and the inane. Thank you Onion, for writing material for me.
I loved this! Hilarious -- and so true!
Alternating between, "I know that person" and, "I am that person". Funny and true. R
hilarious and well-written r.
I love it! Ironically my teenage daughter just told me this morning that she uses it mostly to chat and get her bio assignments and rides to Rugby practice.- she also uses it to post ads for T-shirts that she wants me to buy for her on line.
Love! Gave me a good laugh to start my day.
Rated! Loved it! (and hated the fact that you though it before I did!)
I am guilty of many of these things. So I am going to share on my facebook wall with a note to show my friends how aware I am of what facebook is really all about. I am quirky and interesting. Really!
Wow, thanks everyone! This community is awesome! :)
I would love to write something thoughtful or quirky in praise but I believe Rodney Roe has said it for me "Alternating between, "I know that person" and, "I am that person". Funny and true."
Very funny bout it's actually sad because it's true, and that only makes me think how superficial people really are, and that they finally have a tool where they can lie not only to their friends but to themselves. aragaz electric