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On the infrequent occasions when I have been called upon in a formal place to play the bongo drums, the introducer never seems to find it necessary to mention that I also do theoretical physics. --Richard Feynman

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DECEMBER 31, 2008 12:32AM

Twenty-five Facts to Howl About

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  1. I was a Vocal Performance major with a minor in opera and oratorio at Eastman School of Music.
  2. My hair is naturally curly.
  3. I was on tour in Romania (11 cities in 21 days) with a music group in 1973 before the Iron Curtain fell.
  4. I am eligible to be a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution.
  5. Turning 50 was much easier than turning 30. And at this point in my life, I feel far freer about voicing my opinions, to the chagrin of my teenage daughter.
  6. I was a short order cook for one morning and a paid soloist in church choirs for many years.
  7. At one time, I was an instructor for Adult Leader Basic Training with the Boy Scouts of America. I taught people how to be Den Leaders.
  8. My three children were raised by me alone for ten years. I had one job from which I earned less than $30K a year, received no child support and to this day have no idea how we made it.
  9. I obfuscated my way into my first paying proofreading job by saying that I had been editor in chief of my school newspaper after telling the person interviewing me what college was like. I had been editor in chief of a school newspaper, but that was in high school.
  10. My tonsils were removed when I was 19. I had to relearn how to speak and sing because of the removal of scar tissue which was obstructing my throat. Breathing was a whole new experience too.
  11. I am a published poet.
  12. I studied music for a summer in Switzerland.
  13. When I wanted to learn how to play the guitar I taught myself. Then I spent a summer teaching children how to play.
  14. In college for the second time, I had a full-time job as an executive secretary during the day and supervised a student darkroom at night while attending classes full time.
  15. Counted among my ancestors are Kit Carson, Mayflower voyagers, and horse thieves in Virginia.
  16. I’ve lived in New England most of my life and have family roots here going back to the 1600’s.
  17. I consider myself a very shy person, to the point of social phobia, but am totally comfortable performing onstage in front of large crowds.
  18. I spent the summer after I graduated from high school working for my grandmother for $2 an hour. It was the hardest job I’ve ever had. She had me doing tasks including taking windows apart and cleaning them, ironing with a machine she called a “mangle” and picking blackberries to be sold at a local organic market.
  19. I used to practice singing out in the pasture near where I grew up. I worked at it long and hard until I could hear the echo of my voice come back to me from the mountains miles away. My parents used to send me there to practice the bass clarinet, too.
  20. I loved high school marching band.
  21. In 1974 I drove an electric car around my home town just for the joy of watching people stare at its noiselessness.
  22. Socially, I give people on my guest lists three strikes. If I invite someone to two different events and s/he doesn’t show up after agreeing to attend, that person is deliberately crossed off any future guest lists.
  23. One of my sons is an Eagle Scout.
  24. My husband says that one of the reasons he married me was that I’m the kind of woman he could picture taking off across the prairie in a covered wagon. No wonder he’s my best friend.
  25. I have no illusions that anyone on Open Salon will take note of or care about what I write in this list.

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I took great note of it.......
Singing in the hills and mountains, your voice returning with every phrase...magical.

In my house in 1898, two direct descendants of George Washington attended a meeting of the Daughters of the American Revolution.
It was reported in the local paper...

Great list!
Well, COS, I think I'll blow your #25 all to hell.

I am officially taking note, AND I care.

What strikes me about your list is not so much any one item but the way the list in totality shows what grit and determination you have had and how it has paid off in lots of ways, many that you likely didn't think about when you started on some of your adventures.

Its interesting how you talk about being shy but having no problem performing before large crowds. When I decided to go into the ministry at an "ancient" age the thing I worried most about was being terrified about preaching. Turns out it was the most comfortable part of being a pastor for me. I loved it and never gave it a second thought. The hardest part was being in one parish long enough to come to love people and then being with them when they were seriously ill, or dying, or with the families after the death trying to help as they tried to stitch their lives together. It was such an honor but I loved them and it was painful for me too. I think I learned there that we are all so closely connected. Your life has been so filled with giving that I know you know what I am talking about.

Monte
Thanks, Gary. I should have mentioned that I spent much of my childhood growing up in a house built in 1790. I'll tell you about my magical dreams some day.

Umbrella, you made me misty with that cop story. I was with an A Capella Choir that was one of the first American groups allowed into the country under the auspices of the State Department. It was scary and beautiful at the same time.
I think your your list is fascinating. Raising your kids on peanuts and your vocal prowess stand out. You obviously are a big music lover. It must have been a difficult time after the tonsillectomy, not knowing if you would sing again. Or Breath! I was the drum major in marching band.
I took great note of it.

#24. Now that is some kinda woman.
Monte, the toughest performances I ever gave were the ones when I sang "In the Garden" at my grandmother's and then my grandfather's funerals. I did it because they wanted me to. At my grandfather's I stood in the front of the church and sang to him even though nobody else could see him. So yes, I understand what you're saying and I thank you for saying it.
Thanks, Michael. We had a drum major who would, during the Halloween parade, march us down side streets and do crazy column moves just for fun. He sure had fun! Rijaxn, thanks for thinking so, although I'm sure those pioneer women also felt pretty uncertain at times.
Thanks, Karin. It works for me! %;-)
Great list. I LOVE marching bands. LOVE them!
Wow. Your list paints a very interesting person!
I love 19. I can see it...a really beautiful image (I love to sing but have more exuberance than talent--I love any music that's added to the planet.)
You are sooo talented. I can tell about the music from your posts. Now I know you are a strong person. I really like what I read here. I think alot of folks will read this and care. Alot!!
You like to cook, too. Look at all the recipes you post.......
The hari kari required now by #25 should make you howl. As a self-taught guitarist, I'm particularly fond of #13.
So much music in your life, and charm in your writing, thanks for sharing.
So, is 50 the new 30 then? I sure hope so, having "started over" at 49.
But then, i'm an ex Boy Scout with family roots in Virginia, so I can do anything. Except sing.

Will you be sharing some poetry with us?
Sandra, thanks, I used to watch football games on TV just to see the halftime marching band show. WaP, it was somehow very calming to me to be able to muster so much vocal power. Still is. Suzy, I'm happy that you care and yes I love to cook up a storm most days. Thank you all for leaving your thoughts!
Lonnie, no sepuku today, thanks. I thought it was fun to teach a bunch of kids how to play "House of the Rising Sun" and then send them home to practice. Moana, thank you for accepting my sharing. Brian, 50-ish just is fine, not the new 30 which I thought was a much harder time and also my understanding is that you're never an "ex-" Boy Scout. Jeffrey, I always wanted to take off in a Jeep - much more reliable than a Conestoga wagon.
Love this list! What a great "in" to who you are. And I totally get #5. I'm only 48 but I sure as heck wouldn't ever want to be 30 again. Always moving forward...
Gracielou, thanks.

Now, if I were a philosopher I'd quote someone like Buddha or Kant, but I am not so I offer this quote from Walt Disney, "We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we're curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths."

That's the sentiment to make us boldly go into the second half of the first century of my life, or, alternatively, into the new year.
Hey, you said you gave folks 3 strikes socially but if they missed 2 events they were scratched. That's only 2 strikes!!!!

OK, I'm just breaking your chops on that one. :-D Seriously, loved your list C.O.S. Quite a few accomplishments in there and much to be proud of. Specifically 13 and 8 had me awe-struck.

Thumbed.
Enjoying these posts makes me feel like a voyeur...or, surely there's a word for being so curious. And don't tell me the word is "lurker." Give me a classical word to describe a reader who enjoys this so much.

C, thanks for being so open. I gained a new appreciation for your ancestor (Kit) when I read Hampton Sides's Blood and Thunder. And I gained a new appreciation for you when I read this. I especially liked your vocal training routine.

Oh, and I never dated a woman who wasn't in the marching band. Ever. Until my bride found me, that is.
#13 resonated. Passing on to kids the guitar that you've taught yourself is way cool. (Is that Disney quote from "Our Friend The Atom?") Happy New Year.
I " have family roots [in New England] going back to the 1600’s".

Me too. I bet you have some Libby family in your heritage.
Okay, Bill, that's it for you. You're off the list. Consider yourself busted back! Randy, I'm not sure one is a voyeur if they are invited in. I'll work on that and get back to you. Stacey, I'm not sure if the quote is from the Disney pic you mention. I first became aware of it at the end of "Meet the Robinsons" and I think it's a good one. Corey, I honestly don't know about that. My mom has all the genealogy somewhere and told me recently that at one time, some family members owned much of Cambridge. Sadly, not any more.

{I'm finally warming up after spending an hour at Alewife Station standing around waiting for a 1:15 bus that didn't come until 2 which got me a couple doors away from my place at around 2:30. Alewife is cold, snowy and wicked breezy today.}
You remind me of a cross between a pioneer and Amelia Earhart or possibly a lead for a remake of "Annie Get Your Gun". You are of strong stock and was surprised that you deflated yourself with #25. Your list taught me that we all want to know more about each other...... Rated. HNY
"I'll tell you about my magical dreams some day."

I want to hear those too!
Cartouche, Amelia Earhart is one of my heroes. Thanks for the comparison. And #25 is not a deflation of myself as much as a statement of my belief in the reality of the way OS works some times. Hyblaean, the magic dreams might be another post for another day. Suffice it to say I had to get up out of bed early this morning to write one down.
Style, I love your list. You are an accomplished musician and poet. Wow!

We share item #7. My wife is a 3-bead Wood Badge trainer as well. My sons are Eagle scouts, too. My feelings towards BSA are complex.

$2/hr was a solid wage, back in the day. I bet you learned a lot from your grandmother. I was sweating in a steel warehouse for $1.60 that same summer.

It did take me a bit to get to your list, but I appreciate learning these things about you. I feel like I'm getting a picture, now.
Hey, Rich, thanks. I have lots of conflicted feelings about BSA too, but one of my proudest moments was attending a district awards dinner with my dad and, in assisting him with reading names of Eagles to be recognized that year, I announced my son's accomplishment. I'm glad you were in the steel warehouse, not me. The most stressful thing I did that summer was convince my grandma that I needed the afternoon off so I could go see Seals and Crofts at an outdoor concert venue. She made me work for that one.
I like the list. I'm also DAR-eligible with ancestors settling in Concord, Mass in 1647. And a published pory. And my granmother and I used to pretend we were pioneer women all of the time. :)