- I was a Vocal Performance major with a minor in opera and oratorio at Eastman School of Music.
- My hair is naturally curly.
- I was on tour in Romania (11 cities in 21 days) with a music group in 1973 before the Iron Curtain fell.
- I am eligible to be a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution.
- Turning 50 was much easier than turning 30. And at this point in my life, I feel far freer about voicing my opinions, to the chagrin of my teenage daughter.
- I was a short order cook for one morning and a paid soloist in church choirs for many years.
- At one time, I was an instructor for Adult Leader Basic Training with the Boy Scouts of America. I taught people how to be Den Leaders.
- My three children were raised by me alone for ten years. I had one job from which I earned less than $30K a year, received no child support and to this day have no idea how we made it.
- I obfuscated my way into my first paying proofreading job by saying that I had been editor in chief of my school newspaper after telling the person interviewing me what college was like. I had been editor in chief of a school newspaper, but that was in high school.
- My tonsils were removed when I was 19. I had to relearn how to speak and sing because of the removal of scar tissue which was obstructing my throat. Breathing was a whole new experience too.
- I am a published poet.
- I studied music for a summer in Switzerland.
- When I wanted to learn how to play the guitar I taught myself. Then I spent a summer teaching children how to play.
- In college for the second time, I had a full-time job as an executive secretary during the day and supervised a student darkroom at night while attending classes full time.
- Counted among my ancestors are Kit Carson, Mayflower voyagers, and horse thieves in Virginia.
- I’ve lived in New England most of my life and have family roots here going back to the 1600’s.
- I consider myself a very shy person, to the point of social phobia, but am totally comfortable performing onstage in front of large crowds.
- I spent the summer after I graduated from high school working for my grandmother for $2 an hour. It was the hardest job I’ve ever had. She had me doing tasks including taking windows apart and cleaning them, ironing with a machine she called a “mangle” and picking blackberries to be sold at a local organic market.
- I used to practice singing out in the pasture near where I grew up. I worked at it long and hard until I could hear the echo of my voice come back to me from the mountains miles away. My parents used to send me there to practice the bass clarinet, too.
- I loved high school marching band.
- In 1974 I drove an electric car around my home town just for the joy of watching people stare at its noiselessness.
- Socially, I give people on my guest lists three strikes. If I invite someone to two different events and s/he doesn’t show up after agreeing to attend, that person is deliberately crossed off any future guest lists.
- One of my sons is an Eagle Scout.
- My husband says that one of the reasons he married me was that I’m the kind of woman he could picture taking off across the prairie in a covered wagon. No wonder he’s my best friend.
- I have no illusions that anyone on Open Salon will take note of or care about what I write in this list.
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Singing in the hills and mountains, your voice returning with every phrase...magical.
In my house in 1898, two direct descendants of George Washington attended a meeting of the Daughters of the American Revolution.
It was reported in the local paper...
Great list!
I am officially taking note, AND I care.
What strikes me about your list is not so much any one item but the way the list in totality shows what grit and determination you have had and how it has paid off in lots of ways, many that you likely didn't think about when you started on some of your adventures.
Its interesting how you talk about being shy but having no problem performing before large crowds. When I decided to go into the ministry at an "ancient" age the thing I worried most about was being terrified about preaching. Turns out it was the most comfortable part of being a pastor for me. I loved it and never gave it a second thought. The hardest part was being in one parish long enough to come to love people and then being with them when they were seriously ill, or dying, or with the families after the death trying to help as they tried to stitch their lives together. It was such an honor but I loved them and it was painful for me too. I think I learned there that we are all so closely connected. Your life has been so filled with giving that I know you know what I am talking about.
Monte
Umbrella, you made me misty with that cop story. I was with an A Capella Choir that was one of the first American groups allowed into the country under the auspices of the State Department. It was scary and beautiful at the same time.
#24. Now that is some kinda woman.
I love 19. I can see it...a really beautiful image (I love to sing but have more exuberance than talent--I love any music that's added to the planet.)
You like to cook, too. Look at all the recipes you post.......
But then, i'm an ex Boy Scout with family roots in Virginia, so I can do anything. Except sing.
Will you be sharing some poetry with us?
Now, if I were a philosopher I'd quote someone like Buddha or Kant, but I am not so I offer this quote from Walt Disney, "We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we're curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths."
That's the sentiment to make us boldly go into the second half of the first century of my life, or, alternatively, into the new year.
OK, I'm just breaking your chops on that one. :-D Seriously, loved your list C.O.S. Quite a few accomplishments in there and much to be proud of. Specifically 13 and 8 had me awe-struck.
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C, thanks for being so open. I gained a new appreciation for your ancestor (Kit) when I read Hampton Sides's Blood and Thunder. And I gained a new appreciation for you when I read this. I especially liked your vocal training routine.
Oh, and I never dated a woman who wasn't in the marching band. Ever. Until my bride found me, that is.
Me too. I bet you have some Libby family in your heritage.
{I'm finally warming up after spending an hour at Alewife Station standing around waiting for a 1:15 bus that didn't come until 2 which got me a couple doors away from my place at around 2:30. Alewife is cold, snowy and wicked breezy today.}
I want to hear those too!
We share item #7. My wife is a 3-bead Wood Badge trainer as well. My sons are Eagle scouts, too. My feelings towards BSA are complex.
$2/hr was a solid wage, back in the day. I bet you learned a lot from your grandmother. I was sweating in a steel warehouse for $1.60 that same summer.
It did take me a bit to get to your list, but I appreciate learning these things about you. I feel like I'm getting a picture, now.