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Cranky Cuss

Cranky Cuss
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Ossining, New York, United States
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February 28
Bio
I am the author of "Send In the Clown Car: The Road to the White House 2012," currently available on Amazon and CreateSpace. I'm currently semi-retired after 23 years in a corporate environment. My motto: The conventional wisdom has too much convention, not enough wisdom. Corollary: Even Einstein was wrong sometimes, and you're not Einstein.

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SEPTEMBER 19, 2012 10:50AM

About a Writer

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If you’ve been a member of Open Salon for a while, you’re probably familiar with the writings of Greg Correll, wordsmith extraordinaire. If you’re not, this is a pretty good place to start. (Dammit, OS, these links had better work!)

Most likely, you haven’t had the good fortune to meet him in person. I have, on a few occasions, and I can say that if there is a kinder, gentler man walking the face of the earth, I haven’t crossed paths with him.

I met Greg two summers ago when he organized a writer’s retreat at Mohonk Mountain House, a wonderful hotel on top of one of the Catskill Mountains. It was arranged with the help of his oldest daughter Molly, who worked there. I signed up to attend but had to back out of the morning session due to illness. However, I forced myself to drive up for the evening session, a public reading.

I was a little intimidated about meeting Greg; in fact, I was a little intimidated about meeting several of the OSers who attended. While I was posting silly musings about acquiring a taser and fending off angry Canada geese, Greg and the others were posting serious essays, with deep thoughts and clever wordplay – you know, the kind of thing real writers do – and I expected that I would be as out of place as Moe Howard in a restaurant full of rich swells.

Yet I liked Greg instantly. He was soft-spoken with a warm smile that made you feel welcome and attentive eyes that assured you he was listening to, and considering, everything you said. And I admit, out of personal bias, that I’m a sucker for any guy who is loved by his daughters.

I met Greg on at least two other occasions. By the last one, several weeks ago, we all knew that Greg had been diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. (If you want to read his remarkable essay about it, it’s here; when I mentioned in my last post about linking to great OS pieces, this was the first one I thought of.) Greg’s right hand shook noticeably all night, but while those tremors may affect his ability to write, it had no effect on his intellect or his eloquence. With his youngest daughter Rocky by his side, Greg delivered his thoughts on Salon, Internet media, literature, politics, art and whatever else in his usual gentle manner. I enjoyed being in the presence of someone who so clearly enjoyed the interchange of ideas. I don’t mind saying that, at a couple of points, I felt like I was sitting next to a swami who was about to impart the meaning of life.

If you’ve read Greg’s most recent post, you know that his situation has gotten even worse. It appears that he has an aggressive form of Parkinson’s that is resistant to the usual drugs that hold the disease at bay. His doctor told him that his window for constructive work may be measured in months, not years. If you haven’t read the post, read it to observe the grace with which he continues to handle bad news; also read the brief comment from Molly that made me cry. (I told you I was a sucker for a man loved by his daughters.)

What I didn’t know is that Greg and Molly have been working on a joint memoir, tentatively titled “Like Father, Like Daughter.” I don’t know Greg’s full bio, but I know that the ups and downs of his life contain some very serious downs. Greg and Molly expected to be able finish it over a leisurely span of years, but now time is of the essence.

Nikki Stern (another exemplary human being) has organized a fund-raising project through Indiegogo to free up Greg and Molly to write full-time – Greg runs a small business, and has serious medical expenses and tuition payments - so they can finish the memoir while Greg can still devote considerable time to it. I understand that times are tight for a lot of people, but if you can contribute, I urge you to do so at the project page that Nikki has created.

Even if you can’t contribute, go to the project page and read the excerpts posted there. Read “Redaction,” a semi-outline for the memoir; I read his humbling and brutally honest words about homelessness, poverty and marital and parental difficulties and posted the only comment I could muster, “Wow. Just … wow.” Read “The Sled Ride,” a chapter about his and Molly’s first night on an extremely tight budget in a tiny home on a snowy night in Missoula, Montana; when I read it, I wanted to throw away my keyboard and find something I’m better suited for, like unclogging sewer pipes.

From the excerpts, I’ve concluded that Greg’s gentle nature was forged from humility and an understanding of the troubles that can be thrown at even the best people.

Nikki wrote that she organized the project because she wanted some “good karma,” but I know that she loves Greg like a brother. I’m posting this today on all my blogs on various sites not just because I want to be a nice guy, but for one very selfish reason: I want to read that damn book!

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An essay that puts me near to tears just thinking about what I will find a the links you posted. R
You are, Richard, a blessed man to have written so well about a writer and a man we love.

As you know, I met Greg at the June, '10 Mohonk Writers' Retreat that he organized. His grace as host was as lovely as his poetry; the writing he shared there, and here since, has been glorious, brave, delicate and trenchant at once.

I have tried to spread the word of his project w Molly through my FB page and I will, again, soon.

Rated.
Thanks for sharing this. I have already donated, but hopefully many on OS will do so and also if you post to Facebook and other sites, I hope that many more will contribute. It is an effort that touches all writers hearts. Giving to this cause is well worth it.
Cranky, I remember that Writer's Retreat and how much I wanted to be there. Like you, I felt like I would have been like a fish out of water but I did so want the chance to meet and talk to real writers like you and Greg. He is indeed a quality wordsmith and I will be the first in line to read that book.
I will, now, place this on my FB page and I urge all here to do so.
I've donated and wish I could hook them up with an agent but all the agents I've ever dealt with have been incompetent or crooked or both. ebooks rule anyway.
Thank you so much for sharing this./r
I'm so jealous of Greg's talent I would trade places with him in a New York minute, Parkinson's and all, if I could. My problem is I could never be as decent a human being as I know he is. I had you on my list in second place for such a trade, Cranky, but after reading this I doubt I'm even decent enuf for that. I'm weeping, but they're probly just crocodile tears.
Always enjoyed Greg's posts, rating but never commenting... I can find no words and even that is a cliche.
I have also contributed. Greg is one fantastic writer! I plan to read the essays you mentioned. Thank you Richard. This is one incredible community of caring individuals. I am proud to be part of it.
Thanks for the reminder. I want to read the book too.
Those of us fortunate enough to have you as a friend, Cranky, will never see the bottom of your massive heart. I have never had the chance to meet Greg (or you, for that matter) but the kind, gentle man of extraordinary talent that you describe is exactly who I would expect to find. I have already donated and I hope Nikki and Molly meet their goal ASAP.

Lezlie
Thanks and more thanks for this.
Thanks and more thanks for this.
Well said and meant Cranky. People like Greg are most scarce- honest, caring, humble and talented. I once worked with a University President who had a bad version of Parkinsons. He had all the above traits. It was heart-rending to see him flailing about while giving a speech. He was a visionary and despite him affliction he still cared about others.
Greg has more talent in his little finger than I have in my whole body. When he said he would write back comments on a blog he did, I read it and commented on it. He said I was like the cool guy in high school you want to hang around with but were afraid to say anything to. I still don't know if that's a compliment, but he is a great guy and I love reading his stuff. He has taught me so much, and doesn't even know it.
Rated and Tink Picked!!!
thanks for adding to the chorus of friends and admirers of Greg
I had no idea and am so saddened to read this. Good on you for doing this and may thoughts and prayers are going out his way today.
HUGGGGGGG
Thank you- you saved me the search for that link.
I identified with Greg early. We are kindred souls and I hope he knows it by this time. OS became the outlet he had long lacked and suffered from lacking. He's what makes a place like this worth the effort even if nobody else gets it. It is delightful to see he's appreciated. God Bless Greg and good writing Cuss. I've long said you aren't a Cuss at all. Give 'em hell. Tell 'em the truth. Don't mince words. This is it, dammit, always was.
Cranky, this is so wonderful. You are belong in Greg's company for many reasons -- friendship and writing skills for sure. I remember the thrill I got when Greg added me as favorite here. It took awhile, I'd been here for months. But I felt so honored. And humbled. Thanks for doing this.
I've recently started to read him. His Parkinsons piece utterly blew me away. I learned about him from RP.
you know I'm an absentee, but I just had to let you -- and Greg -- know how much I appreciate all the writing and the sharing of the experiences he is going through. How VERY much I feel for him and for Molly and I support them in my daily thoughts and will be following this. Thanks for posting this R.
Thanks, Richard. But we all know you are one hell of a writer, too. ... Greg, well he's in his own class, isn't he? I can't wait to catch up with his projects and recent writings soon. I'll check out the memoir fundraiser site. R.
You're a real Friend with your glowing Portrait - I wish him well. R
Thanks for posting this Cranky. You are truly a kind and gracious soul.
This was so eloquent and kind. I don't have any money, but I'm sending thoughts and prayers to Greg and his family, and wishing him and his daughter luck with this project.
Cranky, your post beautifully illustrates the simple truth - there are human beings on the other side of each and every post found here on OS. Many of them are wonderful people with big hearts, tremendous talent, and burdens to bear.

My heart goes out to Greg and his family. Thank you for bringing his plight to the attention of OS readers. You're a good man.