I have been happily married for 32 years. I have been asked how I have kept my marriage together for so long? First of all I love my husband very much and he love's me very much. He is a very good man. I keep myself in check. I do not expect more from him then he can give. He will never be able to fill all my needs just as I will never fill all his needs. That is unrealistic on my part.
For example I do not wait for him to remember our anniversary. I remind him it is coming up. Sometime I tell him what I want and other times I am happy with what he bought me. It may not be what I wanted, but it came from his heart. So yes it is thought that counts. He is not perfect but nether am I. We are different people. Two ways of doing things no one is right or wrong, just different. It is not 50% it is 100%. Your anniversary is not the most important day in your marriage. Everyday is important.
Do not dwell on the negative he will make mistakes and so will you. Treat him how you want him to treat you. You want to be the most important person in his life. So make him feel like you need him not in a helpless way. You want him to be your friend. You want to spent time with him. When he is going to the do errors jump in the car with him. It is not what your are doing it is all about being together.
Everyday will not be good or even great. But you can make as many days as you can good. No one walks around with a smile on their face. We do not live in DISNEY LAND. We are going to have bad days. Move on let it go. Be kind to each other. And just maybe you both will be happily married for 32 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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