So, we made it. We went on our first family vacation since entering the world of polyamory and no one gouged any eyes out or “accidentally” fell off a cliff. It was actually, despite a few odd awkward moments, quite a pleasant vacation.

We went to a beautiful park… Read full post »

This weekend we are going to redefine “family vacation.” Jane will join us for a family camping trip. I am certain this will be the first of many family trips to come.

I would be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous. We love her and she loves… Read full post »

I cannot begin to count how many articles I have seen over the past few months addressing the issue of open marriages, polygamy, etc. It could have something to do with my greater awareness of such topics given my own lifestyle or the recently published book Sex at Dawn that takes… Read full post »

I struggled for many years with low self esteem. I would always look at other girls and think that I could never be pretty enough, smart enough, or talented enough. It has only been in the past year or so that I really began to love myself and be ok with… Read full post »

Today is a hard day, the day he goes to Jane’s place. Every relationship has ups and downs. Ours become compacted because we have a third person’s ups and downs thrown in the mix. For us the biggest issues revolve around jealousy and guilt. Each of our relationships is strong, but… Read full post »

Lately I have been obsessing over breakfast at Tiffany’s. It has always been one of my favorite films and I finally took the time to read the book. I think that I have always identified with Holly. She is a girl who is different, she struggles to fit into a world… Read full post »

I am a fan of the advice column Savage Love. For those that have never read it, he gives advice relating to all types of sexuality and sexual fetishes and the unusual etiquette these lifestyles require. I have the Savage Love app on my IPod, and I was searching through the… Read full post »

My house is so quiet now; the kids are asleep. Edward is out with Jane.

Sometimes I get overwhelmed by the quiet. Lately, I have been embracing it. I sometimes get so wrapped up in my husband and children that I don’t take time for myself. I don’t take… Read full post »

I imagine many people, women especially, would think that I am crazy. I allowed my husband to have a girlfriend. This blog will serve as a means for me to express the day to day joys and struggles of being in a polyamorous family.

My husband, I will call him… Read full post »