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JANUARY 13, 2010 11:43AM

The Joy of Parenting

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The other day, I posted a video of a tour of the FOB that my son, David was serving at during this deployment. He is no longer at FOB Grizzly. He's in Germany, in the hospital. I am glad that he's going to be okay. 

There are many joys in parenting.  Watching the first step.  Hearing the first word.  The first day of school,  graduation, and many others. One of the joys that is left out is finding out that your adult child has been injured in a combat zone.

My youngest son, David, enlisted in the Army shortly after 9/11. He is with the Stryker Brigade Combat Team out of Ft. Lewis, Washington and has been in Iraq three times. In fact, until yesterday, he was on  his third tour, counting down the days to his mid-deployment leave.  Then, yesterday,  he was in a Stryker that rolled.

Now, Strykers are notoriously top heavy, but they are a very good, very efficient vehicle. They carry a 12 man Infantry team for rapid ground deployment. They are designed to work well in urban warfare situations, but they roll over very easily.

David broke his left femur in the roll over, so he’s no longer in Iraq, he’s in Germany, where he was airlifted to an Army hospital. He’s doing fine. I chatted with him for a few minutes online earlier today. He’s going to have to have his femur pinned, as it is a spiral fracture, but he will eventuall y heal completely.

I am very proud of David for his service to this country, even though I have never quite adapted to him being in harm’s way.  I wouldn’t have him go back in time and make any other choice. Watching him grow into the man that he is today has been truly rewarding, and very full of joy.  But the true joy of parenting is not finding out that your son is injured, it’s hearing him say that he’s doing well, and that he will be fine. He’s bruised. He’s a little broken, but his spirits are high, his smile (when he remembers how) is still there and he’s coming home as soon as the hospital lets him.

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Bless him. Bless them all. Bless you. Bless you all.
I'm glad he's going to be ok.
David has left Germany and is being transferred to Madigan Army Hospital at Ft. Lewis, WA, near his wife and son. I haven't gotten the call that he's there, but is a 22 hour flight.
i think this is awesome, and you should be proud of him. I have a broken femur right now, in fact thats how i found this blog...just typed broken femur in the search..my femur has been messed up since sept, and i am going crazy that its not healing right. they put the screws in but my body didnt take to them...I will keep your son in my prayers, and im glad he gets to come home to you!!
David is in Washington State, slowly healing. The original diagnosis of spiral fracture was not entirely correct. It's a very distal (distant, as in relationship to the trunk) fracture. If you hold your arm out and visualize it as the femur, then make a fist. The fist is the far end of the femur, the part that actually forms the top of the knee joint. Now, on the fist, trace a line from the pinkie joint to the thumb joint. That's where the fracture is. He as three pins holding it in place. And the healing process is very slow. He's in physical therapy every day to assist with bending his knee and has had to have 2 additional procedures on the knee.

Hopefully, soon, he will be back to as close to normal as possible. Having him in Washington is so much easier on me than having him in Iraq.

Jessica, hang in there. Femurs are notorious for being slow to heal. It's hard work, but I know you can do it. And thank you for commenting on my post.