No open mics missed. Amen.

Excuse me if I say... I'm leaning towards dumping him. You dumping him that is.
But need to know, which year it was you didn't sleep with him?

Also, hand holding and walking is so right sometimes..

trig - i love your question. this past year is the year we didnt sleep together, bc i got my apartment and he got his. but we continued to see each other every single freaking day, and have the occasional sleepover. its good to be done, i just wish it had been able to end without tawdry drama. but if it had to end with tawdry drama, i am glad it was him bringing it. i told his parents too. yes i did. i tattled.

and handholding? i have decided it is the new best thing.

and lastly? very nice to see you. :-)

'frivolous joy on the horizon' is sounding like the key to the kingdom
to me.

i will find frivolity. someday.

like; ' does that mean i cannot hold yer hand/'
'yes it does'
pissed off suitor; 'why so?'
"the fabric of society depends on marriage'
"like gay marriage/'
'obviously..'
"so marriage is sacrosanct/'
'to those who wish to weave that fabric, yup, bub.'

'i am getting a vibe u aint a terribly serious minded gal'

'aha there you would make yer fatal mistake, like if ya didnt
hold my hand'

"paradoxical!"

"oh whatever...my speed is slow or fast. or medium. '

"my speed varies according to things beyond my control'

'IMPOSSIBLE'

ENlightenment for the guy!

I think there's a lot of history here that I don't know. But I like your title and I like your horizon.

Are you pregnant?

Oh sweet! The baby, the chaste kisses...a nice post.

I am so confused...so what is happening?

I wanted to announce I'm pregnant and I'm having a baby elephant, wanna see the trunk?? ~teehee~

Just kidding, I just got gas!! What? :D

I like holding hands too..........RATED!!!

So your hand holder is married? Be careful. I have a friend who is heartbroken because she fell for that guy.

Not yours, obviously, but "the married guy leaving his wife who doesn't and never intended to."

I just don't know...

hi everyone -

no -not pregnant. amazing what doesnt occur to me as i write, sometimes.

yes - hand-holder is married, but has been separated for over a year - which means in ny he can file for divorce, but he is dragging his feet cause he is stuck, see?

it was just a pleasant evening wherein he smiled a lot and looked very very pleased, is all.

and probably, i did too.

Could this be the start of something big? Frivolous and happy together make a fine pair.

Wow! a new love on the horizon? Fill us in!

Its easy to stay stuck, its familiar and you know what to expect next. But you deserve to unstick yourself and move forward with life and maybe this guy is the guy who helps you, maybe you help each other. Just don't invest too much emotionally into him until he becomes unstuck and you know he has his head on straight. Its good that he has been separated for a decent amount of time but hasn't filed, I think this says something positive about his character.

Much luck to you in love and all things!

I'm glad you're taking it easy. No use running when walking will get you to the same destination.

I think hand holding and talking is just about the right speed for now. Good wishes for future hand holding and talking...