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damali ayo

damali ayo
Location
Portland, Oregon, USA
Birthday
February 26
Title
artist, author, comedian, lecturer, catalyst for dialogue
Company
damaliayo.com
Bio
damali ayo is one of our culture's most creative thinkers on issues of race relations. She is the creator of "The National Day of Panhandling for Reparations," "rent-a-negro.com" and author of How to Rent a Negro. http://damaliayo.com

SEPTEMBER 20, 2009 4:19PM

Is it Racism?

As said in the words of the brilliant and immortal Shakespeare "Methinks the lady doth protest too much."


The frantic scramble to analyze whether the country's reactions to our first black president has underlying tones of racism is abundant evidence of exactly that-  our culture is racist. Pol… Read full post »

MARCH 30, 2009 11:28AM

Racism 101: Reality (TV) Check

I tried not to watch the Celebrity Apprentice, but well, it hooked me. There's something about the combination of Joan Rivers, T-Boz and a completely gonzo Dennis Rodman that keeps my attention.

So tonight I sat down to indulge in a couple of hours (why is it so long?) of celebrity mayhem… Read full post »

MARCH 25, 2009 12:42PM

Racism 101 : Apology Culture

I've been meaning to do a post about the sickening, ineffective, disingenuous apology culture in which we live. It seems necessary to expose this side of our process around racism that is such a disaster. It is that place that allows us to do damaging things to each… Read full post »

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MARCH 17, 2009 5:07PM

Racism 101: Figure it out.

This is why I am a hermit.
Last night I went to a much needed party. After having spent six hours with my taxes, human company was a welcomed end to my day. After greeting all the hosts and being introduced to the food, my first conversation,went like this:

"So,… Read full post »

MARCH 9, 2009 2:07PM

Racism 101: Animal Farm

I have been extremely busy these last few weeks so this is going to be a quick to-the-point post.

Here are the events to which I want to respond. They all fall into a shared category:

• NY Post Parodies Obama as a Chimpanzee
• Barnes and Noble Window display puts… Read full post »

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FEBRUARY 20, 2009 10:04AM

Let's Do This: 10 Black History Things

The Facebook 25 things meme generated a lot of spin-offs, but here's one that will be a lot of fun and also educational.

How It Works:
List 10 favorite moments, people, places, events in Black American History. You don't have to be a professor, this is a time to share the things… Read full post »
FEBRUARY 5, 2009 11:39AM

damali's Upcoming Talks

I Can Fix It!: Vol. 1 Racism

Using humorous stories, creative visuals, and gripping examples from real life and from her bestselling book How to Rent a Negro, damali shows how to improve our handling of race with 10 practical solutions for how to create healthier, more productive racial interactions… Read full post »

A group for white people.

The story of WORK.

I was giving a talk at a progressive boarding school that had a white affinity group, called WERC (pronounced "work") it stood for "whites exploring race and culture."

I was appalled that white people were part of a group pronounced "work" that wasn't really… Read full post »

FEBRUARY 3, 2009 4:39PM

Slumming and Soaring with Slumdog.

I saw Slumdog Millionaire in LA before it released to the larger American audience (thanks for the hook up, Meta). At the screening the producer, talked a bit about the movie. He described the filming process- it was longer than most, on a smaller budget than most, and took risks that… Read full post »

First off, let me state for the record, I am thrilled that Barack Obama has started his tenure as President of the United States. It was not the inauguration I most anticipated since November 4th but his initiating the change that this country needs and that his vision holds dear. Wednesday… Read full post »

JANUARY 20, 2009 2:28PM

The Unsung Heroes of the Obama Election

My essay on the Unsung Heroes of the Obama Election airs on Thursday January 15th 2009 on NPR's Tell Me More.

Celebrate Obama but Acknowledge Us, Too.
by damali ayo

Warning: Content May Be Offensive To Some
Author and artist Damali Ayo, 36, says her generation deserves a lot of/
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JANUARY 5, 2009 2:43PM

Hot Dog Dreams

Happy New Year everyone!

I hope that we can get started on a point of hope and energized to engage ourselves on a deep level toward change.

Last night I woke up in the midst of a dream about hot dogs.
I was really hungry in my dream and found myself in… Read full post »

On Charlie Rose:

Regarding Prop 8 and the African American and Latinos communities (according to his research) voting for it.

"...and the religious and god fearing stuff comes in and then they don't see it as a civil rights issue because you're not born gay, and they were
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DECEMBER 5, 2008 12:09AM

Racism 101: Caucasian

This is simple.

Caucasian is not a synonym for white.

I am always amazed at the euphemisms that people use for white, as if it is a dirty word. It's not. At my lectures I often ask people to think of things that are white that are harmless, fun, gentle, and pretty- just… Read full post »

DECEMBER 4, 2008 4:35PM

Racism is Over.

Here's a satirical blog I've been writing the past week. It explores the seemingly popular idea that since Barack Obama was elected President, that our country has risen above the ill of racism.

This was an interesting declaration to me so I sent out

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Hey Folks-


In the scope of the conversation about race and racism I want to offer some simple easy habits for people to implement into their lives as a way of improving race relations for all of us. Stay tuned to this blog for easy tidbits labeled "racism 101"…

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