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MAY 25, 2010 9:06AM

The World Cup Runneth Over

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And so the madness begins.  We're talking soccer here, or football, as the world beyond the US knows it, the beautiful game.  The World Cup starts in South Africa in a few weeks time and for me, kicks off in earnest when the USA plays England on June 12th.

In our household this inaugural game holds special significance.  I am American, my husband is an Englishman and our children are dual nationals, though being born and raised in the UK means they are essentially English.  Although they are proud of their heritage on both sides, I know that in a full-blown soccer face-off between England and the USA, there is no contest.  I am resigned to being the lone USA supporter for miles around, except for maybe the Scottish guy who lives up the road.  (The Scots, allegedly, support any team in any sport if they are playing against the English.)

I don't know how much notice this tournament receives in the States these days, though I suspect outside of soccer-playing circles, it is not followed with much interest, which is a shame.  The World Cup has all the hallmarks of an event which would appeal to the American psyche, if only we were a soccer-loving nation.  It's got patriotism, drama, competitiveness, even David Beckham, though his role this year due to injury will be largely ambassadorial.  At its heart, it has the sport's most talented players giving their all not for money, which they already earn in breathtaking abundance, but for national pride.  This last aspect is what will change the face of England over the upcoming weeks.

While we Americans are comfortable in expressing our national pride, the English are far more reticent.  We've got the Stars and Stripes flying over every gas station but in the UK you rarely see a flag flying, even in front of public buildings.  The English are a comparatively self-deprecating people.  My personal theory is that some leftover sense of embarrassment over their exploitation/empire building in the past has left them reluctant to make overtly nationalistic displays.  But during the World Cup that understatement goes out the window.

The English flag, the Cross of St. George, will appear everywhere in honor of the English soccer team until they get knocked out of the competition.  Latent tribalism will be reawakened.  There will be legions of pasty, shirtless men singing drunkenly in the streets with the local Bobbies issuing reminders that public urinating and vomiting are offences under the law.  Heaven knows what will happen if England wins the cup but that hasn't happened since 1966.

I am no expert on soccer and don't follow it unless it is a special contest like the World Cup but I will be rooting for the USA, the underdogs in this case.  I hope to see that team USA is improving over time as the players who fell in love with the game as children grow up and we as a nation take more interest in the sport.  It is a fast-moving, exciting sport, even though it is possible for a game to end in a tie, except during the World Cup.  During the tournament any games ending in a draw after extra time will be resolved by a "penalty shoot out,"  the three words other than "Rooney off, injured" that are guaranteed to chill the English heart. 

Those of you who follow soccer will know that Rooney is England's best player.  Those of you who don't follow soccer, why not watch a few games this summer?  Team USA needs your support.

 

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My son, aged 21, is a soccer nut who is rooting for the U.S., although his favorite is Spain, despite the fact that Lionel Messi is playing for his home country, Argentina. He hates Italy. Brazil is a major contender, of course. he is the only 21-year-old I know who has never cared for American football. He subscribes to three premium soccer channels. I sometimes watch games with him, while he blogs with his online friends about this play or that goal. He is the only soccer nut I know, which is sad, because it is such a beautiful game to watch. At its best, it is like ballet.
ladyslipper--I like it so much better than American football. The great thing about the world cup is that there are bound to be upsets too. That and the high drama of the occasion. I think as the US gets better at soccer, more people will get interested.
My son is 3, and already a soccer fan. His uncle lives in London and for my son's birthday he sent him a Chelsea uniform, which he'd wear everyday if he could. I have to admit soccer is one of my favorite sports to watch. We live in Toronto and during the world cup the city goes bonkers, especially in Italian and Portuguese neighbourhoods. Its an exciting time!
Good Luck to the U.S. - but I think due to family ties we'll probably be cheering England :)
Hi Jenna, They're my next favorite team and I'll be cheering them too.
I'm not a soccer oficionado not do I pretend to like soccer, but I will admit there's more to it than people think, and I do enjoy a good match. I don't have a favorite team, but no matter because I'm sure the final matchup will be eventful. Cheers!
football crazy, football mad

http://checkthedryer.com/fitba/The%20Spinners%20-%20Football%20Crazy.mp3
GO USA! GO USA!

and kudos to the editors for giving a soccer post some recognition!

I think the US actually has a decent chance to make it to the quarter or semi finals. If they can make it out of the group stage, they'll play Germany, who is depleted with the loss of Michael Ballack. Beyond that, things are up in the air, but I'm confident we can tie England and win the other group games and make it to play Germany, when things will open wide up and its every team for themselves
Stellaa--you must be a fan! Get the beers in. When in Rome.

Daniel--You may be surprised and really enjoy it.
Jack--I know who you're cheering for. I too hope they do well although I'll never hear the end of it around here.

Studman--Yeah, you can count on things not going all to plan with some of the favorites not doing as well as expected. I've heard the USA team is not bad this year and a good performance would get them some much needed public recognition. Go USA!
"The Scots, allegedly, support any team in any sport if they are playing against the English."
What's with the "allegedly"? The T-shirt/bumper sticker thing "My favorite teams are X and whoever is playing Y" started with X=Scotland and Y=England. Since I moved across the pond, X=UCLA and Y=USC for college sports.

I shall definitely be rooting for the US in the upcoming game against England, though otherwise I will just be hoping for a good tournament overall.
We are very much looking forward to the start of the World Cup here in Baltimore, Maryland. My husband is from Manchester and a die-hard United fan (which I became by association). Having lived in England for a few years before returning to the States with him in tow, I am glad that it now gets much better coverage on US tv. I think most of the games will be shown on ESPN, which also shows a lot of the Premiership now too. I plan to support the US team as long as they are in, and then switch to England (if applicable). My difficulty is I know more of the England players, and as a United fan will have a tough time not yelling for Rooney! I hope we see some great games. Enjoy!
Every four years I get a month in football heaven. There's nothing like it (though the European Championship is getting close). Even calm and dull Norwegians went nuts when our team made it to the second round through an upset victory over Brazil in 1998. Thousands of people poured into the streets of Oslo, dancing and singing. I've never seen anything like it, and probably never will...
GeeBee--I was trying to be diplomatic! Some of the Scots I know are in denial, at least in public.
Kristin--I will be following your strategy too, switching to England as applicable. I'm glad to hear the tournament gets coverage on ESPN now. Enjoy!

Norwonk--Beating Brazil in 1998? That must have been fabulous! I know how excited everybody gets here as the competition gets going. Mind you, when the team gets knocked out the entire nation goes into a deep depression--lots of soul searching, breast beating and gnashing of teeth. The anticipation is building up.
My ex is a soccer referree, my Ghanian son-in-law follows all the Manchester United games. So we as a family will have many soccer parties at his house. Me....I'm just there for the potato salad--even if I have to make it myself!
Christine--You don't need much more than that. Your son-in-law will have his eye on Rooney as will everyone over here.
I've got one thing to say about your delightful piece---
G-o-o-a-a-l-l-l!
My brother was a soccer player nearly thirty years ago, before the sport became popular in the US, and although I'm not by any stretch a sports fan, I have a soft spot in my heart for that one sport -- and I've been known to watch a World Cup match or two.
Thanks for giving the World Cup a little more publicity. I became a fan while I was working in Latin America and later Europe in the 80s and 90s. It's a brilliantly organized tournament.

Qualifications start almost 3 years in advance with dozens of regional tournaments that stretch over months. At this point every soccer (football to the rest of the world) playing country has a chance. I remember that around 1990, the Faroe Islands won some game and tied another and for a few months, they had an outside chance to qualify. But eventually it comes down to the 32.

The 32 are seeded, so that 8 are designated As and they cannot be in the same group. Likewise with the next set of 8 Bs. This ensures that the top clubs rarely get knocked out early by a bad luck draw.

The game itself has a compelling rhythm, especially as it is played during the World Cup. I usually cheer for whichever country has the most pleasing style of play. Often this means Brazil but in 2006 it meant Argentina and since they have Messi and Tevez returning, it might be them again. I do have a soft spot for England despite their frequent uninventive play. I guess spending a lot of time there touched my sentimental side. And there's always some plucky underdog that's worth cheering for.

This year it would be great to see an African club get to the final. I'm really looking forward to this - my favorite sports event of all.
Soccer/World Cup is a pretty big deal around these parts with all the immigrants past and present. Everybody bonds over hockey -- you're not allowed to be Canadian if you don't -- but soccer has a big toehold too.
Lary 9--Thanks for that. You should get a job commentating some of the games.

Bellwether--Pull up a chair with some of those shrimp of yours and a cold frothy something and enjoy the spectacle.

Abrawang--You know more about the tournament than I do. I agree that it is generally well organized and exciting. Do you remember Nessun Dorma from Italia '90? Classic stuff.

Emma--I've never been in the right part of the country to get into hocky much although it is strangely popular in North Carolina where my parents moved recently. I wish the States would take more interest in soccer.

Tomreedtoon--I'm not entirely new to geekdom, believe me. It's quite a nice refuge now that I' ve reached a certain age!

Thanks for reading everyone!
The Cup finals begin Saturday night in the UC in Chicago.
I have been a lifelong Blackhawks fan.
I have season tickets for all the games~~front row-couch.
I will watch every game of this REAL North American sport as, it is the very best and most exciting sport of all.
Kickyball can put Lunesta out of business.
ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
My personal favorite to win it all is Spain though I'm salivating at the opportunity to see Lionel Messi and Carlos Tevez as frontrunners for Argentina. I'll be rooting for the USA anyway and have a case of Smithwicks (pronounced "smit-tics") v. a case of Boddingtons on the US with my assistant coach and trainer (who played for lowly Burnley) in the USA/England match on June 12, a match neither of us will be able to see since our team (elite level U17 girls) is in a tournament that weekend.

The biggest difference between soccer and "pointy" (US) football is that pointy football is a coach's game where nothing happens without the coach's intervention. Everything, every play, is choreographed down to the minute details, even atthe Pop Warner level. Soccer is a player's game. Once my kids go on the field, there is not much I, as coach, can do to control the situation. While the decisions they make in a match are based on the training I provide, I don't (can't, really) make the decisions for them. Indeed, it is counterproductive for me even to attempt to do so.

My road to soccer coach-dom was a bit long and circuitous and I did not play the game growing up. I played pointy football in high school, college, and 6 years of semi-pro ball (or, as my wife called it, "semi football") but got into soccer 20+ years ago when my son's coach quit in the middle of the season. I violated a hard learned tenet of quite a few years in the military not to volunteer for anything; the rest, as they say, is history. I still like a good pointy football game but would switch off the Super Bowl to watch Man U. play Chelsea (or probably anyone) or Barcelona play Real Madrid (but not to watch any Italian flop-ball).
XJS--I have to confess my ignorance here. I don't know what lunesta is. I am familiar with the Blackhawks though. Thanks for reading.

Beentheredonethat--How many times have the USA women's team already won the world cup? The women do so well. My local team is actually Leeds, who you are probably aware had a pretty spectacular fall from grace a few years back. I used to love watching my son play best of all though. I wonder if the parents in the US are as bad as some of the parents on the sidelines here in the UK? That probably goes with any sport though. As a coach of a youth team, I'm sure you'll know.
I'm an American, married to a Brazilian and living in São Paulo, Brazil. You better believe we follow the World Cup here, rabidly, in our green and yellow with horns and flags. I'm a Brazil fan, 100%, unless the U.S. is playing. Then I'm 100% American.

It becomes much more complicated when the U.S. and Brazil play, as you know. I'm almost glad that pairing doesn't happen often. Who do I root for, in that case? Until the U.S. public really gets behind it, it will be a sort of insider event, as you've noted, but to Brazil it means everything. During World Cup games, work stops, school stops, business stops, traffic stops. My fantasy in that case is that the U.S. terrifies Brazil, down to the wire, hard game, penalty kicks. The TV announcers are baffled, on the edge of their seats. My husband is slumped down on the couch, grouchy and annoyed. My friends are biting their nails. But in the fantasy, I guess Brazil wins. It just lifts the nation, if you know what I mean.

But the day - and it is coming fast - that the U.S. starts to pay attention and know what a World Cup victory means is the day I'll be 100% behind the U.S. in any contest against Brazil.

Go Brazil! Go U.S.A! Just don't go against each other!
DRIMH: Thanks for your World Cup Shout-Out; will you be commenting on the results come June? I'm one of the many Baby Boomers who got their first introduction to The Sport The World Calls Football as the proud parent and coach of my youth-soccer crazy son. Now I'm a devoted fan of Barcelona, Lionel Messi, the U.S. National Team, and Whoever Is Playing Italy. The provincial American naysayers don't know what they're missing when they diss world football! I had the privilege of attending the first World Cup game ever played indoors, in the Auburn, Michigan, Superdome when the U.S. hosted the Cup for the first time in 1994. To keep the live turf fresh and green, they had to maintain the temperature and humidity inside the Dome at greenhouse levels. When the U.S. scored its first goal against Switzerland, I screamed so hard that I fainted, causing no end of anxiety in my 14-year-old son. So I believe I've paid my dues as a World Cup fan. The Cup is due to visit the U.S. again in 2022. I'll be 72 then, so I hope I don't pass out again and damage my ageing bones. Best of luck to England (except on June 12), and thanks again for the commentary.
As an American living in the States, but having attended the 1994, 2002 and 2006 World Cups plus the 2004 European championships, as well as US World Cup qualifiers in the US and in Central America, I understand that there will not be the same passion here for USA/England as there will be in England. But I guarantee that there will be passion and full bars for that game---a 2:30 Eastern start on ABC itself---and there will be watercooler conversation before and after (much of it confused, but nevertheless conversation and interest).

Soccer is getting here---slowly but steadily. It is unlikely that it will ever reach the intensity of what is effectively a national holiday called Super Bowl Sunday, but it is slowly getting on the radar screen. I may personally be a soccer fanatic, but I see nothing wrong with US exceptionalism in sports---why can't Americans simply enjoy American football and baseball more than some other sport? Is there something wrong with Dominicans loving baseball above all other sports or Indians and Pakistanis being cricket fans and ignoring soccer. (You note I call it soccer, not football---a pet peeve is the group of purists (those we call Eurosnobs) who constantly putdown Americans for not being as sophisticated as they because we refer to gridiron football as "football").
metalcollector--I know what you mean when you say it lifts the whole nation. It's hard when your loyalties are split. I think the whole world recognizes that Brazil is football.

Dave Z--I love your line about supporting whoever is playing Italy. Ha! England bids for the 2018 games at the moment so who knows it may come here then.

gene13--Yeah, I get lots of static from my teenagers when I use the word "soccer". You make a good point about nothing being wrong with Americans preferring baseball or football. True but I think with all the young people who play soccer, the interest is bound to grow and the US might get into the worldwide spirit that goes with the World Cup.