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I'm a political analyst and cultural voyeur & usually write about when those two things merge. I'm an amateur mother, a professional reader and excel in generalized anxiety, although sadly there is very little reimbursement for that particular skill. And of course, I love books & dogs.

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JUNE 24, 2009 2:06PM

Iran, Multi-culturalism & Genital Mutilation

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There is much talk these days of "forcing" democracy on those in Iran or Afghanistan. Talk of leaving other countries alone to sort out their problems.

In Holland, a country where freedom of expression is revered, Theo van Gogh was murdered 4 years ago by a muslim extremist for making a short film with muslim author Ayaan Hirsi Ali. The film is called "Submission, Part 1". He never got to make "Submission, Part 2" because he was shot, his throat was cut, but not before Theo made the pacifistic request of his killer, "Can't we talk about this?" With a knife, his killer stabbed a five-page letter onto Theo's chest.

The letter was addressed to Ms. Ali.

burqa

The film is about Muslim women who shift from total submission to God to a dialogue with their deity. There is a woman flogged for commiting adultery; another who is given in marriage to a man she loathes; another who is beaten by her husband on a regular basis; and another who is shunned by her father when he learns that his brother raped her. Each abuse is justified by the perpetrators in the name of God, citing the Quran verses which are now written on the women's bodies.

Western women like to insinuate that women make the choice to wear burqa's and veils. That's like espousing that slaves made the choice to pick cotton. Muslim women are killed on a daily basis for being raped, or walking with a man who is not their father or brother. Do you really think they decide whether or not they can go outside without being covered?

When asked why she risks her life to speak the truth about the lives of Muslim women, Ali says, "Some things must be said, and there are times when silence becomes an accomplice to injustice." We know that. In Germany under Hitler they were called Good Germans. Their silence deafening.

Muslim women are supposed to be "baarri".

Ali describes it this way: "It is like being a pious slave. She honors her husband's family and feeds them without question or complaint. She never whines or makes demands of any kind. She is strong in service but her head is bowed. If her husband is cruel, if he rapes her and then taunts her about it, if he decides to take another wife, or beats her, she lowers her gaze and hides her tears. And she works hard, faultlessly. She is a devoted, welcoming, well-trained work animal. this is baarri." If in the process of being baarri you feel grief, humiliation, fatigue or a sense of everlasting exploitation, you hide it."

When American women who have their own bank accounts, college educations, cars, drivers licenses and the right to divorce languidly offer the excuse that "women should be able to choose" when it comes to wearing a burqa or not, they reveal their laziness and superficial knowledge of how women are treated who are not protected under an American constitution.

The silence of the Womens Movement when it comes to defending the basic human rights of muslim women is deafening. Women who would never utter the words, "that slave wants to defer to his master, it shows modesty" have absolutely no dilemma in justifying women's subjugation under Islam. It's proof once again that the women's movement is a political tool only: they have no incentive to support women who actually need support. Only women of a particular political affiliation in a particular western country.

Ali challenges free women to stop tolerating misogyny under the flimsy guise of "multi-culturalism."

Unlike Christianity and Judaism, Islam has gone through no reformation. And because women are considered second class citizens, they have no voice or influence in their religion. There is no choice.

Ayaan and her two sisters had their genitals cut out when she was 5 years old. While her grandmother and two other women held her down, a local man took his scissors and cut off her inner labia and clitoris. Then the man sewed with a long, blunt needle, sewed her closed with only a small opening to urinate. Only great force can tear the scar tissue wider for sex. When the sewing was finished, the man cut the thread off with his teeth.

Ali's life work is to eliminate the arguments by moral relativists who claim that all cultures are equal. The excuse that "nobody knew" needs to be removed. She makes the case that every society that is still in the rigid grip of Islam oppresses women and also lags behind in development. Societies that respect the rights of women and their freedom, like her beloved Holland, are wealthy and peaceful.

 

Thanks to "Infidel" by Ayaan Hirsi Ali .

 

 

 

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Wow. This was powerful, Deborah. Heading to Digg and Reddit. I feel so lucky that while I lived in Egypt briefly, that I was fortunate enough to escape anything of this nature. I remember questioning a lot of it though. I'm amazed I came out of there with all my parts.
Disturbing and powerful. I've heard of the horrors you write of. I've dealt with insanity as a professional and always thought nothing more could affect me beyond my own life. I am wrong. rAted!
Horrifying.

Fuck multiculturalism, I'm all about being open to other traditions and such, but "turning a blind eye" to such abuse in the name of being "politically correct" is disgusting.
This makes me sick. I can only ask, "Why? Why? Why?"
Deborah: This is a powerful post. And informative to say the least. I must think some more about what you have said- particularly about Islam not having gone through a reformation. This was an interesting point. I am a Jew, and I know that this is as "dis" organized a religion as there can be-- though many would claim otherwise. Certainly, Christianity still has a hierarchy, and divisions. Islam has never gone through an internal challenge. I have often believed that until it does, nothing else will ever change the radicalism that causes the world such terror. Muslims MUST stand up against muslims. It is time for their own reformation.

But though I DON'T want to turn a blind eye to ANY type of abuse toward women, I also think that Americans should approach the situation in Iran with caution. This revolution is very different from the one in 1979; the revolutionaries TODAY don't even remember a time like the one that the revolutionaries of the 70s experienced. Most of Iran's electorate is a youth electorate. Their mission is different, their eyes are SET on what America thinks of them, and if we make a wrong move (or suggest something that backfires) it could play out in a very bad way. Obama's approach is to keep watch, make dipolomatic statements when it is important to make them, but NOT to take over. After Iraq, it would be our political suicide in the world to do so.

The only way that I can see that getting involved would be a good idea is if American Muslims begin to act in solidarity with other NON radical Muslims around the world to eradicate this nonsense.
Oh my god. Ohmygod. Ohmigod. Ohmigod.

What can we do? What can we really do???
Tolerance and respect for the religious beliefs and customs of others is one thing, but I've had about enough of this crap. It is horrifying and unjust and ranks right up there with a shower of Zyklon B if you happen to be a Jew on the atrocity scale.
I agree, this is powerful writing. Reading this I'm horrified! I can only imagine how intense & heartbreaking the film must be. I don't know much about other countries & I think that's a problem with OUR country. We don't bother ourselves to learn about other cultures, or we take something offensive & write it off as a cultural situation that has nothing to do with us. Torture & abuse shouldn't be allowed under the guise of religious or cultural belief.

You would hope that in knowledge & numbers there is power. What CAN we do? Keep listening, keep talking about it, keep writing about it, expose it -- definitely. Letters? Donations to human rights organizations? You've given me something to consider that I haven't given much thought to before.
Biden gave the "okay" today for Israel to take out Iran's nuclear plants. Irans leader learned nothing from Sadam Hussein. He weekly threatens to nuke Israel when and if they build the bomb. We must believe him. Just as Sadam repeatedly threatened others with his weapons of mass destruction & used them on the Kurds. If you're going to threaten, we will believe you.
Uganda has moved to outlaw female genital mutilation.

"God knew what he was doing when he created us. Do you think you are more intelligent than God?"

"God knew what he was doing when he created us. Do you think you are more intelligent than God?" President Yoweri Museveni asked the crowd at a recent event launching a campaign against the practice, Uganda's New Vision reported. "There is no part of the human body that is useless."

The president also dismissed any defense of FGM as a "cultural" practice, calling it dangerous not only to women but also to the babies they may later have trouble bearing. According to the Guardian, he also "pledged to help provide an alternative source of income for women who earn a living circumcising girls."

There is a huge gap between passing a law and the enforcement of it.
7/8/09.