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SEPTEMBER 30, 2011 9:33PM

Still hopelessly in love

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True Confession from the Luv Doc/Juicy Crone herself...I'm still, hopelessly, in love with an ex lover who I haven't seen or heard from in over two and a half years! Ugh!?! It would be so easy for me to advise someone else; I would say, get over it...he's long gone! But as the song goes, when he said forever, who knew?

To be honest, I did...I did before it ever got into the really juicy part that it wasn't going to last. When you fall hard for someone who you know is already being dishonest with someone else, a smart person, ehem, like me...should have known it was doomed. Alas, where love is part of the picture, logic often goes out the window...and, it was in my case.

Anyone who thinks they can beat the odds, pull the proverbial rabbit out of the hat and win at this, deserves the misery that's surely the outcome. I may be being harsh on myself, but I'd rather think it's just facing facts. If I don't find a way of stopping the insanity...obsessing about a lost love, then I'm in for a rough ride. And worse, my love bandwidth is seriously compromised!

So, that's my Friday night rant. I tend to agree with the statement, better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. So I'll take that as a small consolation prize and retreat back into my inner thoughts. If you have any suggestions for me to take my own medicine and 'get over him', I'm all ears...

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It'd be really hard for me (happily single) to advise anyone on this one. One of the reasons I am happily single is I discovered I had a habit of falling for people who were unavailable and I valued myself too much to be "the other person." Not saying it didn't hurt. I don't want to get into anything now unless I can be sure that both of us value ourselves and each other enough to be faithful and honest in the relationship.
better to have loved & lost than never loved at all.