The Luv Doc is back from her latest hiatis! 

A lot has happen in the relatively short time I've been "away"...from being happy as poly-single...to double-dating...to happy with the one I'm with! Yes, things are ever busy and ever fascinating my world. And, this rollercoaster ride of relationship has been no exception.

 To be blunt, I won't wish to sound ungrateful, having two people in my life was great...while that lasted, but truly, sometimes a bird in the hand IS worth more than two in the bush.  The "one that got away" was one I had dated last year; he is a great guy, but clearly, there was something that I saw that didn't work the first time... Although I acknowledged that he had grown quite a bit after the past year, obviously some of the changes that came with that were not in the right direction...at least not for us as a couple.

Without going into too much details, it was a good ride while it lasted, but that ride came to an abrupt and unpleasant conclusion last week. We parted; let's leave it at that. When it comes to relationships, the Luv Doc is no different than anyone else, when love bites, you feel it...in places no mere bandage will sauve.

So, on to "the bird"...he is much, MUCH younger than I ever imagined myself to be dating! I spent the first few conversations arguing the case against this relationship working out for either of us. But surprisingly, the younger continues to prove himself to be the more mature...by far. What he lacks in life experience, he more than makes up in fortitude, resilience, and eagerness. It helps that he's also a giver...maybe a tad too much...everything in balance, right? In the end, he's won me over...and I shalll endeavor to forget that one in the bush and tend to the on in the hand.

Happily Harmonious,

deLuvDoc (aka The Juicy Crone)