MY RECENT POSTS
- Why I Keep My Mother at Home
May 06, 2011 10:54AM - The Nuclear Energy Issue and
Other Ill-Fated Policies
March 13, 2011 07:52PM - To Plan or not to Plan: That
is the Question
September 12, 2010 06:43PM - My Time Isn't Ever Going to
Come
August 17, 2010 07:17PM - When is a comment
disrespectful: How much is too
much?
May 22, 2010 09:07PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “I read and reread this
and smiled and smiled. I know
your
prayers, your
recogniti…”
February 08, 2012 12:21PM - “I'm not going to spill
my guts here, but I and my
friends
visited PP when we
were…”
February 03, 2012 10:46PM - “Oy, such nice looking
boys in those soldier suits.
You've
inspired me to think
ab…”
February 03, 2012 12:28PM - “I "get" this although
it's hard for me to practice.
Even
though we
are…”
February 02, 2012 05:45PM - “I have glimpsed this
thing you have found through
lighted
candles and ash
remains…”
January 19, 2012 09:43AM
Denese's Links
Why I Keep My Mother at Home
The Nuclear Energy Issue and Other Ill-Fated Policies
The probable meltdowns that are now occurring at two (now the press says three) nuclear power plants in Japan started me thinking, again about the issue of nuclear power. You would think that as an intelligent people, we've had sufficient warnings of the risks involved in using nuclear power. I remem… Read full post »
To Plan or not to Plan: That is the Question


Image thanks to Christie Abshire Butcher's Students at the University of Texas, Austin
My Time Isn't Ever Going to Come

Caption: I'd rather be living at the beach
I WENT OVER to mom's house this morning to see how she was feeling. She lives in my backyard, so it's just a short walk.
She has had a bladder infection that just won't go away, despite being put on a low… Read full post »
When is a comment disrespectful: How much is too much?
The other day, fingerlakeswanderer, aka Lorraine Berry, posted a quote by Stephen Fry:
“If I had a large amount of money I should found a hospital for those whose grip upon the world is so tenuous that they can be severely offended by words and phrases yet remain all unoffended… Read full post »
Bleeding Hearts from Portland

In Portland, Oregon, where I grew up, Bleeding Hearts or Dicentra Spectabilis are one of the first signs of Spring. They have beautiful pink heart shaped lobes and delicate fern like leaves. Before they bloom the plant stock looks like a gnarly old piece of wood that would… Read full post »
A Health Care Message We Can All Agree On
CatnLion's Comments Re Health Care Reform: Please respond
Sure we can talk but can we listen? Health care debate myth
For the last several weeks I have tried to engage mostly conservative friends and family in the health care debate by presenting facts and counterarguments to their arguments. My efforts have simply made my conservative friends and family either tune me out or become angry with me. I even posted a… Read full post »
I couldn't help myself: A new health insurance missive
Dear Robert [I love you Robert,
even though on the whole I don't agree with you!], from what
I have read, Obama’s plan would reduce costs in numerous
important ways, insure portability, and cover most Americans. He
would do this by:
1. Reducing the cost of underwriting. If you
eli… Read full post »
The Post-It Note and the Wash
The ‘Post-it-Note’ might be one of the greatest inventions known to modern wo-man. I use, the yellow 2X2 ones, which are the standard ones. The color yellow? I do not know/… Read full post »
My son's version of me with no make-up
Here is my son's version of me with no make-up, which is me most of the time. I'm by our back door, just in from outside in the garden, too much sun. He graciously pixilated this a bit to hide the truth. But, whatever, it's okay. This is me at 51.… Read full post »
When he calls you fat
A really bad day can only get worse when your husband
calls you fat
This is the deal: Tonight Rich called me fat. And no I’m not
exaggerating. I’m also not misinterpreting. Those very words
came out of his mouth, or very close to them and under
circumstances where I was/… Read full post »
A Letter to my Son: Advice to pack with you when you go

Middle School Football
Dear James,
I am writing this letter on the eve of your senior retreat. We have
been lucky, you and I. I don’t know many mothers that
have the kind of relationship with their children that I have
with/… Read full post »
Beat this Puppy Picture for Cuteness!

This is Georgie as a Puppy. He is a Shetland Sheep Dog, or Sheltie, and has no toes at all on his left rear leg. Oh yeah, he has his own very dramatic rescue story!
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Georgie's story:
Our prior Sheltie, Tuki, was put to sleep as… Read full post »
New Years with a Living Saint and a Channeling Monk

Buddha and Apostles
This is a copy of a journal post I wrote during my first visit to Sri Lanka in the several months spanning the years 1999 and 2000 of the Christian calendar. A friend urged me to post it as a record to my children that their mother… Read full post »
THE TRUTH REVEALED: Two Truths and one Lie
Shaped by Adoption

Baby denese in the mountains of Nevada
Here are Bardgirl's questions in an Open Call for Adoption Stories.
1. Was your experience as an adoptee or a parent of an adopted child positive or negative?
2. Do you know your/your child's birth history?… Read full post »
Pappa makes a visit: Family fights are good for something
My oldest son and I are in a fight. Somehow we are communicating
the arguments of our respective significant others. Daniel is
speaking for his fiancée and I am communicating for my
husband. At one point,… Read full post »

Civil Service exam under Jen Tsung: Probably a lot easier in LA
I took a Civil Service Exam today, and unfortunately the experience sucked my good attitude reserve dry because I think I flunked it. Maybe I didn't do well because I didn't haul my big bag of… Read full post »
A Big Dose of Mardi Gras: When your Attitude Needs Adjusting
This is dedicated to Deb: You know who you are.............
Lessons Learned by a SuburbanHousewife on the Power of Unity
I confess. I am a suburban housewife.
This is an embarrassing admission to make to the group of people that I traveled with to Southern India and Sri Lanka. Many… Read full post »
I've wanted to write about this for quite some time- approximatel… Read full post »
Things go South when Dad is Away
I dread when Rich leaves town for international destinations because bad things happen when he is away. I say 'international' because there is more time for more things to go south.
My anxiety starts when he makes his typical packing list. See above. Rich is a list
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