
“That life, like the vapor on a tea cup, appeared only to disappear.”
He carried her down the streetHolding her as close to his heaving chest as humanly possible
His strong arms supporting her tiny spiritless form
Thin frail limbs
Swinging free
Lifeless and broken
Blood stains covering her flowered blouse
Torn wool skirt
Bare legs
Infant feet
And frozen questioning angelic face.
A wife watches as her husband frantically approaches
Her worst fears realized
Hot tears burn pale rivulets down her dusty cheeks
Clenched fists raise to heaven
And then lower to beat upon her chest
As another devastated mother wails over
“An expected, yet unfortunate, casualty of war”
He enlisted at 19
Skeptical of what he was told
She was 20 and had unsettling questions
And deep seated doubts
But they enlisted
Nonetheless
Together they fired the rounds
That strayed into a dead end street
Whisking away a “father’s joy”
And a mother’s only child
Together they will live with that knowledge
Together they will spend a lifetime
Wondering
Who that little girl was
And who she was meant to be
Back home another couple
Choke back tears
As they prepare to bury
The flag draped remains of their “little girl”
They remember her
In happier times
Wearing pink ballet tights
And brand new slippers
Smiling proudly as she clumsily attempted
Her first pirouette
That dream
That life
Like the vapor on a tea cup
Appeared
Only to disappear
Almost as soon as it began
Now she belongs to the ages
Living in wounded hearts
And memorialized
Alongside the others
In marble,
Bronze,
And with white wooden crosses
Not far off
In the late afternoon shadows
An older sister
And two younger brothers
Seek to comfort a widowed mom
Racked with grief at the loss of her first born son
Too poor for college
Unemployment rampant in his hometown
Recruiters took a “personal interest” in him
And offered him the “educational opportunity of a lifetime”
While serving his country
In the cause of democracy
And “peace.”
Two more, “expected, yet unfortunate casualties of war”
Less than 50 years ago
We woke one day
To realize
That a war
Like this war
Which seemed “just”
And “patriotic”
At the time
Had gone terribly wrong
And the cost of peace
Had become something
The majority
Could no longer abide
At times like these
We yearn for a reassuring word from our leaders
Clarity
A certainty with foundation
Which allows us to believe
That the casualties on both sides
Are somehow justified
That there actually exists
A noble reason
For the horrific loss of life
Yet, while waiting for solace
The litany of words designed to persuade
Are chanted again and again
Inflaming our fears
Feeding our paranoia
Provoking our darkest side
And urging us to see how our “vital interests” are served
By wars
That leave the slaughtered innocents
In their wake
And play upon our blood lust for revenge


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It echoes the sentiments of friends who have served in Afghanistan recently and whose recounts told of weapons in the hands of children.
The saddest truths are that everybody loses the war and hardly a soul flickers with emotion as we see it trivialised daily by the media on rolling news programmes or in the tiniest of newspaper columns, while X-Factor and American Idol are glorified as front page news.
This world is very confused.
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Thank you for your affirming words. The heart you express is my own. “War is young men dying and old men talking.” -David Benioff. When wars have there own unique logos on the evening news it becomes harder to see the true cost in slaughtered children of every age.
O’Really,
Thank you very much for such a generous comment. I do wish that every legislator and public servant who has anything to do with these decisions would be required to visit hospitals, graveyards, and the grieving parents on both sides before being allowed to cast votes or make decisions that put anyone in harm’s way.
Donna,
Thank you for your comment. The thought you express is echoed by many. Were it the case that we simply acted as the good sheriff in town the discussion would be a much easier one. But our interests have not always been so noble. Add to that the reality that we are now seen by the world as preemptively engaging in war as well as the only nation to ever use nuclear weapons and the discussion becomes so much more complex. I appreciate your question.
Lorraine,
Thank you for your comment. I am amazed with all the reading and reviewing of posts that you do on a daily basis that you have time to add a note to one of the more doggerel among them :)
Frank,
As a wordsmith and man that I admire I appreciate your comment very much.
JL,
Thank you for touching on the heart of why so much of this is unthinkably insane. I think your comment reflects the “reward” of an inner journey that you so have beautifully described in your first post here at OS.
Mary,
Thank you my friend for your encouragement. I often imagine how my opinion would be formed about these wars were my daughter to be required to fight or chose to do so. Perhaps the missing element in the midst of all this loss of life is the human element - which is strangely and terribly inconsistent.
Kent,
Thank you for your kind words and for your insightful comment. I love the reasoned and civil back and forth that you bring to discussions.
Patricia,
Thanks so much for your comment. Aaron Sorkin wrote a line for the character of Wes Mendell for Studio 60 that has stayed with me ever since and I referred to above. He wrote, “Guys are getting killed in a war that's got theme music and a logo.” If that is not a packaged presentation I do not understand the concept. Please know that your dear son and you will be in my thoughts and prayers for your precious prayer to be answered
Stacey,
Thank you for the kindness of your comment and the style of it as well :)
maybe we should stop referring to them as "casualties" and instead call them "people we killed."
Thank you very much for your kindness. I could not agree more. We are so skilled at taking the actual sting out of truth by finding words that have all the hard edges rubbed off to describe it.
How easy it is to wage war when you're sitting in an ivory tower, thousands of miles removed, and able to dehumanize and demonize the opponent.
This should be published and read widely; unfortunately, it won't be enough.
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Thank you so much for such a generous and thoughtful comment. There are so many justifications for senseless killing. I believe the concept of war should be taught and viewed and an unspeakable evil only to be entered into as the last resort. Several centuries ago Carl von Clausewitz wrote that, “War is merely a continuation of politics.” Though the quote is taken out of the context that he intended it is all too often true.
Thank you for your very kind comment and for such an insightful remark. It really is the world we’ve created. Which in a round about way gives me hope that we can change it still.
Karin,
Your comment is at the heart of this post. These are human beings who were loved and cherished. Thank you.
Michael,
Thanks for such a generous comment.
Thank you for this.
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