APRIL 16, 2009 3:45PM

A boy told me I was cute today

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Today, a guy who I have a harmless crush on saw me walking to the vending machine. (He's not my type, I think I would start to hate him if we were dating instead of just occasional chatters, we're both married, and I absolutely cannot picture any alternate universe where either of us would make the first move to even have lunch. So definitely, nothing will ever happen. We don't even flirt.)

To get to the vending machines, I can walk down one corridor, go through a door, turn left, and go through another door. This is the path I take TO the vending machines. Or I can turn left before the corridor, walk straight down another corridor, and only go through one door. That's the route I take BACK from the machines.

So anyway, he noticed this weird route and questioned it. I told him I don't really know why, but that it would probably have driven my grandparents crazy. They had a weird superstition (sorry, I've never heard about it before, but maybe it's not unusual) that you have to leave the house through the same door you came in. All my life growing up, as they were leaving my house, they'd ask each other "which door did we come in." Until I was an adult, I thought they were just making sure to get anything they dumped by the front door.

After explaining this to my co-worker, he smiled with his whole face, eyes lit up, and very nicely said "you're so cute."

So it wasn't in a flirty way, and not about my looks, more that I'm an amusing little ditz, but in a friendly way. And yet it made my whole day. How sad is that? :-)

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Not sad at all. We like to be liked. What's wrong with that?

I wonder, though, what your grandparents would do if they locked themselves out and had to climb in a window? ;-D

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It's not sad at all...it's perfect. We need those kinds of comments in our lives. Remind us that we're of value, in whatever sense, to other people. Your story/exaplanation made him smile, and his response to you made you smile. We all need to smile a little more these days.
nope, not sad. i think it's sweet. glad to hear you're eating, too;)
That door thing is awesome. I'd love to hear if anyone else has heard of that same superstition.
Someone genuinely smiled and loved your story. It's a happy moment, and you give us those all the time here on OS!
well, if this is a sad, then I"m a sad sack, b/c it sure made me smile
You captured the moment. Excellent!
it's not sad, that is how we get through the day!
Well, I never...hrumph, ahem, Snort! Sounds like harmless fun...NOT!
Ah, I don't feel like so much of a pathetic loser now. Thanks!
You should totally revel in your cuteness! Flirting, maybe. A cool person who knows how to validate others definitely. And flirting doesn't always have to be about "Hey, hey, little lady, let me romance you." It can be, "Hey, you're a neat person, I'd like to know more about you because you're cute!"
I take compliments from anyone wants to give 'em.
Not sad at all - harmless crushes and random flirting can make an ordinary day fun. What blows me away is that your grandparents and my grandparents have the same superstition. I swear I thought it was something weird limited to my own family.