NOVEMBER 18, 2013 8:00AM



Life is a lot like a teeter-totter, in that balance is always strived for and seldom if ever achieved. We are all constantly going through the ups and downs of happiness and misery, success and failure, and too often having our rear-ends slammed jarringly on the ground. Getting both ends ofRead full post »

NOVEMBER 14, 2013 9:22AM

In, but not Of

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When I was very young, having one day seen God looking down at me while I was watching clouds, I was utterly convinced that I was very, very special and that I would one day do great and marvelous things. To some degree,Read full post »

NOVEMBER 11, 2013 7:59AM

I, Philistine

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philistine: a person who is hostile or indifferent to culture and the arts, or who has no understanding of them

It is not that I am either hostile or indifferent to culture and the arts, but I do tend to have far less understanding of them than I should. I haveRead full post »

NOVEMBER 7, 2013 8:43AM

Political Correctness

BlackI’ve never opened a blog with a caveat/disclaimer before, but when I wrote and sent this one to my friend/webmaster Gary, he wisely pointed out the following: 


I think, by the way, that you miss the whole point of political correctness.  You focus on your past and thRead full post »

NOVEMBER 4, 2013 8:27AM

The Haunted Mouse


I do not wear a tinfoil hat, nor do I see conspirators in every passing stranger. And just as I am an agnostic because logic will not allow me to be positive that there is a God, I also cannot believe without aRead full post »

OCTOBER 31, 2013 8:06AM

A Matter of Words


It all comes down to words. Without words, there would be no language. Without language, there would be no civilization. Of all the things that set Man apart from every other creature on earth, it is words. They are infinitely malleable and, depending upon how they are put together to formRead full post »

OCTOBER 28, 2013 7:59AM

I Do Not Go Gentle...


Why am I so obsessed with being old? Why is it still a horrendous shock to realize that I, eternally young in mind and heart, am suddenly old in body? What happens to people as they age? When do they find themselves notRead full post »

OCTOBER 24, 2013 8:00AM



Our society is so increasingly complex and difficult for any single individual to fully comprehend, let alone keep up with, that we are often totally unaware of the erosion of those things which raise humans above the other animals.

Simple honesty is aRead full post »

OCTOBER 21, 2013 8:34AM


HypeHave you noticed how ours is increasingly a culture of superlatives? Nothing is simply "good" anymore--it's 

"marvelous"/"amazing"/"stupendous"/"incredible." And even in punctuation, the old standby sentence-ending "period" is going the way of the dinosaur, being replaced by the exRead full post »

OCTOBER 17, 2013 8:24AM


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One of the most basic but unrecognized of all human needs is the need for validation--the reassurance from others that we not only exist but have value as human beings. We never outgrow our need for consideration, for courtesy, for friendship, for praise, all of which show us that we areRead full post »

OCTOBER 14, 2013 8:13AM

Time Travel and Jim Crow

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Hatred and bigotry do not die easily, as any daily newscast or periodical will attest. There are still far, far, too many people who insist the President of the United States is somehow not qualified for the office, based on utterly specious logic masking blatant racism.  Still, despite oRead full post »

OCTOBER 10, 2013 8:00AM


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Oh, dear Lord, how I love bureaucracies! 

Yesterday, I mailed a book to a friend. I carefully put on more postage than I knew it needed, and dropped it in my corner mailbox. I found it in my own mailbox today, covered with important looking stickers totally obscuring the address ofRead full post »

OCTOBER 7, 2013 7:59AM

The Herd

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I’m far-too-frequently dismayed by stories of individuals being physically assaulted in public places while those in the immediate area do nothing to stop it.

And yet, in a natural disaster, acts of incredible bravery and self sacrifice are common. How can we reconcile these two disparatRead full post »

OCTOBER 3, 2013 8:25AM

Ben and Cleo


While I was never blessed with Narcissus's beauty, we do share an overwhelming element of self-absorption. I never cease to be amazed by me and by why I am the way I am, or why I see life the way I do.

I take inordinate delight in little things which wouldRead full post »

SEPTEMBER 30, 2013 8:09AM

"I," "Me," and "Everybody Else"


For absolutely no reason I’m aware of, I found myself pondering the difficulties in really, really grasping the difference between the elemental concepts of "I/me", "you," "them/they." All my life I’ve been painfully aware of these differences, and that there is me, and then there'Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 26, 2013 8:26AM

Slow Dancing


As so often happens, yesterday I heard a song from the late 70's/early 80's which swooped down, picked me up, and all but bodily threw me back in time to my early days in Los Angeles, and in a heartbeat I was in the Canyon Club, dancing with my friend LarryRead full post »

SEPTEMBER 23, 2013 8:45AM

That Which I Should Have Done,...

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My favorite painting in Chicago's Art Institute is Ivan Albright's "That Which I Should Have Done, I Did Not Do," (subtitled "The Door"). It is a somewhat-larger-than-life oil painting of a distorted, weathered door with an withered funeral wreath hanging from its center.Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 19, 2013 8:02AM

A Visit With The Dead

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When my mother died, in 1971, I quit my job, bought a motor home, and took off in an effort to...what? I didn’t know and am still not sure. If it was to get away from thoughts of her death, it didn’t work, and I found myself in a cemetery inRead full post »

SEPTEMBER 16, 2013 8:28AM

A Ticket to Ride

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The imagination is one of mankind's most valuable assets. I take great delight in exercising mine, and truly enjoy playing games with myself. Today, I find myself playing The Great Philosopher and the Train of Time. My obsession with time and the speed of its passing is well known by anyone… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 12, 2013 8:00AM


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At the end of 1939’s classic film, Gone With the Wind, Vivian Leigh, as Scarlet O’Hara, asks Clark Gable’s Rhett Butler what she is to do without him, and he replies, “Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn!” It was the firstRead full post »

SEPTEMBER 9, 2013 9:35AM

Words Written, Words Heard

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I’m constantly fascinated by small things of which, though they have always existed, I suddenly become aware for the first time. 

I’ve only fairly recently begun having all my books done as audiobooks, and in the process thereof realized for the first time the really significaRead full post »

SEPTEMBER 5, 2013 8:28AM

Damned if You Do...

MoreThat we humans are able to exist at all in so infinitely-complex and frustrating a world is a testament to our resilience and flexibility. We are bombarded every moment of every day with contradictions and challenges and decisions, and somehow we manage to wend our way through the minefields,… Read full post »
SEPTEMBER 2, 2013 8:13AM

The Kindness of Strangers


I've always loved Blanche DuBois' final line in “A Streetcar Named Desire,” when she takes the arm of the doctor who has come to escort her to a mental hospital: “I've always depended on the kindness of strangers.” Tell me, Blanche!

I have always depended on the kindnes… Read full post »

AUGUST 29, 2013 8:00AM



Sim•plism: noun, rare; the oversimplification of an issue.

In my endless search to try to figure out who I am, what I'm doing here, and what I'm supposed to accomplish in life, I have determined that one of the major roadblocks in my search is the fact that I operate and… Read full post »

AUGUST 26, 2013 8:00AM



I always got a kick out of the old saying that when it came to butchering pigs, they use “everything but the 'oink'.” I can relate...I do the same thing with my life. I find it difficult to get rid of anything, especially words, that I may either use in the… Read full post »