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Feverish Ravings of a Middle-Aged Mind
FEBRUARY 28, 2009 7:34PM

Anonymity and Psuedonyms

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I've been posting things online since 1982, when I got my first University computer account.  A long time.  And from the first, I've used my name (sometimes slightly abridged).  I felt like, if what I was saying wasn't worth putting my real name on, I should probably refrain from posting it.

Since then, I've recognized times and situations where a bit of anonymity is called for.   If I were The Squirrel, I would be pretty wary of alienting some of my customers, even if such   Could tequilaanddonuts be so marvelously absurdist without the cloak of anonymity?  I admit it:  psuedonyms have their place.

But not me.  I'm right out there.   If you looked up my name in the Austin phone book, you'd find me.  If you google'd me, you find some of the documents I've published professionally.  I am me.  And this, um, out-thereness has served me in a number of ways, the best of which is that it's kept me from publishing rants that could be hurtful, either to me (by, say, torpedoing my job prospects with someone) or others, if inadvertently.

The down side of this is that I can't write about stuff that is absolutely consuming me at times.  Maybe trouble with the kids, or a friend, or my job.  And that can be hard sometimes.  Like now, during this sucky, sucky econ0mic time when I'm spending most of my time away from home, lonely as hell.

So I don't know where other people come down on the whole anonymity issue, but that's where it is for me.  Not that y'all asked.

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Your bio says family dude, so I empathetically get how lonely as hell you must be away from home in this sucky, sucky economic time.

Loneliness is tough and yet very universal.

Anonymity for me is much tied to internet safety and what you said about freeing me to express myself, even though I don't write all that intimately.

My best wishes for a quick and successful resolution to the economic need that keeps you from home (whether it's searching for work or over-the-road driving to make ends meet.)
My sort-of general conclusion on this topic is that I think posting anonymously is ok IF the content (a) isn't illegal, (b) physically dangerous (i.e. you threaten or incite others to hurt someone), or (3) emotionally dangerous (i.e. you say damaging things about someone that could impact their ability to get a job or otherwise function).

And as a version of the 3rd category, you mention content that could be damaging to your own life, to your own relationships... I don't believe that it's for another person to judge the anonymity question in this regard. Thoughts?
I'm with you Douglas, I've always pretty much been wysiwyg. Though I post under my initials, I don't hide my name or who I am. And I agree, there are some limitations on what I could write about, sometimes catharsis is good for the soul re family issues in being about to write and wail about some things.

I applaud your openness, it's that way for me too.