#42 “Have you ever done it in an elevator? ” Alex Forrest - Fatal Attraction 1987
If we could only answer our deepest thoughts ourselves; would we want to tell? If we could only know what we want and how to obtain that satisfaction; could we be more intriguing? If we knew what it was that drives us to get physical; why don't we seek more unobtainable interactions?
Bottomline, is it really about sex?
Sex in our 20s is about nailing someone... any someone. Sex in our 30s is about pinning down that intimate peak within ourselves and our partner. Sex in our 40s is about trying to get back to our 20s; reinventing that hunt. Sex in our 50s is about rekindling that intimacy. When we get to our 60s and the 70s...we are still wanting it more and more. We just want to nail someone as long as we can. So, is it eminent that we are sexual creatures? Are we horn dogs? Closet sexual head cases?
What does sex mean to you? Is it an act? Is it passion? Desire? Is it selfish? Is it competition?
As we hunt our prey we realize that everyone else is hunting as well. Its like a game. You either score or you don't. We imagine what it would be like to encounter a forbidden catch. We visualize and get excited knowing that, 1. Oh.. how nice would that be to land? and 2. Wow... in my day, I had enough game to get it and I'd be good. As humans we are sexual creatures. Finding our dynamic sexual half is addicting and empowering. We strive to keep up with society. We strive to compete others sexually.
So.. who has the best sex life; is it those who squeal and share? Or those who keep it under wraps?
Who knows the best position, the best angle? Who wants to share, who wants to keep it a secret? Who is brave and creative about sex? Who is embarrassed about sex? If you could remember you best sexual encounter was is mind blowing? Was it an event? Fatal Attraction is about obsession. A friend of mine said the elevator scene had an energy like caged tigers. If sex was at that caliber... every time... we wouldn't need to compete. We'd just want to keep up.
Have you ever done it in an elevator? Would you?


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