A Dragonfly in the Ointment

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Dragonfly

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I'm 45 years old, married for 22 of them, and the mother of 2 teenagers. I'm a software test engineer by profession, and rather geeky. I've spent almost my entire life in Northern CA.

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Salon.com
SEPTEMBER 1, 2008 4:26PM

Pregnancy, hypocrisy and the right-wing morals test

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What's galling is this: When the subject is a pregnancy to an unwed, minority teenage mother growing up in some (presumably Democratic) urban area, that pregnancy becomes fodder for lectures from conservatives about bad parenting, the perils of welfare spending and so on. But when the subject is a pregnancy to an unwed, white teenager from some small town in a Republican state, that pregnancy is...a celebration of the wonders of God's magnificence--and choosing life! Thomas Schaller in Salons’s War Room 

Friday morning I received a long and extremely boring communication from a frothing-at-the-mouth conservative I used to work with several years ago. I will spare you the details, but basically the screed was all about character. It will come to you as no surprise that it basically stated that we should vote for McCain because he has Character, as proven by his military service, and, of course, his status as a former POW. Obama, on the other hand has less character in his entire body than the sainted McCain has in his pinky finger since he never served in the military.

We have been hearing this for years from the right, It’s All About Character. The left has  consistently rejected that argument. Frankly I see nothing wrong with applying the right’s character tests to those on the right. The character we need to highlight is hypocrisy.  The pregnancy of Sarah Palin’s daughter Bristol is an excellent example of this double standard, and the quote above sums it up nicely.  I am not criticizing Bristol for getting knocked up  at the tender age of 17, but if I apply the test the neo-cons have been applying to the families of other teenagers who are in the family way, the Sarah Palin turns up lacking. This is not my test, it is hers, I didn’t make the rules, I simply ask why the rules are different for Palin. Why aren’t’the right wing pundits rushing to lecture the Palins about their lack of moral center? All the right-wing moral outrage over teen pregnancy seems to be drowned out by an overwhelming chorus of crickets. 

Say it with me: Hypocrisy. What’s good for the poor and minorities is not good for rich white folk who vote Republican. So what does it say about Republican character when their VP nominee has a 17 year old daughter who is 5 months along and no Repub utters a peep? They haven’t been shy before to poke their noses into private business and inform how the world how the other side is lacking in morals and character. It’s not wrong to point out how they have failed to apply their own standards to their people. Hypocrisy is one big, horking character flaw.

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If Mrs. Palin were the Democratic candidate for VP she would be excoriated by the right wing as a terrible mother: (a) campaigning while having a newborn at home with special needs, (b) having an unmarried teen daughter who got pregnant, and (c) traveling around the country when she has small children. However, since she is a Republican, the right wing now co-opts the Democratic position to make the argument that Mrs. Palin is indeed a wonderful mother, i.e., that the government should just leave the daughter alone because it is none of anyone else's business. That is precisely the argument for pro-choice and gay marriage!! how convenient for the right to use the argument when it suits them - as this article so brilliantly spells out. Is Mrs. Palin a good mother? at least as good as Jamie Lyn & Britney's mom and Dina Lohan - all great examples of famiy values.
Thank you for your kind comments, Sue.

I kept hearing, thorough out the Clinton presidency what a bitch Hillary was since she held down a high-power job and could not have been a good mother. Except one small problem, Chelsea grew up, went to college, went to grad school and is not knocked up. I look forward to these same pundits applying the same standards to Sarah Palin. (yes, I know, I know)
For me, it is not about Bristol or the pregnancy, it is the moral police refusing to police themselves. I do think pregnant teen mothers should be left alone, but I’m also going to call foul when those who had gotten up in the business of minority teen mothers all of a sudden get all privacy advocate-happy when a white Republican chick has a bun in the oven. I’m not calling Bristol names, but I sure as hell will be calling all the prominent evangelicals names for changing their tunes.