A Dragonfly in the Ointment

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Dragonfly

Dragonfly
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Marysville, California, USA
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March 11
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Title? No one said there would be titles!
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No, thanks, I'm a loner
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I'm 45 years old, married for 22 of them, and the mother of 2 teenagers. I'm a software test engineer by profession, and rather geeky. I've spent almost my entire life in Northern CA.

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Salon.com
Editor’s Pick
MARCH 2, 2011 2:31PM

I have a Purple Heart in the War on the Middle Class

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For several years, I thought I had it made. I was working for a large hi-tech corporation making good money and good benefits. I worked hard, earned the respect of my coworkers and bosses and was rewarded for my hard work and dedication. I earned enough so that my husband didn’t have to work and he dedicated himself to raising the kids and cooking wonderful food.

We didn’t live high on the proverbial hog. We lived in a good neighborhood with decent schools. The house was not huge, 1756 square feet, hardly McMansion dimensions, but it had 3 bedrooms and 2 baths, so it was good enough. Our cars are decent cars. The Kia minivan is 8 years old. Mr Fly’s Chrysler is 12, purchased used from my parents. My Chevy is a couple of years old, but it has a lot of mileage, and it was purchased primarily for its fuel economy. You will notice that none of these is a luxury nameplate.

So, we had a good life, not a great life, but comfortable enough to afford modest contributions to my 401k and an occasional jaunt to Disneyland with the kids. Then, the War on the Middle Class came home.

First it was little things. The cost of our health care went up, and up, and up. Every year was a little more. Then the company decided to cut back on the amount it would contribute towards the company stock purchase plan. Then they stopped subsidizing the company cafeteria, so the cost of  eating lunch went up. The number of celebrations declined, along with the quality. Christmas Party? What Christmas party? And they took away the modest company pension, forcing us to contribute more to the 401k. Then came the 5% pay cut.

Every year we lost little more ground; but hey, it was better than lay-offs, we told ourselves.

Then the layoffs hit.

Every day I came into work, I heard about another person I knew who was given the pink slip, Keep in mind that these people where not bad employees who deserved the boot, these were honest, hard working, smart folk who were simply on the wrong project at the wrong time. Your project got canned? Well so did you.

Thus I found myself out of a job after 20 years of service, with no idea where my next mortgage payment was coming from. It was my little contribution to "sharing the pain".

I was in luck, sorta. I found another job, but it pays a third less than my previous one, and I still have the bills of someone who makes my previous salary. We are struggling to pay the bills, living paycheck to paycheck, a new experience for me. Those occasional trips to Disneyland have dropped to non-existent. We are unable to help our son with college. We are considering walking away from our modest house if the bank won’t work with us and drop our interest rate a point or 2. I am dealing with the fact that I will probably never be able to fully retire like my parents did, since I haven’t been able to afford to contribute to my new company’s 401 or participate in the new stock purchase plan.

While all this was happening, I was helpless. Hi-tech workers are not unionized, so there was no one to speak for me and my fellow workers. We had no way to fight back, or even to negotiate, with our corporate masters. We just had to bend over and smile for them; all the while being grateful we had jobs. We worked for companies that were raking in BILLIONS, not some state government that is millions in the hole, but we still lost wages and benefits. We had to “share the pain.” My future is trashed, have I shared enough pain now?

So I stand behind the workers in Wisconsin and other states as they fight for their collective bargaining rights. Without such rights, it’s just too easy for the power players to take away from their workers to balance budgets and inflate corporate profits. I know firsthand how the people in power treat the average worker, and it ain’t pretty.  Anyone who is watching this must understand the long term implications of this war, and understand that if you are not in the top 2%, you could be next casualty. 

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I have a retirement plan. I plan to work until I'm 74 and then drop dead. : )

Our generation got dicked, no doubt about it. While our fathers were snoring on the couch like a bunch of Rip van Winkles, their leaders were busy shredding the social contract that made it possible for them to go from hardscrabble beginning to comfortable affluence in half a generation.

I don't have any advice, except to say hang in there. Take care of each other.
I have a retirement plan. I plan to work until I'm 74 and then drop dead. : )

Funny, that's my plan too! Thanks, Patrick.
This is a story for Ed

you go into work, the secretary calls you, you go, you're fired, clean out your desk, guard will walk you out.....been there!
Very sad commentary on our reality. We are the casualty generation in more ways than one.
♥R
Elijah, sorry you have been there, it's not place where you want a lot of company.

Fusun, thanks for the comment!
Could be? Going on 2 years unemployed and struggling to hang on to what little we have. No one gave me a purple heart.
Sorry to hear that, Major. I wish you all the best.
This is pretty much my story as well. I'm so sorry and hope things will get better for you. RRRR
Good for you. I also back the unions along with a majority of the public. You would think this would make the republican governors cave in. Not. Idiots!
Great blog, you captured an experience shared by way too many...I have a feeling my husband and I will be working till we drop as well.
We need to start up-dating the Union concept to include more service workers, educated workers, scientists, IT folks, etc....

Information Unions for an Information Society.
People will understand when it finally happens to them.
We are self-employed so our story is different, but we were also taken down several pegs on the middle class grid. I feel you.
amen!

a lot of blue collar workers have been dying for years, but white collar workers thought it could never happen to them

I admire the fact that you and your husband invested time in your kids, they only have one childhood. I think your analysis is spot on!
I never thought I would be poor as an elder but I am afraid I will. Here's hoping things look up for you and your family--for us all!
Bernadine - Thanks! I hope things get better for you too!

Scanner - It actually looks like the battle has hurt Scott Walker. Maybe if he goes down in flames, the other governors will think twice.

DivorcedPauline - thanks for the comment, I hope you can enjoy a happy retirement at some point

Rwoo59 - You are right, but white collar professionals have largely bought in to the anti-union BS, so I doubt that will happen.

Harry's Ghost - Unfortunately, once it happens to them, it's too late. Even then, a lot of people still don't get it. It's sad.

Blue Stocking Babe - Sorry to hear the self-employed have been caught up in all this. Mr Fly is currently looking into starting a business.

Kathy - you are right about the white collars thinking it could not happen to them. There was a lot of smugness among the engineers at my previous job, "WE have engineering degrees, WE are in demand!" Yeah, in India and China.

Mary - I think the fact that our generation will be poor as elder will have a very affect on the economy, but no one seems to be willing to do a anything about it.

Bonnie _ RUN! I'll vote for you

Thanks, all, for the comments!
Thanks for saying what needs to be said louder and more clearly by many more. All or most of our so called political leaders over the years have greatly contributed to, if not entirely responsible for, this erosion of the quality of life for the majority and the support of the greed of the few. And what's worse is so many have been sleeping or ignoring the road we have been going down. To paraphrase a great quote "Bad things happen when good men do nothing."
Honestly, I think the top 2% doesn't see a single thing wrong with all of us peons living paycheck to paycheck. After all, corporations make much more money off of the lower middle class and the poor - what with all the increased fees due to poorer credit ratings, having to pay in installments etc. The poorer you get, the more expensive it gets to live. I am so sorry this happened to you - and so appalled that it is the new norm; just look at these comments! What will our children have to look forward to?
Personal responsibility and self determination are inherent attributes of the free agency inherent in human nature. Its the difference between wild animals and civilized human beings.

This problem is not a conspiracy. It is a result of our success. That intense concentration of industrial power in the midwestern USA has been the economic engine that has produced the vastly larger global economy that we have now.

I recommend creating your own free enterprise, instead of working for someone else's free enterprise. Start by supplementing your income and build a high performance profit center in your own home office.

I created my first free practice website, earthling09, while I was homeless. Now, I have a pretty good job driving a truck while I'm creating this second, www.holistic-home-office.com, more commercial website. They both directly address this issue. They are written by me, a person who has suffered extreme and chronic poverty and homeless for most of my life.

I like to read and I'm studying this issue in order to solve my own problems, in the process of help other people solve their problems, whatever they may be.

Allah'u'Abha
Great post.

I am sorry this has been your fate, but I am not surprised to read it. My new book details what it feels like, emotionally, physically and intellectually, to face a huge comedown in income/status/challenge and wonder when or if (ever) you'll reclaim work and an income that actually mean something to you, and allow you to be something more than a wage slave -- "grateful" to only have been half-screwed.

I served the top 2%, the hedge fund boys from Greenwich who scooped up millions in bonuses while savaging the economy (see the Oscar winning "Inside Job" for details) and they don't even see the rest of us as human. We are invisisble, a new servant class.

Read my book and laugh, or weep. But it is the new reality as retail -- poorly paid, no benefits or promotions or raises for most --- the nation's single largest source of new jobs.
I sincerely hope you get back to where you deserve to be on the payscale someday. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. It's likely little consolation, but you're not alone. Many others are facing the same future. You're right, this is exactly why the union fight is so important. Sadly, the cause lost badly here in Ohio yesterday and in a few weeks, our unions will be completely powerless and the members totally vulnerable.

Hang in there...
Terry – I love that quote and have been thinking about it a lot lately. All I can do at his point is speak out and add my voice to the debate.

Blue – I do worry about what my kids have to look forward to, a LOT. That is probably fodder for another blog post.

Earthling – Glad you are moving on up! Mr Fly is currently working on starting a business that I hope will free us in the same way you have been freed. Meanwhel I continue my wage slave ways for the health benefits.

Caitlin – I love the term “Helf screwed” that pretty ftis where I am right now! I will keep an eye out for your book.

TMH813 – Tahnks you for your kind comments. I am hanging in there, by my fingernails, but I am there. I was so sorry to read about Ohio. I’m hoping you all don’t wind up like me.
Oh, boy. I am so sorry to hear this -- even though it is a very common story these days (well, that it is common makes me even sorrier). The company I'd worked for all my adult life bellied up at the very beginning of the Great Recession, and it's been contract work for me ever since. I live and die from individual project to individual project, and if a client is late, I have to pay my bills late too, and bow my neck to the "convenience fees" and other such associated therewith. I do not live grandly, to say the least.

The top 2% chip and chip and chip away at us, and then when there's nothing to chip at any more, they fire the gutshot, it seems. It hasn't followed any other pattern for my lifetime (I am also Gen-X).
I feel we have a government that has sold the American people out. Washington D.C. has proven to be Wall Street's largest brothel. What do you think would have happen to these people on Wall Street if the had been Chinese?
This is very sad and very scary. Thanks very much for sharing your experience and naming it for what it is: a class issue.
Kate – I am so sorry to hear that you are stuck in contracting hell. Hang in there, I’m rooting for you!

Dotcat – had the Wall Streeter been Chinese, we would not have stood for it

Laura – thanks for the comment. It is a class issue, I hope enough people realize it in time.