Ellie Lumpesse
Ellie Lumpesse
- Bio
- Ellie Lumpesse writes about sex, BDSM, relationships, non-monogamy, feminism, and rhetoric. In addition to blogging, she produces the Bedroom Radio sex podcast and is a phone slut for hire.
MY RECENT POSTS
- Loose Woman
October 24, 2008 10:05AM - ugly, ostracized and socially
inept
October 22, 2008 03:12PM - 4 Symptoms of Bi-phobia
October 22, 2008 09:00AM - Suburban Ennui Leads to Needle
Play
October 10, 2008 02:51PM - What’s wrong with sex work
October 09, 2008 02:22PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “This video is great.
Thanks for sharing! It reminds
me of
Athens Boys
Choir.”
November 02, 2008 05:18PM - “@Max
I know it seems
like a retro argument, that is
why I'm shocked that
they
are…”
October 23, 2008 07:05PM - “@Helen
I always find
it amazing how run-of-the-mill
liberals suddenly
become
ragin…”
October 23, 2008 07:01PM - “This is an incredibly
inspiring video. Thanks for
sharing
it.”
October 23, 2008 10:00AM - “@Dana
Also, the
comments on this post have
made it clear to me that
my
next post n…”
October 22, 2008 07:11PM
Ellie Lumpesse's Links
This post originally appeared on my blog at lumpesse.com in February of 2007.
***
Character
by Taslima
Nasrin
You’re a girl
and you’d better not forget
that when you step over the threshold of your house
men will look askance at you.
When you keep walking down the lane
men
That is how the clients of sex workers are being characterized in the comments on this post. I don't have a lot of time to react to that right now but it troubles me deeply. In a post about compassion and fighting repression drawing that sort of line in the sand… Read full post »
I've been having run-ins with biphobia lately in a place where I expect it but still wish I could feel safe, the kink community. So, it got me thinking about some of the ways in which bias against bisexuals is displayed. I write this with the understanding that there are more… Read full post »
This post originally appeared in a blog I contribute to called Junkbuzzed. It chronicles my first time trying a form of BDSM edge-play that involves needles.
So, a few weekends ago I did something that was profoundly stupid. I laid down naked on a massage table of questionable origins in a… Read full post »
I stay away from a lot of feminist blogs because, well, reading them often hurts my soul. In fact other than perusing Feministing and Feministe, I leave it up to Ren, Trinity, Amber, and Caroline to keep my up to date on what is happening vis-a-vis sex and feminism. These ladies… Read full post »
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