Ellie Lumpesse

Pretentious Pervert

Ellie Lumpesse

Ellie Lumpesse
Bio
Ellie Lumpesse writes about sex, BDSM, relationships, non-monogamy, feminism, and rhetoric. In addition to blogging, she produces the Bedroom Radio sex podcast and is a phone slut for hire.

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 24, 2008 10:05AM

Loose Woman

This post originally appeared on my blog at lumpesse.com in February of 2007.

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Character
by Taslima Nasrin

You’re a girl
and you’d better not forget
that when you step over the threshold of your house
men will look askance at you.
When you keep walking down the lane
men

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Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 22, 2008 3:12PM

ugly, ostracized and socially inept

That is how the clients of sex workers are being characterized in the comments on this post. I don't have a lot of time to react to that right now but it troubles me deeply. In a post about compassion and fighting repression drawing that sort of line in the sand… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 22, 2008 9:00AM

4 Symptoms of Bi-phobia

I've been having run-ins with biphobia lately in a place where I expect it but still wish I could feel safe, the kink community. So, it got me thinking about some of the ways in which bias against bisexuals is displayed. I write this with the understanding that there are more… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 10, 2008 2:51PM

Suburban Ennui Leads to Needle Play

This post originally appeared in a blog I contribute to called Junkbuzzed. It chronicles my first time trying a form of BDSM edge-play that involves needles.

So, a few weekends ago I did something that was profoundly stupid. I laid down naked on a massage table of questionable origins in a… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 9, 2008 2:27PM

What’s wrong with sex work

I stay away from a lot of feminist blogs because, well, reading them often hurts my soul. In fact other than perusing Feministing and Feministe, I leave it up to Ren, Trinity, Amber, and Caroline to keep my up to date on what is happening vis-a-vis sex and feminism. These ladies… Read full post »