Linda Seccaspina

Linda Seccaspina
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July 24
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The Maiden of Death
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When you wish upon a star
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MAY 31, 2011 9:59AM

What Happens to The Dying Towns We Grew Up In?

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Once upon a time Lanark Village, Ontario was the place to go on weekends when you wanted to enjoy a lovely Sunday. Lanark is no different than the small town that you and I grew up in.

 

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The village was first settled in 1820 by Scottish immigrants who named it after the town of Lanark in Scotland. It soon became a major hub for the lumber and textile industries, both of which used the Clyde River. It runs through the village, as a source of power and as a transportation route to move logs east to the Ottawa River.

The textile industry lasted for about 170 years, but was finally defeated by the flood of cheap Asian imports into North America. Logging still continues in a much reduced manner, producing wood mostly for the pulp industry or for firewood.

 

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Until the late 1990s the major employer in the village was the Glenayr Kitten Mill which produced clothing and offered their products at several factory outlet stores in the village. After the Kitten factory closed the town just was not the same and one by one the businesses closed down and now it's just a shell of what it once was.

 

The busiest place in the village is the "Chip Truck" on one of the corners. A man asking if they have any old deep frying grease  is greeted with laughter when he tells them he uses it to attract bears. The two high school girls admire my wallet and ask me a series of questions about life outside the sleepy hamlet.

 

"Is it true they have taco trucks in California?"
"Do you drive a Hummer?"
"Have you ever met Lauren Conrad from The Hills?"

 

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I pull into the park and there are children at the unsupervised beach swimming with inner tubes. It really wasn't a beach but just the lazy Tay River with lily pads and bull rushes. No one thought for a second about the bacterial content of the river after last night's storm. No one thought about life guards or safety precautions. It was nothing but a Norman Rockwell situation in all its innocent glory.

I drove through the main street and down the highway to Herons Mills. Once a small thriving community supported by a mill, it died decades ago. The abandoned houses that were once there are now gone.  Someone has torn down the old frame mill but the stone bridge across the river is still partially there. If there wasn't a sign no one would know what it once was or how people had their roots there. 

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I pass by the old frame Victorian home sitting back in the field that has been deserted for at least 30 years. The wood is black now and I think a strong gust of wind might blow it all down. I keep a picture of it on my desk top back hoping one day I might win money and restore it to its former glory.

 

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At age 59 it is now a passing dream, yet it will always be there for me to think  about. I think about innocence of a time gone by, where people went out at night for ice cream. Families were strong and plentiful, as were values. Mothers didn't work and you came home from school and there were homemade treats and neighbourhood friends to play with.

When did it all end?

When did the innocence stop?

I fear for the younger generations and how they will not know what it is to stop and feel the breeze of the trees on your face, and the peacefulness of the land.

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Dying villages give way to the urban areas where memories are few. Huge box stores are replacing the mom and pop shops in small towns where no one knows your name when you enter the store.


It is a time now when people want it all but if they stopped one second and remembered  a passing memory maybe they wouldn't want it anymore. Maybe small towns and villages wouldn't be dying by the second. After all if a house  and lives have no foundation what do you have?

Text and Images: Linda Seccaspina

 

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One of your best ever posts Linda. When we lose the small town we lose what is best of our "civilization". The young don't comprehend it...yet. And this is something that has been going on now for a couple of generations. More's the pity.
For 59 - You are still a young woman for some men.
There is a Clyde River near Shelbourne, Nova Scotia.
Kitten Mill? Local History is interesting. Know roots.
I can't imagine how You keep up your animated pace.

Maybe we will get back to fun square dancing in streets.
We can play hooky. Just lie. Put Ya thermometer on fire.
Place the temperature gage under a beeswax candle wick.
We can puff on silk that we harvested in tasseled corn fields.
We can play doctor and look for hidden freckles and find cure.
Pimples and freckles can be viewed as beauty marks on bodies.
If thee economy crumbles Linda S. can sell coconut macaroons.
The stress level in the 21st century needs to go get! You no 64?
The worry is `
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Will someone still Love Us When We are 64- Years old. Nope?
Mom and Pop Shops sell fleas, lice, ice cream, and lumpy Yogurt!
EEek. I come to OS and see pictures of my local dying village. Should be lost in obscurity, OS-wise.

Hah! You and I will have to fight it out in our fantasies re that old Victorian house... And I have fantasized about buying that thing in your first photo - or even more so, the one next door... And the Kitten mill was supposed to become another *spa*. Spas seem to be a growth industry in these parts. Inn & spa (that went bankrupt, now under new hopeful ownership) in Perth, a huge new one overlooking the quarry in C.P. But poor Lanark, it hasn't managed to become an antique and "gift" shopping place, like Perth or, spectacularly, Westport and Merrickville. (Who buys that stuff anyway? Oh, okay, once in a while I make off with something vaguely Paganish...)

I have yet to sample the chips from that wagon. Used to be a chip fan, something to eat on my way home or to somewhere. Now I have a fear of carbs and refried grease.
I grew up in a big city that's dying as well. I know where all the jobs are going, but I wonder where all the people are going.
Linda, I'm always sorry to see this type of fate that envelopes these beautiful old towns with so much history. I have seen so many areas of the Midwest that no have a similar story about lost industries and abandoned buildings that were so carefully constructed a century or more back in time. Thanks for your thoughtful post on this story that is now being repeated in so many communities!
"Kitten Mill" is a strange name indeed. Most parking lots and sloughs around here are kitten mills in a different manner of speaking.

I wish I had a satisfactory answer to your closing question. In this post you have shown us both the cause and the cure of alienation in bot Canada and The U S.
I grew up in the Bronx, but still, it had that community feel (our apartment building) where all the neighbors knew each other and helped each other and played together. Today everyone is in such a rush. I too fear for the younger generations.
Steve - first the automobile. (Who wants the limited choices at the village store when they can zip off to the supermarket in town?) And, of course, outsourcing. China can produce nice fluffy Kitten-sweaters (the name comes from that product) cheaper...
Linda...finally got through! Took me forever to log on but the wait was worth it. There's a book that echos your views about the power of our home towns called "The Geography of Bliss" and the author, Eric Weiner, writes that happiness is derived from a sense of community and shared history that our home towns give us. When we lose out roots, we drift and feel isolated and alone. Your blog portrays this so well.
Walter ripped the words straight off my tongue...er, fingertips. This is a dreamlike post. The photos resemble impressionistic paintings with their misty refracted light. The absence of all but a few subtle signs of people in them add to the surreal effect. This town might be dying, but you've captured its nostalgic beauty so perfectly that it will remain alive forever.
Six hours later I finally get on here. This is something that happens everywhere now. The ghost towns of the future?
Like your town, Linda, my home town was built on one industry: logging. Once the old growth forest was gone, the insubstantial replacement trees they planted could not support the industry. That, plus a diversion of the main highway away from the town, have stunted its growth. There are probably fewer people living there now than there were when I was growing up.

This paragraph particularly struck home with me:

At age 59 it is now a passing dream, yet it will always be there for me to think about. I think about innocence of a time gone by, where people went out at night for ice cream. Families were strong and plentiful, as were values. Mothers didn't work and you came home from school and there were homemade treats and neighbourhood friends to play with.

Those are the good memories. I have a lot of bad memories of my home town, too. To this day I am quite conflicted about going there to visit relatives. I want to see them, but I don't want to be back in that atmosphere. Ah well...that's life. Nothing is totally good or totally bad.

Lovely blog, Linda. Very well written.
Oh, how lovely. This town reminds me of some of the villages I visited in England. I especially like the photo with the laundry hanging outside. I miss the fragrance of air-dried laundry.

Lezlie
call in air strikes
This is a wonderful piece of nostalgia. It made me melancholy for the town where I used to spend a month every summer. A town settled because it was on the railroad line and six miles from the town before it. But, it had a lake, like many Minnesota small towns, and this kid loved to fish with her grandpa in that lake.
rated with love and memories
My hometown had NO stoplights, 400 people, and when I go back even the areas surrounding it have grown to where it looks totally different. Our village had 700 people in it the last time I checked. It was just in under the amount they needed to be called a town. :-)

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My town is gone too (population 1623). They knocked down the building that arched across an alley from the barber shop to the five-and-dime. Looks like somebody knocked out the town's front teeth.

Ginger, new kitten, purring behind me became slightly distraught when I read her the part about the "Kitten Mill." We were both greatly relieved when we learned they made clothing.

Beautiful post, Linda.
My husband and I took the kids to a small town this weekend to visit a beautiful pond and fish. He and I entertained the idea of staying. Then we went to the grocery store and were reminded we just don't fit in there. But it's nice to visit and share.

Beautiful post!
Wonderful post. The old times die and the younger generation just doesn't care! Seriously...~hug~

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I lovely backward look, Linda. That time, as you say, has ended, though I'm not so sure it was innocent. Still, the pulse of life took on a more measured beat. As you probably know, there have been efforts to create the small community lifestyle, but, by and large, they are too engineered and miss that intangible bedlongingness that a small hometown can impart. My community no longer has a downtown to speak of--consignment shops, a manicure/tattoo shop, several arts and crafts places, tanning places, a bank and a drug store--that's it. The clothing stores, the hardware store, the health food co-op, the sports stores--all gone now. Stark, sad, grim.
Linda, you out did yourself with this. I doubt a lot of kids today put down the phone or computer long enough to just sit and watch the wheels go 'round and 'round like my man John Lennon did for five years. A shame!
No Jobs = No More Town or Big City. Look at what happened to Detroit.
yep - the towns are disappearing along with the vast middle classes that lived there.
Nice one.... my small town certainly went the way of the wind. Simply blew away and never recovered.
Walter: It really kills me to see these dying towns. Herons Mills was beautiful too.

Myriad: I have had these pictures for awhile. I love Lanark.
Westport is financed by all the Americans that come up through the canal for the summer. Reminds me of Marin.
Smart girl no grease for you. At least you wont have bears after you.:)

Jeanette: Neither do I!
Designanator: One only has to look at the empty old warehouses in Cleveland to know where everything is going.. Overseas

Another Steve: I used to go there every Sunday. Now it's a ghost town.

Triology: It is a huge loss
Marsha: I have waited months to do this blog then OS crashed all day
Thanks Matt! I appreciate it
Rugrat: IT has been a bad OS day
Maurene: Thanks.. To me there is always something comforting in a small town

Lezlie: Everyone used to hand the laundry out.:)
Don.. air strikes?:)
R Poetess: Even the rail road lines are gone..
Heart: Lanark and other places will always remain the same in population.
Paul: They produced soft sweaters:)
Rei: LOL I know what you mean.
Jerry: Downtowns have all but dissappeared
Scanner: you said it
Little Willie: Exactly
Noah.. there is no more
Algis: how sad is that
So sad...the interstates, then fast food franchises, then malls. The tipping point in my estimation was the development of "mall mentality,"and it was all downhill from there. Mindless shopping. Community based on materialism. Hello Kitty. You sum this dilemma up well with your particular example.
This is too good for the likes of us! I think of my hometown and its motto: "Dying on the vine". Even with all of the wild growth years back, my hometown went backward! Across the river and up the highway, it was all booming.
Linda, are you now back in this neck of the woods? I didn't know of this place but the locally raised husbear was well aware of the Kitten Factory the moment I brought it up.
Very nice essay Linda but I have mixed feeling about its underlying theme. many young folks have been leaving small towns once they had a chance. I grew up in one with a population of 7,000 and for all the good points you mention, the impersonality of the big city does give you little more privacy. And if you were one of the several unaccepted minorities, gay for example, forget about coming out in Sticksville.

The Economist had a recent article on the lost values of small towns brought about by big boxy chains. When everyone knows you and your circumstance, some are apt to gossip. Here's the article link.

http://www.economist.com/node/18710280

While I enjoy and admire much about small towns, I wouldn't want to give up city life just yet.
So true..so sad..so often happens. Even my birth town of Seattle, Hanford Street, where I was born and grew up, in my tender years, soon after the age of 6, the big house on the corner was leveled and in it's place a commercial block o whatever appeared. There was no going back. Great and relevant post.
Dirdnl: when I was young we went to a small grocery store every Friday night. Tiny but personal and as they sang,
"Everyone knew your name"

Xenon: The grape vines grew sad to say..:(

Various: I have tons of pictures that I have kept.. This was a lazy summer afternoon last year.

Abrawang: Your points are well taken and yes you do have more privacy in a larger town. The big box stores have now enetered the smaller towns too and as I well know.. gossip is everything in a small town. It keeps the veins alive.,,, and I have heard some dillies (stories) about myself.
Just Ctahy: I think you have it all summed up..
There is no going back
Thanks for this Linda. Lovely photographs. You are a trooper if there ever was one.
What happens is a sad thing. People leave one by one, leaving only memories. Thanks for this excellent little trip down memory lane. R.
I grew up in one of these abandoned industrial towns. There is nothing more depressing and vacant. Great depiction, I felt and saw exactly what you described
I was raised in Ottawa, a city that is still growing and now live in a fairly small town. No more cities for me, Toronto did me in. Luckily there are still people out there like me who want to move back to the land, or close to it. But, yes, we're losing those small villages way too fast. I think Cobden is still the 1000 population it was when I lived there 20 years ago. Can it be that long??
Lived in both Carleton Place and my favourite- Almonte for years. Beautiful small towns that I miss terribly. Cobblestone main street, short walks to watering holes. Short walks to anything. And everywhere- something to see. Need to go back for a visit and explore. Would love to retire to Almonte- I just might.
Lived in both Carleton Place and my favourite- Almonte for years. Beautiful small towns that I miss terribly. Cobblestone main street, short walks to watering holes. Short walks to anything. And everywhere- something to see. Need to go back for a visit and explore. Would love to retire to Almonte- I just might.
My little home town (23,000) is maybe not so little, but it never gets any bigger. It is surrounded by smaller towns that were once centers for feed and grain sales, etc., but now don't have much reason to exist.
It's a different world now, isn't it? Lovely and nostalgic post.
Truly sad. Here in NY State, there are lots of towns and cities that were industrialized and now abandoned. They are ugly and sad, but the citizens keep trying to attract commerce stealing from other towns. R
There was a deep sadness here. Thank you for giving us a moment to think about lost worlds.
Beautiful but sad post full of nostalgia. Your last image looks like a impressionist painting.